Paris Jackson Grief
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Dealing with Grief
It's so painful losing someone sudden, unexpected when your an adult. It's even more painful as a child. I felt Paris Jackson's pain on Tuesday. Losing a father, sibling or friend can be very painful, sometimes hard to handle. We have support groups, family, friends, but know one can really, truly comfort you until your ready for comfort. If the person grieving want to cry, let them cry.......it's all in the healing process. I'm still crying from the loss of my sister and it's been a year.
Paris Jackson will have many tears to shed, but as long as we are there to lift her and her brothers up, they will make it. Let them get through the steps of grieving.
1. Communicate - Allow them to reminisce about all the good times they shared with there father.
2. Anger - Allow them to angry because there father is gone and they will never get to laugh, cry, chat or hug him again, so if it requires screaming, allow it.
3. Cry - Allow them to cry as long as it takes for the pain to ease.....
4. Support - It's ok to seek professional help, I personally feel a child should get counseling. We should take our child to a grief counselor when someone as close as their parents pass away. Child will hold the hurt inside a lot of times, then later in life they act out by getting in trouble in school, etc. and it's because they never released the pain.
Support System
Heal The World
Paris and her brothers have wonderful aunts and uncles, cousins, etc. The support system is huge and I feel as long as they continue to receive hugs, love and support they will be fine. Please remember to let them cry, talk and laugh because I believe the children are our future, we have to teach them well and then let them lead the way. Let us show them all the beauty they possess in side.
If only we could spread love and support for children that are grieving, hungry, homeless, we could truly heal the world and make it a better place.
Continue to pray for Paris Jackson and her brothers; also the entire Jackson Family.
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A great perspective to share, tieing it in to familly, children and unity. All things the Jacksons represented. How difficult to live it in the public eye, but when people like you can see the good aspects of what they have contributed, it makes it all worth so much more.
Thank you both! I also didn't realize how much the program would affect me. I think I cried and laughed all through the program. I feel so bad for those children, because like I said in the hub, I know how I'm dealing with losing my sister, I can only imagine how they must feel losing their dad and like you BkCreative with your dad.....I'm sure MJ was their hero.
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please help me I'm really in love with paris jackson then please go see it I would be recognizing you if you help me I will be recognizing
I also will be praying for those children. The day of that memorial for her dad, I think I cried during the complete service. It was a sad day.
Yes it was! Thanks for your comment
SOONER OR LATER PARIS AND THE BOYS WILL REALIZE THAT THEIR DAD IS STILL WITH THEM IN SPIRIT. HE IS IN THEIR HEARTS AND ALSO IN ALL THE MEMORIES. NO, LATOYA, THEY WILL NEVER FORGET A HUG, OR THE TIMES THAT HE TOLD THEM THAT HE LOVED THEM, OR TOOK CARE OF THEM WHEN THEY WERE SICK. HE WILL ALWAYS BE WITH THEM IF ONLY IN SPIRIT. HE WILL BE LOOKING OUT FOR THEM TOO, FROM UP ABOVE. PARIS, THOSE MEMORIES THAT ARE MAKING YOU SAD RIGHT NOW WILL EVENTUALLY BE SWEETER, AND SWEETER. YOU WILL NEVER WANT TO FORGET THE ONE THAT LOVED YOU THE MOST. MY DAD'S BEEN GONE SINCE 1995, AND MY MOM SINCE 1997, BUT A DAY NEVER GOES BY THAT I DON'T THINK OF THEM. I CAN ALSO STILL FEEL THEM. THEY ARE A PART OF ME, AND THEY ALWAYS WILL BE. IT WILL GET EASIER WITH TIME. I'M GLAD THAT YOU HAVE THE DVD'S AND MOVIES TO BE ABLE TO SEE HIM. THANKS FOR THE MEMORIES. THEY ARE WHAT GET'S YOU THROUGH. GOD BLESS YOU ALL! AND ALSO MRS. JACKSON, THIS WAS HER BABY!
BkCreative says:
5 months ago
I watched the memorial on tv - I was surprised at how affected I was - but then I know the extensive contributions that MJ made - he made millions of folks wealthy, donated more than anyone to charity, all the things he did that our media has not/will not report etc. etc. Fortuntately, the world knew him. The good thing is that there was a DJ (Lenny Green from KISS 98.7 here in NYC) who visited one local tv station and spoke and he reminded us that a family is grieving and let's try not to forget that. Yes, it was a celebration of MJ's life for us but there are children crying and MJ is the first sibling in this large family to die and he died before his parents - so while we celebrate there are people in pain. We saw that when MJ's daughter spoke from the heart.