Woman want to know 'who, what, when, where, why, how, how often, with whom, etc' and men call this 'nosey, dipping, unnecessary, etc', we call it getting our facts straight before rendering any decisions.  So, where does it leave men and woman with regard to communicating?  What I have learned and will pass on is 'KISS', you know, keep it simple stupid!!!  That is simple for him not us.  It is a chore and takes getting used to to perform these acts of communicating,  They are not natural to most woman unless you grew up in a house full of brothers.  Lucky you!!!

Woman are multitasking and we think nothing of sorting through all this information and rendering a decision or even waiting to see what moves will be made in addition to what we know.  So, while mulling all this over in our heads we go on with all our other tasks and thoughts as well.  While a man does not want to hear about all that and just wants to do the one thing he is engrossed in at that moment.  This will just upset him or confuse him thus agitating him.

When something occurs he does not care why the person did what they did just did they do it.  Fine, he is done with it.  If you want him to see more you have to slip it in slowly and not straight out verbally either it must be very well disguised if verbal.  Mix it in with joking and playing not jabs and sarcasm either.  Oh, they are quick on the up take with that one and will let you know in no uncertain terms that they know what you are up to and do not appreciate it.  End of that conversation.

No, joke and play, point out any of the REAL places you can find that they were right in the matter, situation, etc. and also, point out any REAL places you were wrong.  Before you know it he is telling you how he now sees this or that and where you had a point with whatever.  Still, less is more, contain your excitement and just give another joke or comment about it all.

Now, this works with MOST any male in any setting or relationship (that, is of no significance).  What matters is that you are not pushing too much detail on him, not trying to get him to admit error, and definitely not trying to make him seriously discuss the matter with you.  Give it a try.  You will have more positive outcomes than negative and as I said it does not work on all men.  Some men are different and just as detail oriented as woman and capable of multi tasking as well, they will not appreciate this approach and want you to do what we want most men to do.  Just talk straight about it.