Many thanks
55A few of my favorite things
After reading SweetiePie’s hub on Big Love and kerryg’s hub on Supernatural, I thought about writing a hub about my favorite show: Battlestar Galactica. The more I thought about how much I love that show, and all the reasons why, the happier I became, so then I started thinking about more things I’m grateful for, inspired in part by a hub written by Kind Regards called The Gift of Gratitude. So, first and foremost, I’m grateful for...
Battlestar Galactica
I remember thinking my boyfriend was a total geek when he started raving about this show. He insisted it was great and I averted my eyes. He eventually piqued my curiosity by sharing nuggets of the story line, and I agreed to watch the first episode. Needless to say, I was hooked.
If you’re a fan of the show, I hope you’re enjoying these final few episodes as much as I am. If you’re among the uninitiated, I hope you’ll give it a try. I’ve discovered that my Battlestar Galactica elevator pitch isn’t enough to make some people overcome their preconceived notions, and I’ve definitely lost a few cool points for bringing it up in mixed company, but I think it’s such a brilliant show that I just can’t help myself.
To give a very brief plotline without spoiling anything, the show revolves around a cast of characters living aboard the Battlestar Galactica and their much feared and hated enemies, the Cylons (a.k.a fraking toasters). War has been waged between them and Galactica watches over the surviving members of the human race, who are scattered throughout the ships in their fleet. Galactica and the fleet continually jump through space to avoid nasty run-ins with the Cylons, while they race each other in a search for their prophesized homeland; a place called “Earth.”
This clash of civilizations is intensified by clashing ideologies. The Cylons believe in one true God while the humans believe in a group of gods akin to those revered in ancient Greece. Certain characteristics of the Cylons, such as their striking resemblance to humans and ability to download into another version of themselves in the case of death (as long as they’re in range of a Resurrection ship), enable the writers to explore fundamental concepts related to life, death, and personal identity. There is also a healthy dose of romance, eye candy, deception, politics, and discussions about fate versus predestiny.
The writing is brilliant, the acting is phenomenal, the production is nearly flawless, and the show always keeps you guessing. That’s why I’m grateful for all four action-packed, philosophical, and all around wonderful seasons of Battlestar Galactica.
Yoga
I started practicing yoga about five or six years ago. A coworker was raving about her practice, so I bought a DVD she recommended that was filmed outdoors in Sedona. At first, I loved it, but then I went to extremes (as I often do), forcing myself to practice every morning, sometimes throwing a three-day fast into the mix to see how far I could push my body and mind. Eventually, the very sight of my yoga mat became sickening and I shoved all my props into the corner, where they gathered dust for many years.
In January, my friend Robin started teaching a restorative yoga class on Sunday mornings at a new yoga studio about 2 miles from where I live. Stripped of my favorite excuse that her classes were just too far away, I begrudgingly fetched my mat out of the closet to attend her first class.
It was heavenly. The poses were gentle, opening, and strengthening, with a focus on meditation and breath work. Robin channels an amazing healing, nurturing energy and after the hour and a half flew by, I felt like I was walking on sunshine. I haven’t missed a class since, and I’ve been inspired to make a lot of positive changes in my life as a result. I started craving fruit smoothies every morning, for example, after years of writing them off as cold, boring, and unsatisfying. I resumed work on my thesis, I’ve been drinking less alcohol, and I feel generally more organized, driven, and enthusiastic about life.
If you’ve been thinking about trying out a yoga class, I highly recommend it! It’s been changing my life for the better, and that’s why I’m grateful for yoga and wonderful teachers like Robin.
Alanis Morissette
I was 17 or 18 when I first heard Alanis’s edgy, angry, and poetic ballad about love gone awry: You Oughta Know. I was experiencing my first heartbreak at the time, and her music helped transform my depression into rage. More importantly, I took comfort in knowing that someone else knew exactly how I felt and was able to capture that emotion so beautifully in a song. Another track on the Jagged Little Pill album, Hand In My Pocket, helped bring some bounce into my step during a time of much inner turmoil and confusion.
I was beginning to explore my spirituality when she released a more introspective album about seeking, reflection, and gratitude: Supposed Former Infatuation Junkie, and when I starting thinking about what I hoped to find in a mate, she released a perfect exploration of the theme in Under Rug Swept. I wasn’t a huge fan of her next two albums, but recently, she released what I believe is her finest album yet: Flavors of Entanglement, a metaphysical blend of love, letting go, and self discovery.
Alanis strikes me as a wise, authentic, and spiritual person, and I’m grateful for the wisdom and beauty of her music.
HubPages
I started listing out all the people I’m grateful for that I’ve met through this community, but the list was getting very long and I had a crippling fear that I would forget someone, along with the realization that you all know who you are. Suffice it to say that I’m really enjoying the experience of interacting with the kindred spirits I’ve been meeting; refining my view of the world based on your insights, and recognizing aspects of myself in each of you. I’ve discovered that I can be very limited in my thinking in areas where I previously thought I was open minded, and I crave external validation more than I’d like to admit.
I’ve also discovered that I become very disappointed when I join someone’s fan club and they don’t reciprocate. Do I automatically become a fan of everyone who joins my fan club? No, but if someone seems to sincerely appreciate my writing and I enjoy theirs, I'm happy to be their fan. I realize I can be very childish about this, which has led to a great deal of inner exploration about what a “fan” is and why this matters so much. I’ve also come to recognize that in pining for the attention of others, I sometimes overlook what a strong and loving community of support I’ve had the fortune of discovering here. This has been a great opportunity for greater understanding and development, and learning to let go.
These are some of the many reasons why I’m so thankful for HubPages. I’m also grateful for...
