SUMMARY: man and woman are two parts of a whole, the complete man. The two are different in everything, in their morphology, into the world of the senses as the sensitivity, sensuality and sexuality, on the understanding and affection. It is important that both men and women know what they are and how the opposite sex, since it depends which complement and be happy.

In a conference? Marriage? Dr. Lucas Gutierrez Vega, a professor at the University of Salamanca, Spain, University of Leuven, Belgium and the Pontifical University of Rome, Italy, based in Salamanca, Spain, extracted the following notes, which by their novelty and importance, have been reported in various educational forums and groups of couples who were being prepared to formalize their engagement.

Parts of two realities: first, we do not know how we are, much less know what the opposite sex. Rather, we have a misconception of the human person, as in the case of machismo and false concept of what is the male. The lack of mutual understanding that results in male-female relations in friendship, courtship and marriage primarily, are not going to get along and therefore will not be happy, and second, as in the law of physics which states that opposite poles attract and same poles are rejected, so the great attraction between a man and a woman is because they are completely different in everything: in his body, his sensitivity, sensuality and sexuality, in their understanding and their emotions.

Let us point out that men and women not only are different in everything, but they complement each other, they are two sides to form a whole. The child we will not consider it practically is a being undifferentiated. The boy and the girl almost no different. With the exception of the sexual organs, both are equal in their anatomical features and especially themselves do not feel different. The difference begins in adolescence, at which stage the physical changes occur, physiological and psychological.

1. Morphology. The difference between a man and a woman starts from the human X chromosome and the Y chromosome to the woman. In connection with the skeleton, the man is more straight and upright and the woman a little more inclined, less straight. There is a greater difference in the thorax: the man is very broad shoulders and bulky chest, while the woman's narrow shoulders and chest too bulky. But in the pelvis poles are reversed and the man's narrow hips and women, wide, because of the role to be played when mother carrying a child.

Another difference lies in the muscles of the body, which in man can be seen and perfectly delineated, whereas in women not because their forms are more well rounded. A notable difference is in the voice: the voice is serious man, deeply and women have an acute soprano voice. Another difference is in the hair, hairy man is all over his body, while the woman is hairless.

The largest and most notable difference is, of course, in the sexual organs, whose study is done completely in anatomy. However, neither the man nor the woman separately, are carriers of everything human. You can not conceive a single man or a woman alone, we conceive them to each other. Both are part of a whole and complement each other. In the morphological sense, man is manly and women are women. For the men we love that women are women and women in love to make men virile, manly.

2. Senses. Now for the world of the senses. I feel a man and a woman is very important that we know all, both men and women, as educators, parents and all those involved in their education and training. Let's divide this study into three senses: sensitivity, sensuality and sexuality.

a) Sensitivity. We understand the sensitivity that we have ability to attract men and women, receive or feel sensations through the higher senses of human beings that are sight and hearing. These senses, the human person, not as in animals that only capture what is around you. In humans, sight and hearing are more spiritualized sense, are those through which leans mostly to the outside world our soul, our spirit. These are the senses through which man captures the visual and aural beauty: a landscape, a horizon full of nuances, a range of colors, a symphony, a harmony, a set of sounds in a concert? Through them we can not only capture the visual and aural beauty, but also can create it through music and painting. It's more artistic ability.

However, given this newfound world of visual and aural beauty, man is more sensitive than women. He captures more visual and aural beauty that women, both in quantity and quality. This can be checked with the story. There have been more and better musicians, painters and men than women. Not that women do not capture the visual and aural beauty, nor that it can not create it, but can not do the same intensity and quality that makes the man. Arguably, women not been given the opportunity to be in this field due to confinement to which he has been confined almost always. The reason is different: she's not going to the outside world this way, she is on the path of sensuality as discussed below.

b) Sensuality. We understand the capacity we have sensual men and women to capture, receive, and feel sensations through the universal sense of touch, which we know is distributed to every part of our body. But the sense of touch in man and animals is that only capture what is around you. The man picks through this sense, beyond what he feels and what surrounds it. It's like an antenna that captures living beyond time and space. A description of the sense of touch in general would be very extensive, it covers an immense range of sensations. Other may include the following: the people feel unique, to feel our own self, different from the others, to feel our world of thoughts, desires and dreams, the sense the world around us, not only our home but also the block where our house is located, the neighborhood, city, state, nation, continent, world and to all unive

rso. Much here could explain the science of Astrology, a little or a lot discredited because of its inaccuracies and successes.

Through this sense of touch when you feel hot or cold, good or bad, when we are still or when going at high speed until the vertigo when we let ourselves into laziness, languor, the feel protected by our family, society. In short, the list is endless sensations that might catch through this universal sense of touch.

Now, how is the man and woman in sensuality? Undoubtedly, women are more sensual than men. The woman is a tremendous sensual, he can not hide his feelings, whether pleasant or unpleasant. Cry, cry, get excited sometimes to a fault, until you get sick. Vibe to any event. As if she sees and hears every pore of his body. And is that the soul and body are so united woman who appears to be a soul in the footsteps of a body, which is why it is the woman's body is more tender, more delicate, more spiritual, more beautiful. Even his gait is more harmonious. Her love of dance, dance, is one of its features. The great dancers of history have been women and not men. Great men are not just dancers prototypes of manhood. The range of feelings that a woman is infinite.

A woman loves affection through touch, mime. She loves to be caressed, carried, brought, thrown, kissed, embraced, and so on. Instead, the man does not have this range of sensations, her sensual world is very small. Not that I feel, what happens is that it feels the same intensity and quality of women. What a pity that men do not know this way of being of women! The significance of this I'll explain in next section. From ignorance depends on the unhappiness of the couple and other problems. To conclude this point we see an example.

