Life Planter

There is a saying that God sends human being in pairs into this beautiful world. I realized that I found my pair after my marriage. We are happy pair. As we have many similarities among us. At the same time we are dissimilar in many cases. In fact, this is very much natural. But strange to say, we (me and my wife) yawned together almost all the time regardless of anything. It will be a long list to speak in details the similar things among us. Moreover, we have a common feelings like:

If you became landscape, I will become an artist

If you became night, you will feel my silence

If you got hurt, I will feel the pain

If you became hill, I will make you green

If you became forest, I will become flying bird

If you chastise me, you will find me innocent

If you became eyedrop, I will become your eyes

If you became alive, I will be your love

In the begining of our conjugal life, I used to tell my wife one thing most of the time that we need to become planter all the while. As life is like a surface of land and so we need to be life-planter. And we will find happiness always, if we plough our life honestly and relentlessly. And that is not all. Besides that, we need to keep in mind that we are looking for the gold.

When you go digging for an ounce of gold, you have to move tons of dirt. But while you are digging you overlook the dirt, whereas you look only for the gold. This has a very important message though sometimes it may not be apparent that there is something positive in every person and every situation. We need to dig deep to look for the positive.

For that we need to change our focus. We need to become a seeker of good. We need to focus on the positive in our life. Start looking for what is right in a person or situation instead of looking for what is wrong. Because of our social and other conditioning, most of us are so attuned to finding fault and looking for what is wrong, that we often forget to see the positive picture.

Enjoy Life...