Ok so now that there are many articles about the annoying things that men do, let's talk about the things that men do that us women just eat up, adore, but take for granted and never compliment them, say thank you or show very much appreciation at all.

We all know that there are things that our men do for us that we just kind of shrug off and act like it doesn't matter or that we've earned it or something to that effect so we don't really appreciate all they do.

 So what about all the times that you have spent laughing? Sometimes at nothing in particular just you look st each other maybe and that's all it takes. You two see each other's face and maybe one of you is just being totally goofy and everything just happens. You just can't help but to laugh really. Couple's laughing together sometimes heals wounds that were buried, but not really covered and sometimes it's just needed to put old worries away. Laughter is the best medicine so they say and truely helps heal yourself of hidden worries even you didnt know you had. Talking with your partner helps greatly as well, and when you two can laugh about it or something else then it's time to move the conversation and have a good rest of the day.

Dont worry about being in public and making a fool out of yourselves, because sometimes being out in the open and people seeing you makes it a little better. You get a little embarrassed and other people get a good laugh too - which might happen to brighten up someone elses day and embarrassment leads to wonderful stories and still great laughs at a later date!

And those sweet little kisses that are just to let you know he loves you! It's almost too perfect to say anything about. All of those hard rushed kisses when the time is now and nothing else matters is one thing, but those should not be constant and never anything else. That would make for a boring sex life. You cant repeat the same old thing every day and sometimes we just need that extra little nudge that says "hey honey, I'm here for you. Not just sexually, but for everything. I love you" and those sweet little innocent kisses on the cheek say just that. Sometimes It's all we need to get through another day.

 The kisses on the forehead are similar but different. There's more carressing and holding involved sometimes and you can be intimate here. It allows for talking, discussion, and just moments that are indescribeable. We need these little things that our men do for us, but we dont tell them. Most of the time we dont even know that we need them, if we even think about them at all. Sometimes he just does it and you think to yourself  'I really needed that'.

Think about it. He's your other half for a reason. He knows what you need, but sometimes you do have to be verbal with needs, but there are times when he's just there and that's all you really need and all of the extra little things that you love so much comes along with him. How often do you praise him and let him know how much he means to you? Guys need that little boost too. And we are so wrapped up in our own little world and thinking of what we need from him that we dont stop to think  'did he have a good day? does he need that little extra kiss on the cheek today? does he need to be just wrapped in my arms for a while just to know that i think of him too? should i make his favorite dinner just to show him i love him?'

Just little things like that sometimes is all it takes to refuel a love that might be a little dim at the moment because of a few little bumps in the road. With today's economy there are already many bumps that no one can help. So both members of the couple should do their part and go the extra few steps to make sure the other knows that their love isnt going anywhere!

 And you know wher you're lying there on his chest at night and he is holding you ever so gently, and all you can think about is the beating of his heart....

Those are the times that he sleeps the best! He knows he's the one holding you and the feel of you in his arms is all he needs for a good night's rest. As soon as you turn over and roll off his chest you'r mind is swarming with a million thoughts and you cant sleep - and it's quite likely that your man is already out. He's dreaming sweetly about the smell of your hair (his last thought before falling asleep with you still lying on his chest) and you cant stop your thoguhts from spinning in order to go to sleep.

Think of him... think about the sweetest thing that's happened that day and rest assured that tomorrow he will wake up next to you and that's all that really matters. The worries can wait. Enjoy the time that's spent next to each other in bed, because that is the most intimate time of the day and is not a place for fears, worries, or other grievances to join in. Just let him love you and you do the same.