If we put men and women before a landscape, what would capture the two differently. Man, as an artist, goes to the outside world through the eyes and ears, when you see the landscape goes out of it and placed in the landscape. He says he is in-persons. While women across the landscape attracts her to him and he feels inside and around his body so he says he is in-itself.

c) Sexuality. We understand sexuality that we have the ability to attract men and women, receive, feel sensations through the sense of touch is located in the sexual organs. These bodies are the most directly receiving hormonal discharge electrifies the body of man and woman. You feel stronger and more enjoyable we can feel.

In the world of sexuality apparently the man is more sexual than women. Sexuality in man is like an animal. We know it is so hard on the animal as it launches its kind to unburden himself strongly. For in the man's sexuality is equal and can do and feel not only every day but several times a day. It is very strong and very fast, since the eye or the imagination is tremendously exciting. Hence, in marketing it makes use of figures to attract the mostly male sexuality. However women are not excited by the sight or in imagination, she goes to sexuality another way, by sensual, as we shall soon see.

The importance of this in the relationship between man and woman is too large for the happiness of both. If man is quick to sexuality, if not dominates, runs the danger of using women as an object for their relief. It may be that women, being reduced to the level of an object, it will not be happy in sexuality, it will not reach orgasm and will reject this kind of relationship, and man can happen that the woman, his wife , you start to get bored and try to find happiness in other women who probably never find.

The woman, who is a tremendous sensual, can only be reached through sensual sexuality, through touch, words, a very special environment to be conducive to the awakening sexuality go throughout your body. It seems a slow and long but full of feelings by which man has to walk. And if so, the woman will reach orgasm perhaps more intensely than men, or can get it several times and therefore pay off the older man also welcome. Both have to do their part. Man must strive to master the speed of their sexuality and transit through the way of women, full of feelings. This, in turn, must strive to understand that man is very sexual and very fast and, therefore, that both cooperate to walk together in this world of sensations, which can take full advantage, combining the two forces of man the enormous amount of feelings of women, without ever being bored or

feel the need to go looking on the other hand, creating ever new sensations and ways to reach ecstasy, as in a melody when you combine the twelve sounds to infinity.

3. Understanding. We now turn to another layer of the human being, a top tier who is understanding. If we saw that man and woman are different in their body and senses, is, consequently, they are different in their understanding, since it is embodied in a body and in some ways they are different.

If we saw that man is an accomplished artist is that his understanding is this: calculator, math, abstract, cold. Man likes to think much, she likes the world of reason. The reason sciences have created these men, not women. The great mathematicians and philosophers of history have been men. The man is not compromised. He likes to see to believe. It is suspicious, cold and calculating. Instead the woman, as is a tremendous sensual, have an understanding like a sixth sense, a hunch, an intuition. The woman does not need reason to understand many things. Before the events happen senses and intuition. It's like a radar that can grasp objects in fog or darkness.

The importance of knowing the above is great if it comes to making decisions in the couple. Both men and women are smart but in a different way, in different ways. They need each other to avoid mistakes. The man needs the woman to prevent and put on notice in case of danger or something unfavorable. The woman also needs the man to calm down so they do not compromise easily. That makes it difficult to make mistakes and if this happens then there would be no reproach was mutual responsibility.

4. Affectivity. We come now to the most important of our subject. In the life of the person most important thing is what he loves. Affectivity is the powerful engine that drives him to perform great deeds good or bad. Consider how a man loves a woman and how she loves a man.

In man there are two very large forces that are his spirit and his body in sexuality. It is situated at the woman in two ways: on the top of his being, spirit, spiritual qualities attracted to women, but for the bottom of your being, your body's sexuality, you are attracted to the physical qualities the woman, her beauty, her body. The two forces have the same intensity and tend to separate in a given time. The formation of the character of man is to dominate and harness these two forces throughout their lives. But men who are led by one of these two forces. On the one hand we have those who are led by the spirit and not taking into account the body. They are like angels or people who are very intellectual and sometimes not related to any woman or despise it. But there are also, not taking into account the spirit, they are driven by sexual instinct and meet like animals. This force tends to separate sexual man

of spiritual strength and is always manifested throughout his life when he is alone, when his wife is not settled or when there are problems between the two and then look to vent. Such is the case of an affair a few hours, a woman's sex servant. That's why sometimes walks with two or more women, married or boyfriend. It is an explanation but not a justification. The true man, complete will be one that dominates the two forces and channeled to one woman, the woman who would complement. In this sense the man is double, is unfaithful.

Instead the woman is the soul and the body completely united, so that in it there is no such duality in man. Therefore, be placed before the man in only one way. If a woman loves a man will love him forever and given in full. There is no division in the female. Love in women is greater than between humans. You could say that the woman is love made person. Never has man come to love as he loves a woman. Although there are many men who love women, if it is not decided by one, there will be no delivery. There is strength in it that lets you live entrenched. But once you decide what will be delivered and completely forever, no matter what kind of man be. There will be women who convince that this man determined not suit you. The woman can not go flirting as it does men. We know that society is unforgiving to women. It forgives nothing. Or is it the most or the worst. If you're playing for love, is pelig

ro integrity, unitary way of being. It is very difficult, if not impossible, to take medicine, which has returned. She herself does not feel completely and never come to love as it should. In this sense women are more faithful. And as is most loves is the only one I could forgive, but also the only one I could hate. In women not given a middle ground.