Merry Christmas, not Happy Holiday
75On January 1, I wish my family and friends a Happy New Year. I do not wish people a happy holiday. On the third Monday in January I am glad that all Americans have civil rights. We ought to give respect to Mr. King and to those who have ensured our civil rights, but I don’t wish people a happy holiday on that day. Some people are hoping a bit too much in our future president. They voted for him without a clear understanding of the consequences. Yet, if in fact the Obama citizenship objection is overcome and it turns out he was born in the United States, then he will be our president and I will honor him as such along with the rest of our presidents. I may refer to this as Presidents’ Day, but I probably won’t wish anyone a happy holiday.
My wife knows when Valentine’s Day rolls around that she can expect something special from me. As I offer her a token of my eternal affection she would be surprised to hear me say “happy holidays”. The same goes for Mother’s Day. Does your mom want to be replaced with ‘holiday’? She deserves a day called Mother’s Day.
On the day Christians celebrate the resurrection of Jesus Christ I will not walk into church and wish anyone a happy holiday, although it certainly is. The very word holiday means Holy day. Nor will I say happy holiday to the bereaved family members of our honorable military personnel who gave their lives for our freedom. People who died for this country deserve a day of Memorial, not just a ‘holiday’. But thanks to them we have a reason to celebrate the birthday of this country on July fourth. I have yet to purchase, use, watch, hear, or enjoy “holiday fireworks”.
Although it is fitting to honor the presidents of this county it is impossible to have a country without those who labor for a living. As we honor the working class with parades and such we use the name Labor Day to signify which day we are talking about. The timing is important to county fairs and schools and the business of American life. We plan a lot around that day. And we may not have had the country we do if it were not for Columbus, back in 1492. So he deserves a day with his name on it.
When October comes to an end do your kids dress up in holiday costumes? And since we can never honor war heroes enough, let’s do it in November too. But let’s call it Veterans Day, not holiday. Some people prefer to eat and watch TV on the holiday. I believe it has a name for a reason. We should give thanks to the One who provides these things for us. (God, not Obama)
How many of you hear the word ‘holiday’ used so often throughout the year? I tend to hear ‘holiday’ used a bit too much around holidaymas. Why is that? I am not again Kwanzaa (although I admit I don’t have a clue what it is) and I respect those who celebrate Hanukkah. But come on people, the day most Americans are celebrating is Christmas. It may be Santa and reindeer for many but Christmas starts with Christ. It is a celebration of the birth of the Son of God. He deserves more than a generic ‘happy holidays’ greeting. He deserves honor, respect, love, admiration, and yes, he deserves a holiday with His Name in it. So, from our family to yours, we wish you a merry Christmas. And if that offends you, well then, “Ba humbug”.
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Of course, some people will disagree, that is their right, but I heard it said so plainly a couple of weeks ago: Without to birth of Christ we would all go to hell. That's why it is so important.
You make a good point, Steve. All holidays are a celebration of something important, so let's celibrate each for what it is and less for materialistic purposes.
Isn't Christmas in honour of Christ's birth and therefore shouldn't we be singing happy birthday as well as saying Merry Christmas?
I didn't expect to see presidential and political references in this Hub, so I have to say it's well supported as an opinion. I have to say Happy Holidays because I work for the government and would actually get in trouble if I say otherwise. I'm glad that you've made up your mind and stick to it
Political correctness is out of hand.
I'm glad I found this hub. Couldn't agree any more.
I agree that if you mean "Christmas" just say "Merry Christmas"! On the other hand, a lot of people who prefer to use "Happy holidays" (myself included) *don't* mean 'only Christmas'. We say it because we are actually trying to include all the winter holidays. For me, I'm just trying to be respectful of other beliefs, not PC.
That's great Amanda. I don't mean to judge the thoughts and intentions of people. That's not my job. But it seems that many people intentionally don't not say "Christmas" either because it offends them or they think it offends others. There is a lot of Christian history in this country that some people don't like. They are actively erasing it from our culture. They are intolerant of Christians, yet want us to be tolerant of what they think is normal. Other people have good intentions and they say "happy holidays" truly meaning it in a nice way. I have no problem with that. I do have a problem with the workplace, either public or private employers, censoring what people can say in regards to "religious" holidays.
I am happy to have read this hub. I can't tell you the last time I've heard "Merry Christmas" in a public place. I personally find it ridiculous and agree with the person who said political correctness has gotten out of hand-way out of hand. I continue to say Merry Christmas. It is my belief and my choice and I go with the opinion that I cannot please everyone, so I'll do what is right for me.
There are many logical flaws with your stance. A full 20% of Americans are Atheists, only 8% are Jewish. Besides, stating that you are in the majority and so your point of view is correct or more superior is not a correct stance either. It is projected that by 2030 there will be over 50% Atheists in America. Do you want them to start telling you that you can or cannot do something? I did not think so. Thus the middle ground of "happy holidays" might be the best way to go. If we do not fight for the rights of the minority, we may find ourselves becoming one of them.
Merry Christmas to you and yours.
St. Peter,
Thank you for your opinion. I don't agree with all of it but I will not attempt to silence someone just because they disagree with me. You can't build up a minority by putting down the majority.
No, I am not trying to tell people not to say "Happy Holidays". It's a great thing to say. However, my point was that there is an effort to not say (or hear), "Merry Christmas". It is ridiculous.
By your statistics above, and figuring there are many other minority religions, could we guess that 50% of America believes in Jesus Christ? "Christ" being a major component of the word "Christmas". Then it seems that ever other person you run into should be saying Merry Christmas rather than Happy Holidays. Not in my neighborhood. People are saying happy holidays far more now than they have in the past. But only at Christmas time. At no other holiday do I hear people speak generically about the holiday, replacing the name of the holiday with something less 'offensive'. This has nothing to do with my point of view being "correct" or in the majority. It has to do with censorship. I have no problem with people of various faiths, creeds, lifestyles, etc. voicing their opinions and expressing their views in the public square. Just so long as they don't tell me that my point of view shouldn't be heard because it offends them.
Incidentally, if someone ever wished me a "Happy Hanukkah" I would not be annoyed, hurt, or offended. I don't celebrate it, but if it means something to someone else and it gives them an occasion to offer me a friendly greeting then I'm all for it.
Maybe my attitude should change. Maybe it will. Maybe it has. That said, for a different point of view than I started with, click on my name and read what Christ might think of this whole conversation.


















Amy Boyack says:
12 months ago
Steve,
I love that you had the guts to say this. Thanks for speaking from the heart. I, too am sick of the people making such a big deal and trying to take Christ out of Christmas. If there was no Christ, there would be no Christmas and no hope.