Learn How to Get Her Back If you are sure that you really want your ex back, it will take some time and some work but you can get your girl back. 1)Although what I am about to tell you may seem that you are going in the wrong direction, you just need a little patience and rest assured that this is a very important step in your journey to win her back. Do not communicate with your ex in any way. give her time to realize that she misses talking, and spending time with you. 2)Give yourself time to sort out your emotions and become strong again. There is nothing more unattractive to a female than someone who appears desperate or too needy. 3)This is really an important step if you want to learn how to get her back. Go out and have a good time and flirt with other girls. This will kill two birds with one stone...it will get back your confidence and make her jealous at the same time. Remember the old saying, "you always want what you can't have". 4)If you want to learn how to get her back, this goes back to step 3. Let her know that you are having the time of your life without her. Keep busy and just go out and have a good time! Whether you feel like it or not, just fake it until you feel it! There will be a time when it just hits you...Wow! I'm actually having fun and not even thinking about getting her back. 5)Go out and treat yourself to some new duds or get a new hair style. The point is if you want to get back with your ex, looking good is feeling good and she will notice too. She'll suddenly see you in a whole new way. These are just some of the things that I did to <b>get my girl back</b>. And you know what? It worked! We have been back together now for 7 months and are even talking about MARRIAGE! I tried all of this by reading "The Magic Of Making Up" a step by step guide by T 'Dub' some great stuff!