Overcoming Relationship Breakup
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Overcoming Relationship Breakup
Overcoming relationship breakup is best done by
Talk to a friend about everything that happened in the relationship helps overcoming the breakup. You have to be very open and honest about it all.
Get some exercise or play a sport to get your mind off thingsDo your favorite relaxing activity or go out with friends (for me just a little ice cream on the beach and I'm stress free and over the relationship breakup)
But the easiest way to overcoming relationship breakup is staying with your ex, which completely stops the pain. The permanent breakup doesn't have to happen and can be stopped with the tips shown here.
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First Action to Stopping the Breakup
Don't Freak Out. When you panic, you will do bad and damaging things that will further hurt your relationship. It also just helps confirm their decision to breakup.
Your lover will get pushed further away (because your being clingy and demanding.)
Signs of Freaking Out
Text Bombing, or sending a barrage of text messages.Emotional Dialing, calling over and over again.Fighting about the breakup.Not being able to accept the reason giver for the breakup."Running into" them accidentally.
Here's What You Should Do..
It's opposite of your feelings and seems counter intuitive.
Be Okay with the Breakup
Don't do any of the crazy stuff mentioned.Be calm and cool about it and agree with it (for now)
Why this works?
"A hungry dog doesn't get fed," is what my old grandfather used to say. You immediately want a hungry starved, shaggy dog to leave your house. Whereas a nicely groomed and well fed dog you want to take care of. It works because of powerful psychological reasons.
People will always want what they can't have. David Deangleo said it best "how do you make someone want something? You give it value. You show others like it. You make it scarce. And then you make them work for it." Your basically guaranteeing your ex won't want you back by being pathetic about the wholes situation.
This is true with..
Getting a job, hard when you need oneCredit or Money, people with lots of money easily get loansLove and Attention
If you've blown it is there still a chance?
Yes!
Here's what you want to do
Overcoming Relationship Breakup the next step
Write a brief note
Tell them you're okay with the breakup now.
Let them know you agree with the decision.
Here's where if you did something "bad" such as cheating, shortly apologize. (Don't apologize if you didn't do anything bad and don't find something to apologize about.)
Say something exciting in your life happened that you need to tell them about sometime.Let your ex know you want to give them time to themselves for now.
Close by saying "Maybe at some point we can be friends."
Have a cool, calm tone throughout (this is important!) This note helps set you up for your next moves.
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Controversial tactics
Has been called Mind Control. For a long time I didn't want to release some of this because of the weirdos, but I assume your an average well meaning individual, just trying to get back with good intentions.
Not for stalkers.
Not to be used for revenge.
Not for cuckoos, crazies, or weirdos.
For normal loving people who made a mistake and want the best advantage.
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