Life is a funny thing. Sometimes it gets really hard, and just when I think I can't take anything else, something really wonderful happens. This time a year ago, I left what I called home for 25 years, and a marriage of almost 22 years. I came back to my home where I grew up. I didn't have a job, no money, very little possessions, just myself and high hopes of survival.

Here I am, a year later. I have the most wonderful job, making decent pay with an appreciative employer. My kids are doing wonderful. I have survived the separation, and I have a fantastic relationship with a dear person. In looking back over the last year, I have three daughters that married, a new grand daughter, and unbelievable personal growth. I have a brother that has finally decided that I am not as stupid as he thought, and is finally acting like a brother! I would have never imagined life could be so much calmer.

My biggest problem is that my car is down. I have another one to drive, but it is not mine. But really, when I think about it, I could have nothing to drive at all, nothing to be down. I am really quite fortunate. How did I overcome all the trials of the last year?

It has been a matter of a strong moral support group behind me, and not letting me give up. My dear friend, has listened to me gripe and whine, cry and laugh. He hasn't walked away for a minute. He let me get through it, and then he would tell me to just stop this feeling sorry for myself, because I am stronger than this. My mom, who loves me through any and everything. But most importantly, I have found this inner strength that I never knew was there. And here I am, a year later, with nothing but positive thoughts, and my girls, that have been there for me, just as I have been there for them. I am grateful and appreciative for everyone! Thank you so much!

Life really is a wonderful gift. I must thank my Dad, for always encouraging me to be brave, to never give up, and for building in me, the internal fortitude to continue through the roughest of times. I miss you Jack, and I love you more than you can possibly know. Thank you for always looking out for me!