Recently I came across an article about men- their penis and the obsession that exists over size. One of the interesting facts in the article stated that out of every one thousand men, three are well-endowed enough to blow themselves to the point of orgasm. As for myself, I found the findings to be quite comical. Who would have ever of thought to conduct a scientific research, on whether or not a man could blow himself silly. I'm curious as to the "who's" who funded the research, and what the hell they were hoping to find? I don't think you'll find the cure for cancer, by researching men who can blow themselves down there; OR for that matter, all the know-how's to being a better lover in bed! Are you kidding me here? I mean seriously people, don't you think this is just plain ridiculous? It's not how big "it" is, it is and always will be, what YOU can do with it!

However, despite that fact- what is it with a man's personal obsession with his dick size? It's no wonder I just don't get it. Nevertheless, it's easy to see how a woman like myself; who has never been pressured to be a better lover, doesn't have a clue as to why a man obsesses over his dick size. However, I will say this gentlemen, it has never mattered to me. Does it really matter to you ladies? Or would you rather have an attentive lover with a smaller prick, than a dead-weight, rocking horse causing nothing but a rash or irritation? I say size is NOT everything, and the fact that my man cannot blow himself- is a good thing. Wouldn't you agree, or does size matter that much to you?

I'm not a very tall woman, only about 5'5. Moreover, I have to say that anything much longer than an average size penis, is a little too much for me to handle between the sheets. Let me tell you gentlemen, that there is nothing romantic or satisfying, about receiving a very painful poke from an extra long ding-dong, that just so happens to be poking into the backside of my uterine wall. Hell no, there isn't anything sexy about that at all! Therefore, is you are worried about your dick size my advice for you is to take more vitamins, get some exercise, eat your fruits and veggies, and always concentrate on working on your stamina. Remember it is mind over matter; especially when after two minutes into love making, you need to blow your wad already- please think of your mate. Nobody, and I mean nobody wants to go to all the trouble of participating in a sexual interlude with somebody, only to have you(the man) blow your wad too soon afterwards. Seriously, why even bother your mate for pete-sake. Go to the bathroom and masturbate. Especially, if that is all you've have to offer that somebody, willing to sleep with you in the first place.

Nevertheless, I highly suggest that you do masturbate. I think it is a critical key to maintaining a healthy balance between you and your mate. Masturbating is a sure fire bet to building up a better performance, and endurance factor. So as Nike says, "Just do it!" Trust me, your mate will love you more for it. Furthermore, being a great lover has absolutely nothing to do with size. Become a better lover, and you just might surprise yourself with how "manly" your average size dick can make you feel. So stop spending money on products that claim to make your pecker longer, and spend more time reading books written by famed author Nancy Friday; and getting back to the basics of being a really good lover.