Now What Made Me Come Up With This One Is The Other Night After Leaving IHOP With One Of My Best Friend And Her Friend We All Were In The Car Having A Conversation About Relationships ( I Always Love To Hear A Woman’s Point Of View On Something Especially On Subjects Of Relationships And Love Because On The Rea It Helps Me Get A Better Understanding Of Them , I Mean Other Guys Don’t Want To Hear It, But I Find It Interesting And Informative And Sometimes Entertaining ! LOL ) So Eventually We Got On The Subject Of People Cheating In Relationships And WHY THEY DO IT ! Now They Had Some Good Points About Why Women Cheat And Some Of The Things They Said I Had Already Heard Like Women Cheat Because They Are Emotionally NOT Being Satisfied So They Usually Find Someone Or Someone They Think Is A Friend To Comfort Them And That Ends Up With Them Cheating ! ( That’s Messed Up! )Then They Said That If The Guy Isn’t Doing What He Suppose To In The Bedroom That’s When They Going Looking Else Where To Get The Satisfaction They Want ! ( That’s F***** Up ! ) Then They Hit Me With The If The Woman Either Finds Out Or If She Suspects Her Man Of Cheating She Will Go Out And Find A Person To Cheat With Just To Get Back At The Man ! ( Now That’s Just Disgusting ! )



All These Reasons Why Some Women Cheat Were All Wrong And Messed Up But It Wasn’t Until I Told Them The Reasons Some Men Cheat That It Got Bad, And They Were A lot Worst Then The Women Reasons! Now I’ve Never Cheated On A Girlfriend While I Was In A Relationships But I Am A Man And At Times I Can Think About How Some Men Cheat ! (Now Let Me Remind You That These Are Not My Thoughts But What I Think Are The Thoughts Of Other Men And What I’ve Heard Of Other Men Do When They Cheat !) Now One Of The Reasons Men Sometimes Cheat Is Because They Are Tired Of The Same Old Same Old Stuff So Instead Of Talking To They Girl About Changing Stuff Up They Would Rather Find Another To Change It Up With ! (That’s Sad ! ) Then Another Is Convenience Now If A Guy Is Ok In His Relationship But Isn’t Really Into It, The First Girl That Shows Him Any Love He Is Going to Take It Because Its There Right At That Moment ! (Damn Shame ! ) Another One Is Maybe They See Another Girl That They THINK Looks Better, That They THINK Will Treat Them Better, Or That They THINK Will Sex Them Better But In Reality That Girl Wasn’t All What She Was Cracked Up To Be ! (That Dude Needs Help ! )



Now The Conclusion That We All Came Up With Is If You Are Either A Man Or A Woman None Of Those Reasons I Just Listed Were Good Enough Reasons To Mess Up A Relationship And Cheat ! Now We Know That Everyone Gets Tempted From Time To Time, You Might See Someone Of The Opposite Sex That Catches Your Eye And You Think In Your Head “ That Dude Looks Good !” Or If You Are A Guy “ Damn She Got A Fat Butt !“ ( Now I’m Just Being Real With That One LOL ! ) But What Keeps You From Thinking “ I Should Get That Person Number So We Hook Up Another Day ! “ Is The Fact That You Are In LOVE ! And That Love You Share With That Other Person Is What Keeps Your Pants On Because You Know That One Moment You Share With That Other Person Might Be Good, It Might Even Be Better At That Moment, But You Know That Moment Couldn’t Measure Up To All The Time, Effort, And Love You Put Into With The Person You Are In A Relationship With !An You Know You Don’t Want To Hurt That Person With That, You Don’t Want To Betray The Trust You Have Come To Build Together, You Don’t Want To Mess Up The Future You Guys Have Together, And You Don’t Want To Lose A Friend That If You Lost You Wouldn’t Know What To Do With ! CHEATING IS MEANINGLESS !