This Moment
It’s so easy to get caught up in thoughts about the past or the future, judging our experiences and wishing for things to be other than how they are. In every moment, we have another choice, which is to let go, trust, and simply be. My yoga practice has helped me discover that I spend a lot of time being angry about work, worrying about the ones I love, regretting decisions I made in the past, and stressing out about the future. I’m learning to catch myself during obsessive and disagreeable modes of thinking, to recognize when I’m being unreasonable or impatient, to focus on the good rather than the not quite good enough, and to be mindful of the present.
This moment is all there is and all that ever will be. Mindfulness of this moment offers a path to freedom from fears, illusions, and limiting thinking. In the now, we rediscover the beauty of simply being. I am grateful for books by Eckhart Tolle, Scott Morrison, and Leonard Jacobson, that helped me discover the beauty and freedom of present moment awareness. I am also grateful for every blissful, beautiful, and perfect moment on this planet.
Thanks for reading and for being.
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Thanks, goldentoad! There's a new web cam called "Sneaky Peak" that will let you check out Mill for yourself: http://www.tempe.gov/Millcam/ :)
Since you were one of the many people I was going to thank individually, I'll go ahead and say that I thoroughly enjoy your writing style and your comical outlook. So thank you for the laughs, your insights, and reminders not to take myself too seriously. And thanks for your comment!
Melissa: I enjoyed reading your hub because you were genuine, not afraid to admit that you introspect about certain things, we humans are always a work in progess and its perfect.
I have been thinking of taking up Yoga, but wonder if I can learn on my own... my hearing is not very good, so I wouldn't do well in a class. You just confirmed to me, that the Yoga actually had you change your cravings and habits so it works well on an energetic level. I remember a friend of mine took up bodywork, and she stopped craving junk food, and loving veggies which she hated before. I find this awesome!
Thank you for this hub and for being you. :)
Hi Melissa,
This is a lovely, warm hub, that let's us into your life a little. I read through it smiling to myself at the querkiness of the things you have chosen to be grateful for, and knowing that my own list would be quite querky too! I've never seen Battlestar Galactica, but as I'm fond of sci-fi, I would probably enjoy it. As for yoga, I've always intended to try it, but never gotten around to it. Maybe I should, as it sounds like a worthwhile thing to do.
Thanks for posting this Melissa. Thumbs up!
Melissa - this hub is so you - right from the title! You're so warm and sensitive - it shines right through! You're young and it's OK to feel a bit let down sometimes when people don't respond - but you know what - very often it isn't intentional - I take hub-breaks between work and sometimes the Hubtivity is so long, I just can't get beyond a couple of pages! And yet you give thanks - that's the wonder of you!
Thank you for these warm and heartfelt comments. :)
VioletSun, I'm glad you enjoyed it. :) I've been trying to write more authentically without fear of being judged, so it's nice to get such a positive response. :) Yes, you can practice yoga without a teacher, and I've been practicing on my own during the week. I used to think a teacher was necessary to help ensure that I got into the poses correctly, but our bodies intuitively know if a pose feels right or needs adjustment. A friend of mine just recommended a book called "Insight Yoga" by Sarah Powers, which might be a good place to start. I haven't read it yet, but I read a few sample pages on bn.com, and her philosophy seems right on target. Best of luck with your exploration! And thank YOU for always being your kind-hearted, genuine self. :)
Amanda, you were at the top of the list of Hubbers I'm thankful for. :) Your kindness is inspiring and I'm so happy to have met you on here. If you enjoy SciFi, yes, please give Battlestar Galactica a try! I feel like my life has been greatly enhanced by watching it and I'd love to compare notes. As for yoga, you probably have already practiced aspects of it, since the poses are just one piece of the puzzle. It's also about living with mindfulness and being aware of ourselves and how we interact with the world... the poses are just a vehicle that help us cultivate that awareness. If it's something you're interested in, I highly recommend it! A good book to start with might be Light on Yoga by B.K.S. Iyengar. Or do a search and see if you feel drawn to anything. I also feel compelled to recommend the book I mentioned to VioletSun, but since I haven't read it, I don't know for sure how good it is. You're the best judge of what a good book for you would be.
As always, thank you for being such a lovely and kind hearted person.
Shalini, thank you for the kind words! I completely understand that we all have lives outside of HubPages and I know better than to take it personally if people don't comment on every hub I write. :) The message I hoped to convey is that I appreciate the opportunities this community has provided for me to recognize childish, limiting thought patterns and choose instead to appreciate how much love and support I receive from kindred spirits, such as yourself. I also enjoy your writing style and learn a lot from your hubs, even though I often neglect to leave a comment because I'm busy with work and can't think of anything witty to say off the top of my head (I'm still mulling over options for your pink panties hub). ;) Thank you for being such a delightful puff of oxygen!
Thank you Melissa, for your kind comments. You're right up there at the top of my list of favourite hubbers too!
Thanks, Amanda! :)
I forget to say, I don't want the camera view, I want the Melissa G view of life around Mill!
The funny thing is, I live about a mile away from Mill and University, but I hardly ever make it over there. There have been a lot of businesses closing, though, including Borders, the Bamboo Club, and a lot of smaller shops. The beloved Co-op closed a couple of years ago in favor of a couple of really ugly high rises, and a few business complexes shot up near Tempe town lake. On the plus side, it's easier to find a parking spot these days. :)
I have never seen the show, but maybe I will check it out one of these days. I know it sounds funny, but there are certain movies and shows I did not watch when they came out ten or twenty years ago, and now I am seeing some of these for the first time.















goldentoad says:
11 months ago
I'm thankful you're here so I can ask you what's happenin on Mill Avenue.
And I like your style.