It's not just because I'm a woman that I can say it's so easy to find great stocking stuffers for your special girls. There really are some incredible gifts out there for us, and I can tell you just where to find them - those perfect, unique gifts for Mom, for your girlfriend, your sister - for any lady on your shopping list.

From absolutely luscious bath products, hand-milled soaps, scented candles, and great golf accessories, to CDs, DVDs featuring the latest chick-flicks, and gift cards, your list of super stocking stuffers is only limited by your imagination.

I always love delving into my stocking on Christmas morning. It's always the first opened, the first enjoyed. There's an order to these things, as well.

The perfectly stuffed stocking contains, among other things, a fragrant Mandarin orange in the tippy-toe, some chocolate money in shiny, gold metallic wrappings, a handful of fresh nuts in the shell, some rich, dark chocolate truffles, and usually a few tissue wrapped bundles.

Sometimes the stocking contains a delicately scented package of French soap, or a new pair of nylons, expensive and sheer, with lacy embroidered tops. Whatever the treasures though, half the joy is in the discovery. The other half of the joy is at the thoughtfulness of the giver.

I learned to make soap many years and it is a highly rewarding pass-time. My family and friends were enchanted with the resulting birthday gift basket additions and stocking stuffers.

One of my sisters took it up with me, and we supplied a local Farmer's Market with our all-natural product.

I loved the perfume oils and herbs we blended with the virgin olive oil or Shea butter base.

These lovely French soaps feature natural, traditional ingredients such as olive oil, Shea butter, essential oils and crushed flowers.

The dried petals add a sweet fresh scent to these beautiful bars.

The two lotions above have one thing in common - they would be welcomed by almost any woman of taste and discernment.

The first is a delectable offering from France, well known for haute couture and fabulous cosmetics. Enriched with Shea butter, this feather-light, silky soft lotion is so smoothing to the skin. The Ahava lotion is another great offering from the Dead Sea Minerals collection, and only part of a full line of mineral cosmetics.

These three sachets are just waiting to be tucked in a lingerie drawer and keep your undies fresh.

Available in a variety of fragrances, they add a soothing scent to all your fine slips and undergarments.

Every Christmas we were sure to receive a lovely new sachet. My favorite was fresh lavender, until year I received a wonderful Bergamot scented set. I have a new favorite now.

Silk stockings come in two packages this Christmas - one to wrap your legs in sheer luxury, and one to enjoy while wrapped up with in front of a cozy fire.

These lovely thigh-high, lace-topped hose are sexy and romantic - perfect under your favorite little black dress for a special soiree, a prelude to an intimate evening with your special fella.

The other "Silk Stockings" is CD of Cole Porter's frothy musical confection featuring the original Broadway cast, with Don Ameche and Hildegarde Neff. Get out your favorite snugly blanket and pop up some corn - it's movie night.

Made from comfortable spun silk, sturdy and ultra-light, this money belt is meant to be worn under your clothing for protection against theft of you cash, traveler's cheques or documents.

The soft elastic strap on the belt, or neck cord on the wallet adjusts to your unique shape and slim, strong buckle makes it easy to clip on and off.

The main zippered compartment features a moisture barrier liner and two easy to access compartments: one for your cash and one for your cards.

Who could resist these adorable tea lights? Any of the Santas or Snowmen would make such a lovely addition to your special lady's holiday decor...and everybody know how much most moms love tealights.

Crafted of quality materials and finely detailed by master artisans, these holiday-themed tealight and candle holders are sure to become a favorite center piece, warming any room with the flickering glow of yuletide warmth.

This delectable an assortment,nine varieties of Leonidas Napolitains, means you'll never lack for choices.

This gift box includes Dark, White, Milk, Orange, Nibs, Feuilletine, Mint, and Cinnamon Napolitains. Each piece is individually wrapped.

I am such a big fan of green tea in all its luscious forms. I received a lovely set of green tea toiletries last Christmas, and some green tea and bamboo lotion for my birthday.The clean, creamy consistency is easily absorbed, and the light, fresh scent lingers gently.

The essential oils can be dropped into a diffuser, or added a few drops at a time to a light bulb ring - a light ceramic bisque circle that sits on a bare bulb. The heat of the bulb warms the ring and diffuses the delightful scent throughout the room.

Most of these delightful stocking stuffers are selected with indulgence in mind. They are all about pampering your special woman this Christmas.

Few things could be more pampering, more luxurious, than some personal time spent at the Spa. The card can be redeemed for a variety of services, from manicures and pedicures to facials and spa treatments.

Whatever you are looking for though, you are sure to find a uniquely perfect stocking stuffer - the best Christmas gift ideas suit your special lady.