This is an issue many people I know struggle with all the time...

Why do women take so long to get into the mood and why does it seem like their other halves are always ready for sex?

Ladies, you may have experienced a similar scenario... you and your guy are hanging out and one thing may lead to another but you're just not into it? Does it mean you don't love him... usually not, and that will have to be another hub. Most of the times it has to do with the fact that he probably didn't SHOW you or start 'foreplay' long enough ago...

Well for most of us ladies, and feel free to correct me if I'm wrong, we don't get enough foreplay...and I don't mean the pre-sex type. I mean the daily, little, intimacy building moments with no intentions of initiating sex... whether it be the 'you look beautiful' comment in the morning or the simple hand hold across the street, or the deep loving look into your eyes out of nowhere...

I guess we just need to know that you're paying attention to us, even when you're not expecting it four or five minutues later!

As for the guys, try to understand it from our point of view... we may not be ready to go right after watching a scary movie (unless you were comforting and holding us throughout) or in the middle of a heated argument (unless of course to make up...) okay so maybe there's not as many times as you guys may think that we Don't want it, maybe it's just the way your asking!

There's obviously some biological reasons which I may get around to, but for now... hopefully this will be enough to keep your actions and intentions balanced and bring more loving to the world!