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Men Look Good In Lingerie | Real Men Wearing Lingerie

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By Hope Alexander


This is a follow up to the wildly popular and fiercely debated 'Why It's A Big Deal When Men Wear Women's Clothes In Public', and a rebuttal to some of the more ignorant comments there which claimed that men shouldn't wear women's clothing not because they don't have the right to, but because they don't look good in it.

The sheer arrogance and indeed, shallowness of these claims aside, this is one of those times where fire can be fought with fire, for the claim that men do not look good in women's clothing is simply false. I'll be focusing on lingerie and heels in this piece, but the same truth applies to all women's clothing. The fact of the matter is, some men actually look better in women's clothing than some women do (which may be the reason for the rude comments, a little of the green eyed monster being afoot.)

Why is this the case? Well, there are a few reasons.

For starters, men who wear women's clothing tend to actually appreciate the clothing, they are consciously and intentionally expressing themselves in what is regarded as being a 'feminine' way. For this reason, their movements are anything but clunky. They move deliberately, gracefully, they embrace the lingerie and the way it makes them feel.

Secondly, some men simply have good bodies for lingerie, especially when it comes to heels and stockings. Have you ever noted the way hosiery models tend to be super slim? That's so the stockings sit nicely on a leg that is slightly curvy, but not rounded in the way most women's legs are. Men are also less likely to have spider web veins and cellulite, two afflictions which plague women on a regular basis. The irony of the situation is that we've already apparently come to appreciate the way stockings look on a male type leg, but apparently some of us just can't handle it when a man actually wears them.

Thirdly, men often look good in lingerie and other forms of women's clothing because they carefully select items of lingerie that make them look good. Men new to wearing women's clothing tend to go a bit mad, buying anything that takes their fancy, but after a while they settle down and start putting some real thought into their purchases. They put outfits together that are at once more pretty and more feminine than most lingerie that women wear, and some even show them off with pride.

Need proof of the fact that men look good in lingerie? None of the pictures accompanying this article feature women. All have been generously shared with me and my readers by real men who wear lingerie, and look damn good doing it.

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Gunnau  says:
6 months ago

Hi Hope

I cannot possibly agree with you more.

Guys are almost forbiden to show off their body parts and from removing hair because of the so called Manlyness factor.

I love my lingerie and this time of year would be perfect for wearing shorts with tights. Shame i can't indulge outside the house.

Keep up the writings. Your insights are wonderful and i only hope more women get to read them and broaden their minds.

Steve

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SatinJenni  says:
6 months ago

I'm glad to see such an archaic viewspoint as gender specific fashion openly discussed. Just such a discussion may lead to a wider education for all.

Education is:A succession of eye-openers each involving the repudiation of some previously held belief.George Bernard Shaw (1856-1950) British dramatist, critic, writer.

Engaging the readership is the mark of a sucessful writer so keep up the good work Hope!

mickiv  says:
6 months ago

i always wear some type of lingerie,but have always felt and been told I have a great pair of legs,so I'm a push over for nylons,and I wear them whenever I can.Love your articles,hope to see more.

Stormy  says:
6 months ago

Hope, I have been a member of this group for some time, and I am 100% in agreement with all your postings. This particular one absolutely jumps out at those (men or women) who are so closeminded as to NOT understand why Men Wear Panties (or other lingerie). 100% in agreement? I doubt I will ever disagree with you. Your views are exactly those of my own. Why shouldn't men wear lingerie? Jusst what is the big deal about cut, or material used anyway by others who insist that material and/or cut is confined to the female sex anyway? I, for one, would love to see your views why some/material/fabrics are 'considered female' and not male.Perhapsit coukd be answered best by a blog that questions material, and/cut as female vs male. You are welcome to edit, and/or address this reply in any you desire.

Thanks,

Stormy

Cyndie_D  says:
6 months ago

Very nicely said. I'm a lingerie wearer and totally agree with your ideas.

Thanks

Cyndie

ILoveLingerie  says:
6 months ago

Great article. I agree with you, I look pretty sexy in lingerie myself;) Maybe I'll send you some pics in the future...

iloveps  says:
6 months ago

very nice rebuttle. I never though that men look better in heels and stockings but your right we usually do.

Nanciboy  says:
6 months ago

Thanks for using my picture again :)

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Hope Alexander  says:
6 months ago

Thank you for sharing it, Nanciboy... it's a great picture...

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Hope Alexander  says:
6 months ago

Thank you for sharing it, Nanciboy... it's a great picture...

GEOFF  says:
5 months ago

HOPE I AGREE about men wearing panties and such. for the last nine months i have been wearing a babydoll nighty to bed with my wife. It is a nylon 1970 s double babydoll nightie and it is so pink and pretty. At first my wife was not sure of this but the more i wore it the more she is like, now she is fibe with it. hope, more women need to let there man wear a nightgown to bed the man is more sensitive and caring and when both wear a sexy nightie it really makes for some hot times in bed

lauren  says:
5 months ago

hi hon,lost two wives due to my addiction to wear lingerie.

davina  says:
3 months ago

i wear girly nylon panties every day i love them

bobbie95126  says:
3 months ago

I could not agree more with you here. I wear a minimum of sexy panties every day (however still in the closet as only a few very close women friends know and no men what so ever know). At work I often wonder how much sexier the panties I am wearing are than the women in the office.

LetMeTryThatOn  says:
3 months ago

I first tried on women's lingerie about 14 years ago, and I haven't stopped since. I like the way panties feel, especially thongs and boyshorts, and I like the way they look on me. I'm especially lucky in that I'm tall (6'2") and thin (175 lbs.) so I don't look TOO ridiculous.

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fran-gerry  says:
2 weeks ago

Hi Hope,

great hub as always.

my wife is fine with me wearing female clothes, in fact I wear a larger cup size than she does.We wear nightgrowns every night.

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