In BDSM, play party is a social event where people meet to promote a practice of scenes involving SM and socialize with others from similar behavior.

Organizers often provide some space and often a range of equipment, while the participants generally bring their own whips, Cannes, equipment restrictions, etc.. In general, there is an area where you can eat, drink and socializing, another area more suitable for the change in clothing (as fetishwear) and an area for scenes. Here there is usually Dungeon Masters (DM - or monitors the Dungeon) to monitor the rules of the party, based on the SSC and / or RACK.

Some plays are open, others restricted to members of a BDSM club or persons known by the organizers. In plays there may be a rule of conduct or attire (dress code), or restrictions on admission, as only married couples or pairs have entered released, or non-acceptance of unaccompanied persons, for others, there may not be any restriction with respect to companions. Not specified lead guests without the science of the organizers of the event. If the play is closed, it is restricted to persons who were invited by the organization or that part of the club or fraternity. Usually at events like these, only invited people are known not only virtually, but personally. This protects the group of any non-desirable and helps to maintain the privacy of the group, a party other than open and public, that anyone can attend. Remember, it is an event for adults, thus completely vetoed the entry of children under the age enclosure.

The quantity and type of sexual contact may vary from part to part and from place to place, depending on the legislation, the involvement of people and their level of relationship and especially the rules of the House and the organizers of the play. On some plays, gender may be allowed, while in the other full nudity may be prohibited or the first rule is dictated by the organization of play.
The event

First of all, who will participate should have some notion about the type of party, which was invited / a.

Nobody is "forced" to do anything that does not want to, but should come with a spirit of party, and not just mere spectator. Not everyone, however it will have, a party may participate as sui generis.

It is very important for all to behave with education, therefore, probably, there will be great exposure by some that they do because they want to, but they deserve all the respect!

There will be people who will have much scenes "sex", however, they make them for your own pleasure and not for the other (except in the exhibitionistic). It must therefore be "out of action," unless it is invited to attend. It should be clear that one look, for example, in the direction of someone who is not an invitation to participate.

People can interfere negatively in the power of the party, for example, making comments on the scenes, which are private, even being made in public. Who is involved in the scene is concentrated in the pleasure that you are providing, and certainly in a very particular mental space. Not appreciate being dragged into another reality by any suggestion made by others. Interfere in a scene that is in motion is something that deserves no excuses. Other people may interfere negatively just watching. Those people watching the scenes as if they were watching a pornographic movie. They do not have empathy or sense of connection with what is going on. These people, in my view are not welcome!

The "dungeon-mastering" (the intervention of the monitor's Dungeon, which is who controls the scene) can, if you want to expel anyone from the party to interfere in this way.

The intervention of the monitor's Dungeon (Dungeon Master, or DM) in the scenes is a crucial point to be emphasized. This person must be experienced, and have full knowledge of the practices implemented, the risks involved, inclusive. Therefore, the importance in choosing the same, after all, it must know at least a little of each participant to judge what would be considered abusive scenes, beyond the limits of the San, Sound and Consensual. The word monitor is the final dungeon. (The Dungeon masters or monitors are easily identifiable scenes in plays outside Brazil, for carrying a garment that distune group (orange or red, for example) or a track in the arm.

In BDSM, play party is a social event where people meet to promote a practice of scenes involving SM and socialize with others from similar behavior. Organizers often provide some space and often a range of equipment, while the participants generally bring their own whips, Cannes, equipment restrictions, etc.. In general, there is an area where you can eat, drink and socializing, another area more suitable for the change in clothing (as fetishwear) and an area for scenes. Here there is usually Dungeon Masters (DM - or monitors the Dungeon) to monitor the rules of the party, based on the SSC and / or RACK.

Some plays are open, others restricted to members of a BDSM club or persons known by the organizers. In plays there may be a rule of conduct or attire (dress code), or restrictions on admission, as only married couples or pairs have entered released, or non-acceptance of unaccompanied persons, for others, there may not be any restriction with respect to companions. Not specified lead guests without the science of the organizers of the event. If the play is closed, it is restricted to persons who were invited by the organization or that part of the club or fraternity. Usually at events like these, only invited people are known not only virtually, but personally. This protects the group of any non-desirable and helps to maintain the privacy of the group, a party other than open and public, that anyone can attend. Remember, it is an event for adults, thus completely vetoed the entry of children under the age enclosure.

