Men In Bras: Just For Fun
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Sometimes, a man feels the desire to wear a bra. This can be brought on for a variety of reasons, including fetishism, medical reasons, bedroom games, and simply because he likes it. Bras can be objects of comfort, desire, humiliation and punishment depending on the context in which they are used. This article looks at a few of the fun reasons that a man might don a bra, in a celebration of equality, after all, if women can wear pants, why shouldn't men wear bras?
The Cross Dresser/ Sweet Transvestite
Cross dressers will often don a bra to enhance their female image, and indeed this use of the bra on men has become very much a part of western culture to the point where imagining a cross dresser without a bra seems more odd than one who wears one. After all, what good would a drag queen be without a silicone stuffed brassiere, hmm?
Feminization Fun
Men who enjoy feminization, or forced feminization find that wearing a bra makes them feel much more feminine than simply wearing panties alone. Oftentimes the brassiere is just part of a complete outfit which may include stockings, suspenders, a garter, teddies or camisoles, high heels, the list goes on. A man who enjoys forced feminization may enjoy being compelled to don these feminine accessories, and to wear lipstick and other make up. These acts are often carried out in the context of punishment, and the resulting humiliation both cows and arouses the subject.
It feels so good...
Still other men simply enjoy the feeling of wearing a brassiere. It may remind them of a partner or lover, or perhaps simply provide a feminine touch to their day. The old joke about finding a husband dressing in his wife's underwear applies equally to brassieres as it does panties, though many find the donning of a bra to be a step further than panties alone. It is unfortunate that many men feel compelled to hide this side of their sexuality from their partners for fear of being thought of as homosexual.
Does wearing a bra make him gay?
Wearing a bra is in fact, not solely linked with homosexuality. It would seem that it is simply a much more taboo subject for men who identify as heterosexual, so whilst their gay counterparts can revel in their lingerie as much as they desire and be encouraged for it, straight men are forced to hide in dark corners, flirting with their desire.
It is certainly true that life is not fair, and that sexuality is still an arena fraught with prejudice, but the more men free themselves to explore their desires, the more fun there is to be had for all!
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Hello BarbaraJeanne,
I don't see any real reason why a man shouldn't wear a bra, anymore than he shouldn't wear a tutu, or a large hot dog suit. These are mere societal conventions and the breaking of them certainly harms no-one. I believe there are places where male bras can be obtained, such as in the picture above, those look rather well fitted, not that I could tell you, being a female :) xdress.com carries bras made just for men, and there may very well be other places.
All the best to you :)
I have more than a few bras myself. I don't wear them frequently but I do enjoy purchasing pretty panties. If it comes in a set then I definitely don't want to deny myself the pleasure of both the bra and the panty.
I think that men should be allowed to wear feminine clothing in and out of the home. In fact, the wife should require her man to wear what she says to wear whether it be women's or men's clothing because she is superior to her husband and should be completely in charge of the household.
It seems like this is more common theme we see, people doing things that are "socially unaceptable".
Truth be told that men have always worn bras, but 100 years ago, they would get stoned to death if they admitted it.
Today, you can't get stoned to death for anyhting so they all come out of the closet or wherever!
Well there's nothing wrong with it, I wear one occasionally myself, as well as panties etc. For a lot of men it's a fetish thing, especially with a partner (it certainly is for me)
Hope thanks for bringing this subject tinto the light. Probably there are more men who enjoy wearing bras than most people are aware of. I wear a 36A lightly padded underwire bra or a just a crop bras top. I love the way it hides my nipples and gives me a nice shape.
More men should consider wearing a bra.
Thanks for the comments guys... It's good to see men discussing the topic openly. I am sure it helps other men to feel better about accepting their desires as part of themselves.
Wow!!! I do not have anything about men wearing a bra, but it would be a turn-off If it is the man I am going out with...
