Sending an email...

Should have two good paragraphs.

1. Bust them on something in their profile (ex. what's up with the point hat, are you trying to hide a point head?)
2. Start making her jump through your hoops.

Put yourself in the drivers seat and lead the way. Be the man!

Don't try to please her or kiss her ass... be yourself. Lean back, so to speak, and give her a challenge.

Also give her a reason to write back...

Example letter:

"So you keep up with the latest fashions, but what else to you have to offer? Sure I think you're cute, but I'm also worried that you couldn't come up with a better headline... hmmm... Anyways I'll tell you what, I'll send you my actual photos if you send me your actual personality...

Tell me 3 things that would make me what to get to know you better.That sounds like a good place to start. I'm JOE SHMO."

*Make up your own or risk getting caught using canned material!

Be prepared to be tested. It's up to you to live up to that witty war of words. Keep up with the character.

Never take anything back...

If you have to you could say, "Let's start over. We're like same and Diane from cheers", but never take anything back.

Oh and lastly, give her a nickname like you would your bratty little sister.

(work in progress... more to come!)

Last Updated: August 25, 2009