The quantity and type of sexual contact may vary from part to part and from place to place, depending on the legislation, the involvement of people and their level of relationship and especially the rules of the House and the organizers of the play. On some plays, gender may be allowed, while in the other full nudity may be prohibited or the first rule is dictated by the organization of play.
The event

First of all, who will participate should have some notion about the type of party, which was invited / a.

Nobody is "forced" to do anything that does not want to, but should come with a spirit of party, and not just mere spectator. Not everyone, however it will have, a party may participate as sui generis.

It is very important for all to behave with education, therefore, probably, there will be great exposure by some that they do because they want to, but they deserve all the respect!

There will be people who will have much scenes "sex", however, they make them for your own pleasure and not for the other (except in the exhibitionistic). It must therefore be "out of action," unless it is invited to attend. It should be clear that one look, for example, in the direction of someone who is not an invitation to participate.

People can interfere negatively in the power of the party, for example, making comments on the scenes, which are private, even being made in public. Who is involved in the scene is concentrated in the pleasure that you are providing, and certainly in a very particular mental space. Not appreciate being dragged into another reality by any suggestion made by others. Interfere in a scene that is in motion is something that deserves no excuses. Other people may interfere negatively just watching. Those people watching the scenes as if they were watching a pornographic movie. They do not have empathy or sense of connection with what is going on. These people, in my view are not welcome!

The "dungeon-mastering" (the intervention of the monitor's Dungeon, which is who controls the scene) can, if you want to expel anyone from the party to interfere in this way.

The intervention of the monitor's Dungeon (Dungeon Master, or DM) in the scenes is a crucial point to be emphasized. This person must be experienced, and have full knowledge of the practices implemented, the risks involved, inclusive. Therefore, the importance in choosing the same, after all, it must know at least a little of each participant to judge what would be considered abusive scenes, beyond the limits of the San, Sound and Consensual. The word monitor is the final dungeon. (The Dungeon masters or monitors are easily identifiable scenes in plays outside Brazil, for carrying a garment that distune group (orange or red, for example) or a track in the arm.

Participants of a scene did not disbelieve an enthusiastic audience, which knows the value to which permission had to watch. A public that there is no give and no connect, get a life and spirit of the scene. (A good audience makes no comments for participants to listen, not to interfere, without permission in performance.)

You can do the magic, but not really part of the scene. All you need is an honest interaction with what is going on, combined with good education and to the touch. Give to others the respect that you demand for yourself.

If someone wants to participate and there someone you want to do it, you can ask, but you should be prepared to accept a "no thanks". If you feel comfortable mixing with other people and having conversations short, you should look for people who have compatible wishes.

On departure, all have similar tastes. Often there are environments for "hard games heavy scenes and environments to make only the social, we should not try to do an activity that is in space to another. Before starting a scene hard (play edge), ask permission to monitor the Dungeon. At a party the glamor is also important. Dress in an appropriate manner, even if you do not participate in any scene is important. The more leather, latex and income to look and maybe play, the better!

The conduct on plays settles on the respect and expectation: you will find many references on the Internet and plays tag on it or can not do or say. Below are some general comments about what you should expect and how to show respec

Basic Plays

The basic principle is: be a responsible adult. Respect the participants during the scenes, be sensible with their toys and with belonging to other people, protect yourself (and others if necessary), and respect the areas of scenes and all the equipment.

The first rule is: do not touch anyone without permission duly granted. Do not assume that because someone else walks up to someone and hugs you can do the same. They must have some kind of relationship, you do not, probably.

The rule of "no touch" also applies not only to individuals but also for toys and other accessories. Many are happy to show your toys, and can let them try. Simply grab one without asking is not the correct way to interact.

