I just adore long hair on men. Its sexy, its beautiful, romantic and exciting. But I don’t mean the typical messy, hippie style long hair. That’s not nice at all. I mean the beautiful, healthy and feminine long hair that you normally only see on women. Of course, if you’ve read some of my other hubs, you know I have bit of a screw loose for feminine men but even if I was a 'normal' Barbie, beautiful long hair is just so special and attractive – on men or women. I recently came across a website that seems to be made for girls like me called male femininity and its full of beautiful pictures of long haired guys.

Once upon a time ...back in junior school, it was monotonously normal for boys to have short hair. If a boy was said to have 'long hair' that meant his hair was covering his ears (the girls version of short hair). But one day a boy came into our class who had REALLY long hair, just like a girl. It was down past his shoulders and even curly. Wow! At first everyone would mistake him for a girl and he even got teased and bullied for it (kids are so cruel). I didn’t know why at the time but I just kept imagining playing with his hair, brushing it, running my fingers through it and tying it into ponytails and various girls hairstyles. I'd look at him in class and picture him wearing pigtails and updos. I knew that was weird so I never told anyone and, in order to blend in with the 'normal' people, I even joined in with the others teasing him. I'm so sorry I did that. I was such a coward but I guess when you're 10 you don't know any better. In all fairness, he looked like an angel, but didn't behave like one so he did sort of deserve it sometimes.

OK lets go on with the story.

Having a shortage of girls in your class is great in more ways than one - especially when you’re doing a school play and need one of the boys to play a girls part. I remember when the teacher asked who might qualify, it was soooo obvious who was going to be the victim. Poor Dave hardly got a say in it but he took it 'like a man' (^^). Well between rehearsals, me and some friends were fooling around and I finally got a chance to play with his hair. We even ‘persuaded’ him to wear pigtails (Oh its such a shame cell phones didn’t have built in cameras yet). Seeing him with pigtails and the embarrassement in his face I'll never forget. I remember quite clearly getting a massive kick from it. I don’t know if that perhaps triggered what was later to become a fetish for cross dressers.

Of course like a 'typical guy' he turned up one morning with his beautiful hair all buzzed off. Just WHY? You wouldn’t believe how my heart sank after the initial shock. It was such a turn off I instantly went off him. Its as if his personality changed too. He started acting even more like a regular bloke once his hair was short.

Seriously, even if some women don’t like it (I'll never understand why; short hair is so boring), there are plenty of us who do. But please, you must keep it healthy and in good condition. Otherwise don’t be surprised when you're told to get a haircut. I just don’t understand why so many men never in their lives would consider growing long hair – not even just for curiosity. I'd greatly appreciate some answers if anyone has any. Honestly guys, having long hair feels great and everyone should experience it at least once (while you still can) even if its more work. Long hair feels soft and silky on your skin and there are so many fun things you can do with it. Those of you still at school, you might not get a chance when you’re older because you'll probably have to conform to some stupid corporate dress code or because you won’t have any hair to grow long. Besides, if you don’t like it, you can always cut it short again.

Peace!

– especially to all long haired men and boys out there.