Lesbian Advice for Men: Lose the Drama
57SAVE THE DRAMA FOR YO MAMA!
I don't think that can be any better said. One of the main reasons men today fail in relationships after getting a girl is the constant drama. First of all guys, get rid of your ex's...not many women can deal with an ex. And if she can, then you got one hell of a girl. My girl can deal with me being friends with "some" of my ex's, but the ones she knows still have a "thing" for me...well they had to get the boot! What can I say, my girl comes first, and that's how you should be too.
Relationships are work, we all know that...so stop getting all pissy when the romance dies that's a given. But it's either leave her, or work it out...and 9 times out of 10 if you leave her...you'll want her back. Remember when I said communication is the key, well it truly is. Most big fights in relationships are stupid fights, it's because you let so much stuff go that you explode over the little things.
1. If you're pissed off, don't be afraid to say so. Just learn how to say it in a away that doesn't bring her on the defense. Screaming matches lead to know where, and violence is a definite no! If you're angry go cool off, then come back later...tell her what made you mad and why. But don't bottle it up inside.
2. Flirting is cheatings ugly cousin. If you're not loyal enough to be in a relationship, then stay out of one. There are too many risks with emotion, STD's and pregnancy to be cheating on someone...men and women. And it all starts with flirting...keep those eyes from straying...you're woman is constantly watching you.
3. Get those psychic abilities! No I don't mean you have to be like Professor X, from X-men, but you better learn to read her body language. Women hate to verbal...unless they are nagging, and this doesn't refer just to intercourse. Women may not say if they need something and almost want you guess, the more you learn your woman by the tone of her voice, body language, temperment...the more you learn to "read" your girl inside and out.
4. You're ex is not your best friend. First of all 9 times out of 10...ex's get in the way. They are a reminde of "what has been", well leave the past in the past. Most ex's...not all...are always trying to rekindle a flame. If you're ex honestly and truly respects that you are in a relationship, and you know you're completely over that person, and you're girl is okay with...then that's great! My girl is friends with some of my ex's, and other one's she can't stand. Learn those boundaries and don't cross them. Relationships are respect. Remember don't do anything you wouldn't want your girl to do.
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