A cheating wife: Fate?

Friends, the lead character of this story is a young and charming lady, aged about 35 years and incidentally she is in my inner friend circle. It will help understand story better if i call her "Rita". She is married and has two children aged about 10 and 15 yrs. She is married to a good looking guy but little bulky. He is employed and earns good amount of money but considering the locality they live in, this income may be considered reasonable only but not good income by the social yardstick using standards determined by the locality. It is learnt from reliable sources that husband exchange hands under the table to earn some extra money. _________________________________________________________________________________

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You may accuse me of writing something about someone's personal life. I admit it's a real story but I've made few changes in the description so that details do not match with any of my friends. However, the story deals with real issue of betrayal and other related facts are given as exists so that it doesn't influence the judgement of readers.

You will be curious to know why I am writing about her. There are two reasons behind it.

1. She pretends to possess a good moral character. This is the case of dual standards. I've observed that people are just opposite what they they preach others. Always a dishonest person will tell others to be honest.

2. I got inspired reading some hubs where characteristics of women living double standards are outlined. However, I failed to correlate the ten signs that can indicate that your girl friend is cheating you.

Before going ahead, I would like to narrate few incidences that show her husband believes that he has got a beautiful wife who possess a good character and he is the luckiest person in the world and certainly he'll die without her. He loves her beyond all limits. Once they had a quarrel and her husband behaved as he'll commit suicide if she did not speak to her for few more days.

Once we're travelling together in a public vehicle. On a bus stop, a girl boarded the bus and looked for a vacant seat. She sat on a seat vacant near her husband. I got surprised when I found that within few seconds she exchanged the seat and sat in between her husband and the girl. It was a proof that she had a complete control over her husband or she pretended to show her husband she didn't like other woman even sharing a seat with him. I have all praise for her.

I'll narrate few more incidences.....

In public places, she'll hold husband's hand, keep her head on his sholder and crash frequently attracting other's attention. Anyone passing by will presume they are true lovers. Many times I got jealous how lucky they are. How much they love each other. She is a good friend of mine and we exchange jokes of any type but she never allowed me think that there could be something wrong in their relationship. She has such a great hold on her husband that he has made his relations sore with his parents and that too only for her sake. Husband is a real gentleman. He will do anything to fulfill her demands.

Once I got an opportunity to meet her parents. They are nice people but economically not so sound. They belong to middle class and anyhow they are taking care of their family. However, my friend has a habit boasting about family and family links. As I am aware of the ground realities, I always listen to her lies and never interrupt her. I never have a problem if a person feels happy talking about her family and telling you things that are not real. You can calI me a good listner by all means. Perhaps, this is the secret of our friendship.

She has a love for ornaments and jewellery. Whenever I found her wearing new necklace set or any other gold ornaments, I'll just ask her "did you buy a new necklace", she'll reply that her mother has gifted it to her or his father came to meet her and he gave money to buy a gift.

The villain is a rich young fellow who often visits her house in absence of husband. On inquiring about him, she told that the fellow coming to her house is a distant relative. I believed her for this and didn't express any doubts over it. Few months later, I met same person in a party and he was introduced to me by another friend. He was a close relative of the lady who introduced her to me. When I asked if she has any family relations with my friend, the lead character of my story, she denied any links.

Dear friends, there is a sudden twist in the story. The so called boy friend of my lead character is going to be married on 26th January'2009. Let's hope it brings things to their normal but hopes are less as my friend is almost unwilling for a complete break-up of the relationship. Meanwhile she has introduced her boy friend to her husband as a friend of her brother. It's true to some extent that her boy friend is the friend of her brother.

Although marriage has few days to take place. Rita's husband has come back to home. Oh! perhaps I didn't tell you that he was posted far away from his place to attend duties. Now he has got transferred to a place very near to his home and will travel daily to attend his work. An incidence took place yesterday in our neighbourhood. An husband has killed his wife and her lover after he found that his wife was having relationship with a person living in the same city. Let's hope nothibg sort of happens to our lead character.

Feb 21, 2009

Sorry dear friends, I just returned from an assignment and couldn't brief you about the happenings during this time. As I informed you Rita's boy friend is now husband of someone and Rita's husband daily returns back to home after attending his job related duties. Rita's boy friend visited Rita's house only once during this period and that too in absence of Rita's husband. I never saw him visiting Rita's house in presence of his husband even once till date. Only unusual thing that happened was the sudden return of Rita's daughter from the school. I can't say what was the impact of this incidence. One thing I observed that few boy friends of Rita's daughter are frequently visiting her house. Yesterday Rita scolded her daughter when going out and told her to stay inside the house in her absence. Except this minor irritant, everything is as usual.

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More to be added.......

Since this is a real story and I don't want to bring fictious content, I'll request you to have patience. I'll add more content to this hub recounting incidences to bridge the gaps. You have to come again to this hub for reading next few episodes of story if you find it interesting... till then bye bye..

Anyway, if you look at the signs given below, it will help you learn how difficult it is to catch a cheating women.

Dear friends, you all would be happy to know that there is a ray of hope. Marriage of so-called boy friend of my dear Rita took place on scheduled date. I had a thought in my mind if the wife of Rinku is more beautiful than Rita, there are chances that Rinku will get absorbed in the love and beauty of his wife but alas, his wife is less beautiful in comparison to Rita (my friend). However, she had reflections of innocence on her face. On the other hand, there are imprints of age on the face and other adorable .. of Rita. I am using first time name of boy friend. He is Rinku.

New developments are taking place. Now-a-days my dear friend is taking an evening walk with her husband. Actually both Rita and her husband have gained lot of weight so they are having exercises and walks.. Let's hope there family life goes on a peaceful path as going on presently...

Meanwhile you read the story of my friend and her husband, I am trying to correlate the signs, Isabella gave in her latest hub to catch a girl friend or wife if she is cheating her boy friend or husband. (Please don't draw the conclusion that I am trying to prove anyone wrong or right). I have taken only matching signs to describe her behaviour and approach.

>While it certainly doesn't mean she's cheating if she refuses to get wild in the sack, it could be a sign that something is amiss.

My friend's husband is often wild in the bed and she always co-operates him barring few occasions when she cunningly refuge to indulge.

>No interest in her husband's whereabouts.

She has all the interests in her husband's whereabouts. But this interest is to assure that she is not caught red-handed, and she want to make sure that her husband will not turn up while she is engaged with her friend.

>One of the primary ways cheating women cope with is by either being a total witch, or by becoming the sweetest woman you've ever met.

My friend's character fits well with the latter conditions.This change is perhaps to conceal the truth so that her husband won't suspect anything.

>She's always talking about her new friend.

She does this but in a very clever way because she really likes him and wants to tell someone -- and her husband happens to be in the same house when she feels like talking.

>You catch her daydreaming with a big smile on her face.

She never does it because she is cheating her husband not for the lust but for economical gains in terms of cash or jewellary. She is not a call girl but she enjoys this either to take a revenge with his husband or to draw parallal with her neghbours.

>New associations

She likes to make new friends or associations with well to do families but this she does to boast that she has relations with big people.

>New everything else.

She is a fashionable woman and whatever she buys she will tell others that she has got a gift from her relatives.