You love each other but there are days when you definitely don't see things eye to eye. It doesn't have to be unpleasant if you know exactly how to deal with mother dearest. Here are our ideas one of the strongest bonds is the one between a mother and daughter. Yet, there are many strained relationships between the two. Let's admit it - mothers are not exactly the easiest person to deal with. What with the nagging, arguing, over protectiveness and more? We won't blame you if some days you feel like you've had enough when it comes to dealing with your mum.

But if dealt properly, this relationship can be one of the most rewarding. While you may find it hard to believe, mothers can in fact become your best friend and will have a lot to offer in terms of experience and advice when it comes to your life and relationships.

However, because of their instinct to want to protect you, a good advice may come across as being intrusive to some.

Is your relationship with your mum something you wish to work on? Here are some ideas on what you can do.

Forgive and Forget

Much of what your relationship with your mother now is based on how it was when you were growing up. As rebellious teenagers, we are sure you would have had some uncomfortable episodes with your mum. Also, as mothers are also humans, she is bound to make some mistakes whether it is minor (such as being overly critical) or major (being absent while you were going up). Like any other relationships, the trick to moving forward in your relationship with your mum is to learn to let go. Harbouring anger and frustration over your mother will not help; reminding yourself of the mistakes will not allow you to have a healthy relationship with your mother. If you feel you need to, talk to your mother about the past. Tell her why you were upset (and probably still are) and let her understand where you are coming from. As both of you are older and more mature now, being able to talk this way will help both parties see where each is coming from. Once from there, learn to forgive and most importantly, forget. Don't let it be the anchor to hold your relationship down in the dumps. If your mother has shown remorse over whatever the situation is, be gracious and let it be. From now on, you should focus on the future of having a good relationship with your mother.

Spend Quality Time

As we grow older, we are bound to be more engrossed in our personal lives whether it is our career or building a family of our own. The key to a good relationship with anyone is spending time with that person. The more quality time you spend, the stronger the relationship. Does your mother enjoy going to the spa? Why not book yourself a mother-daughter spa treatment? Mum loves trying out new restaurants? Grab the entire family and go for a good dinner treat in Mum's name once or twice a month. Whatever you do, do it happily. Spending time arguing and complaining about your mother during your quality time is absolutely not the way to go. You might as well just stay at home then.

Be a Friend

While she is still your mother, she can also be a good friend. Don't treat your mother as if she is a stranger; let her into your life and share things with her. Do the things you would with a good friend, as this will help strengthen your relationship with your mother? If you live away from home, a phone call a day will definitely brighten up your mother's day. If you are staying with your mum, help out around the house when possible. Make dinner once a week to give your mother a treat (as well as give her the time to do things she enjoys). Above all, give your mother the respect you would to another friend, as this is the foundation to a good relationship.

Share with Your Mum

By that we mean sharing with your mum everything that is happening in your life. Keep your mother updated on whatever new and exciting happening in your life. Share the good news with your mother and the bad ones as well to get her take on the situation as well as her advice. If you have a problem, talk to your mother about it. Make her feel as if she plays an important role in your life's decisions. This way, your mother will feel appreciated and important to have this role in your life. You don't always have to talk about major decisions; the two of you can share a joke or even gossip like any old friends would! It is all about the quality time and connection you share.

Remember the Small Stuff

Anyone would be appreciative if someone remembered the minor details about him or her. Whether it is a favourite author or a particular food you really enjoy, having someone surprise you with these minor details means millions. For your mother, remembering the things she likes and presenting them to her will definitely make her day. She could really enjoy a particular dessert from her favourite restaurant or even just really enjoy listening to Elvis Presley songs but we can guarantee it if you show up with these gifts for her, her smile will be worth it. It doesn't even have to be something you buy. It could be that you remember something as insignificant as how she takes her coffee but be rest assured that little action is certain to bring a warm glow to your mother's heart. The important thing to remember is this: your mother is human after all. She is bound to make mistakes along the way. To err is human. Don't take everything to heart and be kind. This will be the key to a fabulous relationship with your mother.