It can see how you might feel that way Princessa. It's why a lot of men only wear their lingerie in secret :) But, then again, not every woman feels that way. It takes all kinds to make up a world :)
Hope, a question. Is there any style bra that a man could wear that would be more acceptable to a woman? Padded, underwire, soft cup, sports bra, lace or no lace. I perfer a lightly padded underwire for daily wear and a crop
Hi David, as usual, there isn't a hard and fast rule on these sorts of things. It's all down to personal preference and taste. Reverse the question for a moment. Is there any bra that men inherently prefer? Not really.
Just wear the ones you like, and if you happen to have a female partner and you wan't to know what she likes, well, just ask! :)
I am 65 years old . I wear bras &panys often i love the fill of them . I like to wear them to town shoping . i wear a 42 b playtex it fits the best
i am a man who loves wearing panties. i have a good collection of panties.i buy them from everywhere.i feel sexy in panties.it makes me feel erotic.
I usely wear bras on the week ends i have a lot of differnt kinds .i got more bras &panty than my wife does i have panty hose slip skrits &tops the house is emty on wed so i dress up &love my time
I am 60 and have been wearing pretty panties for over 30 years. I have a large collection of panties of all types, ruffled rumba panties, bikinis, nylon briefs. I wear a bra once in a while, getting to be more but i wear my pretty panties 24 / 7 and dont even own any male underwear. I guess Im a PANTY BOY
Hope, I am a 45 year old man who has been wearing lingerie for years. I have been able to try on bras, panties and more at many stores. I had my first bra fitting at a Victoria/s Secret. I shop there often and if they are not too busy I can use the dressing room. A few of the clerks will even come and help if I need it. I always wear panties, and will usually wear a bra and stockings (not panty hose) when "shopping".
Hi
I have just recently found out that my husband has been wearing bras behind my back. I am struggling to come to terms with it but the main thing is the lies that he told in order to do the thing he enjoys. I feel like all the trust has gone not because of the activity but because of the lies.
I urge you to tell the people you are in a relationship with early on...if they love you they will support you but please dont lie to them as talking from the other side it is hard to come to terms with but when you love someone you stand by and try support the person you love.
Please, please, please be honest with your nearest and dearest otherwise it might hurt them a lot more later on.
All the best to you all
Hey Rha,
This is something that only you can come to terms with, I know its hard but you have to come to terms with this. It is almost impossible for a man to tell anyone he is a cross dresser to begin with. We usually drop small hints to find out how our partner feels. once we find out how much someone detests crossdressers then it becomes a deep dark secret, I know first hand it cost me my marriage. Most likley he is not gay most crossdressers are not, we don't molest children, and we won't go out and rape someone. We don't cheat on our wives, we just like the way womens underware feels on our body. The big fantasy for a lot of us is to make love to our partners dressed is womens underware. Think about it it is only a piece of clothing, he propebly loves you terribably, It could be the greatest sex you have ever had.
i am a man and wear my mother inaw bra 40HH bra, started as a joke belive its not fun being this big, my wife and her mother talk me into taking her place for a day i went to work at her mother shop full fig,ladys story being dress all day did it to me, i told them i cant wait to take the girdile off hose and heels,the bra full slip and dress, the dress fit like it was glue on, but i was told i did a very good job and everyone that i sold to said i made a very good sail lady,so my mother inlaw and my wife keeps me as one,today and every day i dress up as a woman wearing her undis and hate it wearing her 40HH bra
Hi Sagittarious48
I know it is harmless and something that he enjoys and despite the fact I dont understand it I accept it...it is hard for the other person but the lies are harder to accept.
We are a stronger couple for him telling me and now I know that because we have got past this we can get past anything...i dont want to be any part of it if he wants to wear his bra then thats ok and i want to know abotu it too but i dont want to be involved...i'm not saying i wont want to in the future and lke you say the sex might be amazing.
