What's going on everybody?! This is my first blog and I'm basically going to explain a little on what this blog is about and why I'm writing this blog. First of all, this blog is NOT a lesbian sex collumn. If you need sexual advice then please privately e-mail you're questions. This blog is made for relationship/dating advice for men. I'm a lesbian, who has been with my gorgeous girlfriend for three years now. We have an excellent relationship and friendship. For years, I've had some of my best "guy" friends come to me with questions about women. Now, I'm a not a "male bashing" lesbian. I love guys, they are great! My closest friends are guys. I just don't want to have sex with men. lol. But this blog is about how to date women, pick up women, and what women really want in a relationship. I'm hear to answer some of those questions, as well as bring into view some of the big mistakes men make.

Men's biggest enemy when it comes to relationships...is their "you know what". I hate to say it, but it's true. They are obsessed with it. Now with lesbians, we don't have that issue for obvious reasons. So, men...stop thinking about it!!! Eliminate it from the equation! Here are the rules you need to always remember:

1. Communication is the key. It's more than just getting to know her likes and dislikes. You're words are your gift. Women love to know that a man is listening to her, and acknowledge that you actually are listening. Don't just sit like a lump on a log.

2. Your hands are you best asset. Don't under estimate what the hands can do. Remember lesbians have one less tool so we have to make it up in other areas. ;)

3. The best lessons come from romance novels. If you don't know why then you obviously haven't read one lately. Remember women are gentle creatures, they want romance and to be swept off their feet.

4. Confidence is the key!!! I can not and I mean not stress that enough. When you walk into the room, you have to step in like your Donald Trump. I mean look he's still swooping over his hair and do you see his wife?! All women are attracted to confidence, more than money, looks and sex...it's confidence that is a turn on. Build up your self-esteem. Find something you're good at that makes you proud and work on that with women.

I've gone into a room and picked out the most gorgeous girl in the room and have sucessfully turned her into a steady girlfriend. It's about how you talk to a woman, how you approach her and remember....she's just a person. Don't be scared, women can sense it. I know tons of guys who are like "I don't know what to say." What ever happened to just "hi", don't be so intimidated by a woman's beauty that you can't speak. Just talk as if you're talking to one of your closest buddies. If she's a snob...move on...don't take regection personally. We ALL get regection...I have, and what can I say...I have a wonderful relationship with a gorgeous woman for going on three years now. And when you meet that gorgeous woman leave the sucking up for your boss at your 9-5. Women like a challenge just as much as you do. Show her you're interested, but never toooooo interested. Boredom is the key to failure.