Please tell me if male enhancement drug/herbs really work.

There are so many garbage products flooding our markets today aimed at capitalizing on low self esteem and poor self image. The recent explosion of "magic" male enhancement products is just one more.

Today we are so wrapped up in the bigger is better mind set that we will pay any amount of money to look younger, slimmer and more attractive to the opposite sex. Everyone wants to have the edge over someone else. It is like life has become a competition and instead of sitting back and learning to enjoy life we have become a society of worriers. We worry about getting old, getting fat and being seen as unattractive. Things such as hard work and developing special skills have become a thing of the past. We all want instant gratification and miracle products.

In order to understand if a product is right for you, you must first fully understand the mechanics of the penis and the process involved in achieving an erection. The male organ achieves and an erection by triggering one of two mechanisisms. Physical manipulation of the genitalia or erotic stimuli from the brain (fantasy, smells, images). The brain will produce a chemical in the nerves which causes blood to fill the Corpora Cavernosa chambers and then contracts to trap the blood in the chambers. This trapped blood results in rigidity of the penis.

Both psychological and physiological problems can effect the function of the penis. Stress, lack of confidence and fear can prevent the brain from sending the proper signals to trigger the chemical to produce an erection. Circulatory and neurological disorders can effect the proper mechanics of the male organ.Among other things, MS, diabetes, vascular illness and drug side effects can all play a part in causing Erectile Dysfunction. Because these are all medical problems you should discuss them with your physician and only use products he/she recommends and prescribes for you.

Now to the address the issues of the products that are flooding your inbox. Do they work? Quite frankly...NO! Unless you have a genuine physical or psychological problem no amount of medication, cream, herb or patch will improve the size of your penis. Think about it. You cannot "grow" any part of your body at will. You are genetically the size you are intended to be.

As for performance; do not assume that women WANT you to last for hours. In all honesty most vaginal intercourse lasts 5-20 minutes at most. There are products that ARE worth while investing in to improve your performance and the amount of pleasure your partner will receive but they do not come in the form of a magic pill, cream or herb.

Since women are different sexually than men the number one goal you should have is educating yourself in what women really find pleasurable. Do not assume that if it feels good to you it will feel good to her! Here are some facts you should know.

• the vagina only has sensitive nerve endings in the first 2 inches. So anything deeper she will not feel anyways!

• the clitoris is the area where the highest concentration of erotic sensation in a woman therefore it is her pleasure center. NOT the vagina as most men would like to believe.
• women very rarely achieve an orgasm from vaginal penetration so the size of the male organ has little to do with satisfying a woman.

Since a woman does not achieve climax during the actual act of intercourse, it only stands to reason that if you want to become a better lover you must educate yourself on what really pleases her. You are more likely to get results spending your money on things like books on sensual play, massage oil and foreplay than any male enhancement product. Educate yourself and more importantly..ask her questions about what she likes of if she is enjoying what you are doing.

Spend more time pleasing her before pleasing yourself and you will both be much happier!