I think by sharing your secrets with your partner it can give you the freedom not to feel guilty about what you're doing as you are not doing anything worng...its not mainstream but that does not mean you have to do it behind closed doors to the ones you love. I have done loads of research about this to try and inderstand and the more testimonials i read about people keeping this a secret the more i despair because the people who love you will be supportive even if it is hard for them!
Take care
Rah:-)
I am a middle aged man with a condition called tescular feminization. I have very wide hips and huge breasts. I have worn women's panties and bras since I was a teenager, and function normaly at work and in my personal life. Because they fit better, I have adapted to wearing women's pants, tops and on occations, skirts and dresses. I try to dress descetely, and along with my bra, I always wear a girdle, pantyhose and a slip when I wear a dress.
Normally I wear pants, but when I go to mettings, I like to wear a skirt or dress because it makes me look sharp It's really no big deal and I go about my busines every day without a problem. However, my breasts hurt and bother me everyday, so regardless of public opinion, I wouldn't think of walking out of the house without having my bra on.
My panty size is 9 and my bra size is 42DD.
I wear a bra most of thetime & consider it normal wear. I need one to support my boobs
There is not a more feminine garment than the bra, so it makes sense thet wearing a bra would add a feminine twist for a man. And if you wear a bra under your normal clothes, that adds the bit of excitement many men are looking for. I personally find wearing a bra is sooo feminine, the feeling of the straps over your sholder, the tightness of the band around your chest and the ultimate feminine experinece, the lovely curves that show up front. I'm straight and have kids and have been fortunate to find a number of woman in my life who found my crossdressing to be everything from acceptable to a turn on.
I am a 50yr old male and I love to purchase and wear womens clothes. I have over 30pr of high heels, a lot of skirts,dresses& pantyhose which I wear every day. I am now also wearing bras and camis as well as ladies tops and i sleep in nightgowns. It feels much better to wear womens clothes. I am not guy but women get turned off by this but I have to wear these clothes and its lots of fun looking for bargains in the stores. wear what you want..
Have gone to not only wearing a bra but wearing two piece bathing suits. Now after several years doing this have tan lines that are there year round.
A few years ago I had 2 very painful groin operations for a waterworks problem and during the long recovery period I started to wear skirts to ease the discomfort. Since then I wear dresses and skirts around the house in preference to pants partly for comfort and partly for pleasure. I also love wearing womens lingerie under my ordinary clothes when I go out but have not yet found a 40" a cup bra. I had never thought much about crossdressing before my operation but I now wish I could could go out wearing 'womens clothing' in the same way women can wear what they want any time they please without causing a stir. My wife is happy with my crossdressing as are some of my more broadminded friends and neighbours and as time goes on I care less what people think, If they have a problem with me in a dress and suspenders/stockings then they should keep their problem to themselves. I am 60 and heterosexual and I cannot understand why men especially automatically assume somebody like me should be gay.
All this has made me aware of not just societies attitudes but all of our freedoms, especially sexual freedoms seem to be under attack. Is it just me or are we going backwards and becoming more Victorian in our laws and attitudes? Any comments?
i'm 61 and been wearing feminine clothes most of my life. wear thongs 24/7. started wearing a bra moe and more,i use breast enhancers to fill out a 36b. own no mens underwear. going to go out driving tonight dressed fully.
i also have more bras and panties than my wife and love shopping with her for them but i am not allowed to wear them just the panties does this make sense
I can fit into a 38a padded bra but most i wear a 38aa it gives me real support. I wish people would be more accepting in the world.
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BarbaraJeanne says:
10 months ago
I have worn bras since age 8. I have had a very strong urge to dress as a lady and wear everything that they wear as I, in my own mind and more than half woman. This is in no way in a disrespect to any ladies. I have just always felt more woman than man and have derssed as such as often as possible. I started wearing panties at age 6 and have never worn anything but. Why can't a man wear a bra, and find one that is fitted to be comfortable and as I don't have real breasts (but truly wish I did), a bra that won't ride up by itself.