Naked Photos - Must we pose Naked?
68Lil Kim
No doubt, stripping and posing completely naked for photos earns women a lot of money but ladies please give it a second thought. If you are a Model, there’s nothing wrong in posing in sexy Lingerie but if you want to bare all, consider the following:
- It could come back to haunt you in future. For instance, the wife of the French president Carla Bruni-Sarkozy posed naked for some pictures earlier on in her life as Model and now its just hanging over her head due to threats to make them public. I actually feel for her because I’m sure she’s a lovely lady who didn’t think there was anything wrong with it at the time.
- Not a wise idea doing it for fun either - If you have a boyfriend and you split, he could be one of the malicious ones and circulate those pictures to the least place you would expect, which would really embarrass you.
- If you are family-orientated, think of how it would affect them.
Did I hear you say….. ?
“I want to earn a lot of money”. You can earn Thousands a month just by posing in Lingerie or Modelling other things.
“But Men like it”. Yes they do but they would hit the roof if it was their wife, daughter or sister who posed nude for the world to see.
“I’ll ask for the negatives”. Sure, they’ll give it to you but they are smart enough to still make a copy.
“I’ll get them to sign a contract, so they can’t distribute my nude pictures” Fine and they’ll sign it. But mysteriously, someone would burgle them and guess whose nude pictures would get stolen?
“Its my life!” I agree that what you do with your life is your own business but do reconsider before you bare all, as you might find yourself in a very powerful/successful position in the future and just a nude photo could take away your dignity at that moment in time.
Wishing you success....
Carla Bruni-Sarkozy
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:) Well said! (:
Pictures never go away and any picture taken these days will end up on the Internet. Any picture you up on the Internet will be around forever and can be used by anyone. People have to be careful. I'm happy to see that you have no problem showing pictures of nude women. :-)
Cheers Pete. The pictures are just in context with the Hub, otherwise I have no use of them.
it is truly scary to be posting one's nude pic in the net. but there are people who really do not care.
dear Lady E....I'm so glad that someone addressed this issue! LOL.....as a woman, I'm really overwhelmed at seeing other women's private parts! I'm not male, nor gay, so it doesn't excite me to see them naked.
ah yes, alas, some will say it's ART! no, it's not, nakedness is nakedness.
As for earning money, well, the men love it and continue to pay for it, so as long as there are buyers, the market will supply. Notice I didn't say single men pay for it.....that's because married men do too. Men are a huge selling market.....and they love to see naked women, so as long as there are buyers, there will be sellers.
Thanks Jmell. This is another hub that got me biting my nails because I was nervous of the response. I feel much better now after reading your comments.
Sound words, Lady_E! So important that you mention the sort or double standard where yes, men do like to look at scantily-clad women. However, they usually do not like THEIR woman or daughter to appear that way for others to see. We all evolve throughout our lives and it is sad to see something like a nude pic from someone's past ruin their credibility and/or career. Good hub!
Cheers Roobee :)
Good point, people should think before they send others nude pictures. Girls sending boyfriends scandalous pictures is not a good idea.
The only way to 100% gaurantee that your naked, semi naked, private photos do not start to appear on the internet is to not take them or have them taken no matter what is not offer. But as Jemll said where there is demand there is always going to be supply.
very good article thanks
I love posing naked. I am not a model, I don't do it for money I just enjoy it and only do it privately to spice up things. I never really thought about it, thanks for the advice.
I agree! ;-) Nice hub!
What happpens in the dark will eventually come to light and always at the most ackward times.
Thanks everyone again for taking time to read this article and commenting. Much appreciated. :)
Lady_E you are a real Lady :)
ya some men loves to see naked women like they love cheap ( or even free stuff!)cheap stuff because they are broke & have nothing to give but expensive jewels would be put in jeweler`s only few persons will afford to see & one chosen person will win price is not money here its real feelings
Hi Turguman
Thanks for your comments. I agree with you.
Regards, E.
some naked pictures are for art which you can see on the net. But some are just pictures and it's forbidden and no shares.
That's very true June. Cheers. :)
Thanks for your advice...
sometimes people forget about the long term effect, once it's out you can't pull it back.
Thanks Youcanwin and Loveofnight.
I agree with you loveofnight you can't pull it back. You'll just have to say what Shaggy said in his song. "It wasn't me". :)
I totally agree with you. Just because men enjoy it, women don't have to degrade themselves for a buck. It' nothing wrong with showing off your body but why must you show the world your goods. A lot of times its for attention.
Exactly Karmen. "Why must you show the world your goods". Thanks for stopping by. Hope you are enjoying HP and well done on your 5th Hub. Regards, E. :)
It is a question of moral principles that is in game. Until point I can arrive to gain some money?
