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Online Dating

Most of the girls who go to online dating sites are older than 24. Younger girls in their 20s have a large carryover of friends and guys from high school and college that are trying to chase them down and have little reason to bother with online dating.

There are tens of thousands of lonely, beautiful, professional women who are online

literally, because their hectic lives, daily jobs and career choices don't put them in a position to meet men. You have the advantage of connecting with a mass of women online and the tremendous leverage of writing to them that you get nowhere else.

literally, because their hectic lives, daily jobs and career choices don't put them in a position to meet men. You have the advantage of connecting with a mass of women online and the tremendous leverage of writing to them that you get nowhere else.

Many of these women may be chained at their workplace. They can't date clients or co-workers. Their time is limited and constrained. When they go out, because of their position and bearing, they intimidate men and find it hard to connect. Often they won't put their picture on the web because they don't want to be harassed by "losers" or worse, being recognized professionally.

There are quite a few reasons to like online dating. First off, you can do it from the comfort of your own home. It's direct response in that you can test one profile against another so you don't get suckers as easy into a non-functional relationship. You also get large leverage in that you have a tremendous amount of women in one place all looking for possible relationship. A well-written profile can put you in contact with more quality women that you could ever date.


Practice Your Skills

  • Practice your skills CHATTING with women online. Chatting online slows the

    conversation down to about 1/5 the normal speed, and gives you time to think out what you're saying and will help your social communication skills.

  • Just like in the real world, avoid emotional heavy conversations. Don't talk about past relationships, marriage or drama issues. Just talk and enjoy yourself as you progress in familiarity.

You might want to experiment with email correspondence online with the idea you have zero experience in this "dating more than one woman " at a time issue. That you feel you are more than enough to handle. Do you have any advice?

  • Responding to women's personal ads and you may say something like this: "have a good relationship with my mom and sister, have nice teeth and nice shoes." It's a nice easy way to say hello and break the ice.

There are several reasons I like Internet dating. First, there are many professional women who don't have the time to go out and meet people. These professionals are picky and don't get a good enough profile about a guy in public to feel comfortable about.

Online profiles appeal to their analytical nature and validates that they have done precursory homework. Professional women can't date clients, co-workers or employees. Because of their bearing, men in social situations are intimidated by them. These women often do not post a picture of themselves for fear of being recognized.

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kristieluane  says:
13 months ago

I agree that most professionals now communicate online. I would encourage anyone to begin dating online but to take the necessary precautions of telling people where you live, etc. Otherwise, I have found it an interesting way to screen possible dates. Thanks for sharing this information.

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