10:05 PM

Marriage the biggest commitment you will ever make in your lifetime.

Some will marry for love!!!!

Some will marry for Money!!!

Some will marry because of a child!!

Some will marry for stability!!!!

Marriage for Money - how long will this last, how long before they realize that money is not happiness . Sure it is nice to the finer thing in life, like the big diamonds are nice but what about the sentimental value behind the symbol. There would be none!!! A big fancy house is wonderful but with no love to fill it with,is it real a home? How long will they be able to look at their spouse and live with themselves knowing it is just about the money!!! How long before they realize money in not happiness and go looking for the adrealian rush of love that everyone longs for.

Marriage for a child- not a good situation for anyone involved the feeling of being trapped or stuck in a marriage without a choice and to know the child suffers too is totally not fair for anyone!!!! The child ends up thinking they are the blame for your unhappiness!!

Marriage for stability- This one is good almost on the same line as money but with a twist! You meet some and feel you can learn to love them NOT!!! This is were you here the line( I love them but I'm not in love with them) to me that is just Crazy!!!! Before they know it they don't even want to be in the same room together!!! everything they do or say make the other crazy!!! That sound fun NOT!!!!

Marriage the commitment of a life time the honor to stand before god and say your vows, is amazing when  it is truly for love!!! In the vows it say till DEATH DO US PART!!!!!

Marriage for love - I believe that should be the only reason for marriage, loving and knowing that this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with!! Say my vows knowing the meaning behind them. Knowing that there will be trying times and working through them. No one said marriage was easy but marring for love is the way to go!!!!

I guess the whole reason for writing this is, I believe that marriage should be valued more then what it is !!! I have been married now for sixteen years and been with my husband for twenty. I could not image myself in a marriage where I was not absolutely in love. I have to say that I am very lucky in love!!!!

HERE IS A LITTLE TIP FOR YOU ALL!!!!

THE PAPER IS NOT A FREE MAKEOVER

YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH THEM AND WHO THEY WERE WHY CHANGES THEM

AND TO ALL YOU LADIES THE Va-J SHOULD NOT BE USED JUST TO GET WHAT YOU WANT!