Unfortunate for some youngsters that are into this kind of practices. Lady_E thanks and keep posting. SHALOM!
its really sad how easily a lot of women send pictures to or expose themselves for their bfs to take pics. One guy I know has tons of exs pics in his comp and how true about pics getting stolen. It all comes back to respecting ones self and saying no.
Reminds me of the 'sexting' scandal. You expect teens to be stupid, but adults?
** Cheers Magdielqr. Thanks for stopping.
** Nice to hear from you Ladyeagle. Cheers. :)
** I understand Fran - I think a lot of these girls do it innocently, not knowing it could haunt them later. :)
** True, Richmond. Nice of you to stop by. I noticed you Joined HP a few hours ago. Welcome on board! :)
Posing for Playboy, Hustler or some other sleazy skin magazine should be distinguished, in my opinion, from posing for a fine art photographer, painter or sculptor.
Mmmh... I see your point Ralph. Lovely to read from you. :)
against our kinda culture!!:)
Great post, unfortunately people have been conditioned to live in a culture or world where flesh peddling sells.
Nakedness and one's body should be appreciated and respected. Overexposure of one's "assets" can certainly cause quite the controversy if not done in what's considered a tasteful manor.
Posing nude to try and make a few quick bucks, definitely isn't the way to go, as you probably won't be seen in a tasteful light.
If you have to question it, or think twice about it, think about why your doing it, and if it's for a quick buck, then make sure you're ready to pay for making those quick bucks for the rest of your life, all choices come with a price.
As human beings we are automatically attracted to the human form. we are genetically wired that way. I feel the nude human form should be left in the realm of art-NOT photography.ShrikeTexas
I think naked pictures of women are beautiful.But today there are too many con artists and bad people that will hurt and don't care about peoples feelings and thoughts.So I guess the best pictures our kept in our thoughts of the ones we love.No amount of money is worth the feeling of being exposed for mistakes made when we were in need of money.I think so many tasteful pictures can be made with your clothes on and leave the rest to your imagination and good money can still be made if you want to become a model and you have the nice body for others to see.
Uncle Sam, Mocha Mamma, Shirketexas and Dreamon, thanks so much for your comments and taking the time to stop by. Very interesting Comments.
Best Wishes.
This is amazing! Someone actually giving advice not to "bare their bodily soul" to the world! Bravo!
All I have ever hear from women who pose for Playboy, or posting their totally unclad pictures on the Internet is that "they are in control and it is very empowering"
Really? Yes, I guess you are in control - since you are the one creating the "expose". But, do some females really think that posing in your birthday suit is somehow a form of "woman's empowerment"?
At the risk of sounding "prudish" - what it tells me is that you are a bit trashy and that you are willing to compromise yourself for money, fame, or attention. Nothing more. Woman's empowerment is at the far corner of my mind, if at all.
Great advice, good hub..
Robert - The Trade Show Pop Up Display Guy..
Hi Robert
Thanks for your comments. I guess "empowering" to them means, they get a lot of dosh which puts them in a very "comfortable position" in life.
Thanks for stopping.
You welcome "E". And likewise - thanks for stopping at my hub. I am technically still a "hub newbie" but I hope my future "musings" can be helpful to someone..
Regards..
Robert - Trade Show Popup Display Guy..
I hope that many other women take heed to this page, I thank God that the photos we have were taking with our own professional camera. Although very tasteful I could not imagine having someone with my pictures. :)
Very nice
Thanks for your comments AEvans, Nice of you to stop by. :)
Hi June, thanks for your comments. :)
Speaking as a red blooded male, i find it more sexier for a woman to pose with her underwear on as it leaves something for the imagination. Some nudity in art is ok as long as its done tastefully and with dignity ie no rude bits on show. As an amateur photographer i see many examples of nudity in books and magazines and the best ones are always the ones showing the least amount of flesh. Lady E i like your attitude toward ethics and i commend your bravery at publishing this hub,well done.
Thanks for your encouraging Comments, Paul.
Regards.
Hi I am a 49 year old guy, posing naked now there is a laugh.... beauty is in the eye of the beholder, if it is beautiful like a butterfly, the photograph it... be proud, just dont photograph me in the buff!!!! Beauty is life, let it live forever
Lol Saintstommy
Hey your a Saint - you can't afford to pose in your birthday suit. lol. Thanks for your comments and for visiting. :)
good advice Lady E, hope all laduies out there will have some little dose of this hub!
JDove-Miller says:
5 months ago
Though this is good advice, those who think it is ok will pose nude anyway. Only experience will teach them better.