Now If You Are Even Entertaining The Thought Of Cheating In Your Mind I Think Its Time You Reevaluate Your Relationship ! Because This Is Just Me But If I’m Thinking About Cheating On My Girl With A Another Girl Maybe Its Because I Am Not Being Satisfied Either Sexuality, Emotionally, Mentally, Or Even Sometimes Spiritually ! Now If You Are A Real Man Or Woman Before You Do Cheat And Hurt Someone You Need To Take The Time Out And Talk To The Person You Are In A Relationship With And Talk To Them About Some Of The Needs That You Have That Aren’t Being Filled And Maybe If The Two Of You Are Mature Enough You Will Talk It Through And Come To A Conclusion That Works For The Both Of Ya’ll And Benefit’s The Both Of You ! Or Maybe If The Two Of You Are Arguing And Are Immature And Can’t Come To An Conclusion And End Up Breaking Up Over It That’s Also Cool, Because Out Of Respect And Love Of Each Other ! An Instead Of Hurting Them More By Cheating On Them, You Are Doing The Mature Thing And Ending It And You Will Feel More Comfortable At Night Without The Guilt Of Knowing You Cheating On Someone You Love ! Now It Just Might Be Me But That Sounds Like A Solution That Everyone Can Live With, Because I’ve Always Thought About Why Some People Do Some Of The Things That They Do And Cheating Was Always A Subject I Couldn’t Relate To !



Because Whenever I Am In A Relationship I Am Always Worried About The Other Person Feelings And I’m Always Placing Myself In They Shoes And Vice Versa And I Know If I Were To Cheat On My Girl Or She Was To Cheat On Me That Would Mess Me Up Because The First Thing To Come To My Mind Is Anger Not At Dude But At Her ! ( Now This Is Something I Could Never Understand That How Is It When Someone Cheats In A Relationship Why Is It That Instead Of Being All The Way Mad At The Person They Are In A Relationship With, They Want To Be Mad At The Person They Got Cheated On With ! Its Crazy And If You Don’t Believe It Watch Any Daytime Show Like Maury Or Jerry Springer. Who Is Always Getting The Chair Threw At Them ? The Person They Cheated With Never The Person They Should Be Mad At ! LOL People Are Crazy !) Then I Would Be Hurt Beyond Any Physical Pain Because I Trusted And Loved That Person And They Go Out And Betray That ! And Once Its All Said And Done I Start To Doubt Myself “ Like What DID I DO WRONG ?” Or “ What Could I Have Done Better So That They Didn’t Cheat ?” And The Answer To Those Questions Is Nothing ! Because You Did Nothing Wrong, You Are The One In The Right And That Other Person Is In The Wrong And They Didn’t Deserve Your Love In The First Place !



Now Call Me Old Fashion But I’m A Believer In That “Without Love Anything Is Meaningless !” That Means That Yeah Sex With Someone Else May Seem Good At The Time And Maybe A Little Bit Afterwards But Think About It When You Are In Love With That Person Think Just How Much More Intense And Passionate And Romantic And Beautiful It Can Be ! Because Maybe Its Just Me But Sex To Me Feels So Much Better When Its With Someone I Love Because I Know Her And She Knows Me And We Know Each Other, I Know What She Loves And She Knows What I Love And Because Of That The Love We Make Can Never Be Matched By Anyone Else, So To Cheat On My Girl Would Be Crazy Because In My Mind I Will Know That Whatever That Other Girl Is Offering Whether It Be She Is A Freak Or She May Have A Nicer Body Or A Bigger Booty Then My Girl ! But All That Won’t Matter Because I Know Sex With My Girl Will Always Be Better So There Is No Need To Be Her , But Maybe That’s Just Me !But I Want I Want To Leave Ya’ll With This Relationships Require Lots, Lots, And Lots Of Work That Require Trust, Love, Commitment, Communication, And Honesty And It Takes Time To Build A Good Relationship So Instead Of Breaking That Down With Cheating With Someone Else Think To Yourself “Is It Worth It ?” Is It Worth All The Time And Effort You Put In That Relationship And Hopefully That Changes Your Mind ! So Until Next Time Folks !