I told my boyfriend as we looked into each others eyes.You have to start being more convincing, If you want this to work. The thing about relationships these days are that people want more freeness to do what ever they want .People don't like to be told what to do,or to be on lock down. Relationships have changed and changed for many years. Today there are more single moms,without help in the household, because men have failed within family value. What happens to the love in a relationship,why can't it stay spiced up?Is it because a couple just gets tired of each other?No,It's one you..Try things you usually don't, have fun,relax,enjoy your life together, an get it a little spicy every now and then to get it heated in the relationship.

TAKE time out to know ,exactly how your partner feels about things an how they like everything.Get to know the good and bad things of your relationship, so that you know what needs to be changed ,if your going to stay together, but don't give up on it so soon ,just because you have been together for 3yrs. There is still more to find out about a person still more things to learn in the relationship just learn how to hold it together.stay focused,an just Enjoy the love that one another has to share.

Choose some one that makes you feel refreshing.Like a fresh breath of air.Value the important things in the relationship,and just don't over react over the little things that don't count enjoy your life whether your single or in a relationship because you only have one life to live.

Men can be to over whelming or controlling at times so the best thing to do when this happens is take a deep breath just so what's going on won't stress you out too much . Women must take controll of the situation so there won't be any surprises,We must learn our men because if we don't we will never know what satisfies them.