Often times when we meet someone in places where we are comfortable, in children's ball games, in parties, weeding, in church or in your neighbors house who introduces that person to you, the first thing we do is observe that person and find out to yourself if you have in common either man or a woman.

Then friendship will start for a trial period of time and we all know that observation wont stop until you can say to yourself you know him or her from head to toe. Sometimes it takes longer when one part is a little bit reserve to her or himself or vice versa.

When two persons seems don't agree even to just a single thing they will call it quits. They will talk when they meet, laugh when there's reason to do so, friendship in a certain way to just get along being human being.

The certainty of friendship of two persons that agree in almost everything will bring to the highest level of relationship. The Best friend. He's there when you needed him or her. Through thick and thin. You have a shoulder to cry on. You have someone to listen to you. You know he'll or she'll understand.

When it happens to the opposite sex and were attracted to each other, when the guy don't know yet what's the next step, the woman is just playing by ear, their relationship will fall to a mutual realationship. Mutual relationship, beyond doubt that each person will try their best to please the other. Sometimes by heart they knew they love each other and satisfied with their mutual relationship.  Just want to do something, equivalent to what they receive from that person.

Familiar, having to do with a family. Having an intimate knowledge to each other. Parents usually focused on the good relationship with their children. Though we raised the childrens, we need to learn or study the behavior of our children, teach them how to get along with their brothers, sisters, cousins and friends. Most of all teach everyone to respect to each other.

The good relationship of the husband and wife contributes to the good behavior of the children. We cannot hide from our own family when it comes to differences because family has close affection and is familiar to what is normal spirit at home. Even our own pets as one of the member of the family can feel what's wrong.

From the young mind of the children it will remain the respect and love you showed to each other. Even when you play fight they wont believe they knew you wont fight, you love each other. The opposite when you were fighting even when the baby is still in the womb, the baby will be affected to the mothers emotional situation. While growing up you can play to get along with each other but the child could tell the real you.

Children with problematic parents have a hard time to choose which path they're going to take, they'll be envious to some children have normal life a happy family, how they want to have this kind of family, they want to be good children too, but how? the only life they knew, the life of their problematic parents.  In this, it doesn't matter if you have a lot of money,  financial contributes to all situation in building and distruction and all of us knew too that riches in the world is not the source of good happy family.  LOVE and RESPECT= GOOD FAMILY.

Blessing to the children of the United States, there are ways to solve a problem like this, if the parents are not capable to their obligations. The hard part is the emotional attachment of what we called the family. This is the reason also that sometimes children choose to stay at home even with hardship because that's their family they need to stay together. So the outcome is the saying "Your father is a witch your mother is a witch now because you are a child of a witch so all of you are witches". What can you expect to the fruit of a tree but of it's own.

Family should try their best to keep the close relationship with love and respect in any circumstances. Be aware of the over familiarity situation. This things happens most of the time to the married people. The close relationship, the intimacy you shared together, confidential implies a relationship in which there is mutual trust. Deal it with respect. Mentain sharing of private thoughts.  FAMILIARITY is very good just don't abuse it, becomes over.

Legal and formal dissolution of marriage. Why the couple wants to turn to different ways? to turn to a separate ways? Divorce?

Is there anyway that they could remember how they met, develop friendship and have mutual relationship before they get married? Atleast this is general sequence or the process before we could decide, that this is the person I want to stay with the rest of my life. Have a family together.

I am with an exemplary couple and had a chance to talk to both of them regarding their family life. At their age Mr D. Brown is 95 and Mrs. Brown is 91, everyday not only twice or thrice you could hear them saying I LOVE YOU to each other and this coming 30th of June is their 74th wedding anniversary! isn't it wonderful?

I ask them what's the secret, the wife said "we never quarrel, we love each other, I love him very much. The husband with a smile in his face, nod his head and said, I love you." Up to this time they still think of what they can do to please the partner.

It's a challenge! Seldom, if there are more married couple like them, thinking of what they can do to make their spouse happy. No one is selfish, no one thinks of themselves. They said the first time they got married they were poor but it doesn't matter because they love each other.

This couple followed the pattern God gave them. They have the real love, the AGAPE love. She said "it never occur to their mind, even just to think about it to have a divorce, never."

Actually, to a couple that is inlove and they get married, nobody plans for a divorce. Sometimes it only happens, when a wife feels left out, feels sorry for herself. and the first thing comes to mind I want to be alone, I want to pick up some piece of me. Then if she won't have a persistence to fight the feeling and try to be honest to her husband it will grow, become bigger, heavier until she can't bear anymore. The husband, if he wont pay attention to what is happening, he will find out things but it's too late.

Another thing sometimes if the husband is over confident to himself, that he won't be tempted to any opposite sex, there are close friends and the over familiarity comes in, then he will be off guard. The next thing will be too late. If this husband won't ask for help from his wife's understanding then of course the wife will be left out and be hurt so bad.

It's not wrong to have time to yourself, to have some space for a little while, but ask your partner to support you on what you're doing so that in times of your each downfall somebody could raise you up or pick you up. Men and wife don't let selfishness tear you apart.

Divorce is not the option to solve a problem. Not only for your children's sake, suppose to be for both of you. When we plan our family the first time, if possible the best we that can do, don't give it up rightaway. Aim your goal, the best. If you need to start all over again, then take your time but see to it that both of you are involve in doing so.

Mark 10:9 - What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.