Overcoming Catastrophic Anxiety Thoughts and Phobias
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Using Humor to Divert Catastrophic Thoughts
In articles I have online on the anxiety subject and in my e-book and audio published on Amazon entitled "Chronic Anxiety a Complete Look", I touch on the subject of taking catastrophic thoughts and converting them into humor. These thoughts are what some people refer to as "what if thinking" and can be terrible and disturbing thoughts about catastrophic events taking place. Many anxiety sufferers experience this type of thinking and many times their thoughts come from the fear of losing control and committing violent acts. While these thoughts are irrational and the fact that they are disturbing to the person experiencing them means they will not act upon them but are simply phobias with no true basis, they can still be of great concern. This is especially true when they serve to trigger panic attacks or what we also call the "fight or flight response".
So, how do you add humor to these types of thoughts or actually convert them into funny scenarios that take the threat out of them? Well, it's certainly not always easy to do but something anxiety sufferers can work on and may yield them good success in diverting these phobic thoughts away from their original direction. Some anxiety sufferers may simply replace these thoughts with different ones which can also be effective and they may not always use humor to do so. I did want to give further description however of how humor can replace catastrophic thinking because this question has been specifically asked by a reader of one of my articles on the catastrophic thinking subject. I add more suggestion in the following paragraphs but also want to remind that "what if" thoughts are common with anxiety disorders and do not indicate that the one experiencing them is actually going to snap or loose touch with reality. You could say they are phantom thoughts that have no true basis and will not actually cause us harm.
What a great question a reader recently asked and one I really appreciate them asking and that was his wanting to know specifically how to implement diversionary thinking into thoughts about snapping and becoming violent to others.
A few years ago, I ordered a man's e-book online that printed-out on my printer. I don't remember the book or author's name but gave it to my son who also suffers anxiety. I do remember the author talking about having the bizarre thought that he would suddenly pick up a knife and start stabbing people around him. He described the thought in such a way that actually made me laugh and I found appreciation in that. I don't remember exactly what type humor he injected into this particular paragraph but it worked and made me realize that this was a great method for thought-diversion in turning catastrophic thoughts into something to laugh at, thereby rendering it powerless to increase anxiety states.
Some ideas I would suggest is to change the thought of a knife in your hand into a fish and how funny it would be to attack someone with a limp fish. If the thought that you'll point a gun at someone enters your mind, picture shooting bubbles out of it rather than bullets.
While someone without anxiety might see these as ridiculous suggestions, they are legitimate methods in my opinion for turning the tables on anxiety and beating it at its own game. It may sound like I'm placing anxiety into a category of being an enemy we have to defeat but actually we are simply working on mastering it, so that it works for us instead of against us. We do see anxiety as an enemy when it is "busting us" so-to-speak and causing us aguish. Our goal is rather to see anxiety provide us more energy and inspiration to accomplish things in our lives and that is when we become a partner to its true purpose and can then call anxiety a friend instead of a foe.
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I like the limp fish idea, not sure how well it would have worked back in the days when I had this particular scenario but it would have been worth a try. Wish I had known about this sort of diversionary thinking then.
love Whittersx
Hi Dawn,
It's good to see you. I don't even check in at the Thyroid Chat Center anymore and sometimes saddens me not to be there but with my job plus my Editor responsibilities at Thyroid Health, I have to be careful not to overdo. If I get burnt out and sick, I'm not good to anyone at that point. For those who may see this post, Dawn is a fellow thyroid patient and friend from the forum menntioned above and we often discussed our thyroid disease symptom-problems and our struggles with co-morbid conditions, such as adrenal fatigue, CFS, etc...Also, in regard to diversionary thinking, some anxiety sufferers use other thoughts besides humor to change the course of catastrophic thinking and they simply experiment with it to find the types of diversions that work best for them. I think it's a really neat method for helping to cope with this area of anxiety and there are CBT programs out there based on this type thing. one I can think of is the program called "Anxiety the Cool Way" (AnxietySecrets.com).











Dawn says:
15 months ago
I like the limp fish idea, not sure how well it would have worked back in the days when I had this particular scenario but it would have been worth a try. Wish I had known about this sort of diversionary thinking then.
love Whittersx