Do not interrupt a scene. If you do not like what is happening, leave the area. If you think that what is occurring is unsure, see a display of the Dungeon. He is the person to assess and, if necessary, intervene to slow the scene or even terminate it.

Leave room for the Top move freely during a scene. If the space is too short for all, stay against a far wall or leave the room. If the top request that you move, move then! In most circles of the game, if you're close enough to disturb the scene, the top is within its right to draw your attention.

Do not cluster in scenes, even in scenes free-for-all. Notify the Top in advance of their interest in watching the scene it is the technique used, or even by the participants, it is usually very complicated for those on the scene to achieve a concentration required for a proper implementation, with a crowd around you trying to get space.

Be discreet in how the scenes come to social space! The comment that, admiring or jest, you think to be whispering to the person who sits next to you is often heard at the top or bottom, where the senses are hyper-adjusted, sometimes the scene stops because of you. Avoid comments acids or even derogatory, because each has its way of conducting a scene and may be different from your way, then respect the differences.

Save your comments until after the scene. The scene does not end when the action ends. Most of the Tops is with its bottons over a period of relaxation. This process of relaxation is important and should not be interrupted.

Clean everything after the scene ended. This means more than simply removing their toys in the area of the scene, since it ends. Leave a clean environment used, as was previously. Normally the dungeon offers all the necessary material for it.

In plays, relax, be yourself, be open and friendly, ask questions about BDSM technique, if you need to take any questions, listen to what others have to say. Bring your sense of humor, but all at the right time and with the appropriate person. The beginners who try to start talks with the top or the scenes during BOTTON commit one of the errors most common and most troubling of label in plays.

Not mention any names or mainly because of participants of those plays that were not at the event, without express permission of the people who were participating. These events are confidential, and that there is no exit from there.

It is always worth remembering that submissive / or the bottons are not community property, as is required with the collar and trespassing. Similarly, respect is required in order to deal Tops bottons and vice versa, always taking into account the basic rules of coexistence of BDSM.

Protocol of safeword - The use of safeword is signalling a request for assistance to persons outside of the scene: the dungeon master and the other participants will be experienced in aid when listening to this word. Do not use it in vain or serious abuse of this request for help. Typically, the pairs have a safeword who take in their private scenes. This should be of assistance in understanding the plays. Beyond, there is safeword the house, which is distributed together with the local rules and may be used by all.


Cameras, Phones and Related

Is not allowed any kind of recording scenes and shoot. If the desire of the participants of the scene, is to charge them to request that someone sign it. But anyway, preserving the identity of these is the rules of play, so even if you are the person who will perform the scene, and you want to photograph or record any of the time, tell the others that will present do.

During the scenes, cell phones must be switched off or, at most, vibration mode.

Safety, Hygiene and Prevention

Protocol of safeword - The use of safeword is signaling a request for assistance to persons outside of the scene: the dungeon master and the other participants will be experienced in aid when listening to this word. Do not use it in vain or serious abuse of this request for help. Typically, the pairs have a safeword who take in their private scenes. This should be of assistance in understanding the plays. Beyond, there is safeword the house, which is distributed together with the local rules and may be used by all.

Tell to monitor the Dungeon if you are pregnant, the bearer of heart disease, epilepsy or has a history of fainting.

The use of condoms, film, PVC, latex gloves and / or material of asepsis is mandatory in scenes with anal or vaginal sex, Fisting, rimming and play any type of blood, as appropriate. The same procedure must be observed with toys, oral sex, and any other practice that could expose body fluids. Never share toys without a complete asepsis is made. The most quoted is that each light and use their own toys.

It is desirable that basic material security must be available for plays, for the case of a play turned to a practice of shibari, fixed with ropes and / or similar, the Dungeon Master must always have on hand equipment for cutting, as special scissors or knives for safety. Apart from them, certainly, the person who proposed to the scene should have at hand. If you want to do a scene with a certain atmosphere of suspense or surprise, no problem, but it is not a surprise to the Dungeon Master, you need preparation.

Accidents or incidents are also called unexpected precisely the sole reason they are random and occur at random, so be alert. Protect yourself and others.