You will agree with me that for you to be successful in any career you will need to build one of your choices and put all your effort into it. In the same vain, for any marriage to be success both parties involved should must be committed to working daily to build that marriage. Successful marriage doesn't just happen by chance rather a conscious effort of the husband and the wife. There is no short cut successful marriage.

Sometimes the hard work involved in building a happy marriage may cause some to be tempted to give up. However, do not let that to discourage you and abandon your commitment or forfeit everything that you have already invested in your marriage. The truth is that the distance you have already covered in your journey together.

Back to my question, are you a marriage builder? If yes, then welcome on board on the band wagon of committed marriage builders.

Marriage builders could be liken to a house builder who at every time adding one block to other one at a time, until the house is completed. They never said will this house be completed? Marriage builders have in their mind that healthy marriage that will stand the test of time. They will never give up. Even when the other partner seems not to understand they work hard to achieve their aim.

Take another instance, the bird builder. It build it nest by adding one piece of grass at a time until a full nest is built. Can't we take a clue from this creature in applying these techniques?

Every time effort is applied rewards is the end result. If you put forth sincere effort to show that you want your marriage to succeed you will sooner or later enjoy the blessing and reward that follows. Your loyal support of each other through the difficult times will sustain you on a satisfying journey through a successful journey.

If you have enjoyed this piece, then join me in the part 11 of this topic that promises to be very exciting. Considering that every builder need good tools for effective building. We shall be considering tools for a marriage builder. Watch out!