“Did he/she cheat?”

If you have to ask a psychic this question, you

may not be ready to have a real relationship, the

connection you have with the person is not 

conducive to a compatible relationship, the person

is not the monogamous type and, or the person is

not deserving of your trust or time.

Some people need and, or want variety (statistics

show it’s a lot more than some), or find that one

person cannot meet all their needs and are better

off not trying to be monogamous. It’s also a waste

of energy to attempt to force these types to remain

exclusive with you, which may be about as effective

as them trying to force you to be happily non-

monogamous.

Trying to make someone live within your relationship

ideals is not unconditional love, and controlling

behavior will incur negative karma. If you’ve been

involved with someone who can’t or won’t be

monogamous, you may want to ask yourself why you

chose, on a subconscious level, to become involved

with them. It just might be possible you’re

naturally more non-monogamous.

As a reminder, safe-sex every time is a good idea

if you have any doubts whatsoever about whether or

not your partner is being monogamous.

Not much is ever mentioned about the spiritual

side-effects of casual sex. If you’re spiritually

sensitive, it’s possible to pick up others’ negative

energy from your lover if he or she strays,

especially if it’s done with negative emotions such

as guilt or anger, which weakens a person’s spiritual

defenses. For this reason, among others, some feel

that demanding strict monogamy can be more harmful

than helpful. But fear of negative energy is a weak

excuse to try to force a lover into monogamy, since

you can inadvertently pick up cosmic garbage in

numerous ways and it’s relatively easy to cleanse

and protect yourself.

Whether you are monogamous or not, it’s a good

idea to protect yourself from dark energies.

Meditation and visualizing yourself being cleansed

and guarded with white Light are two methods.

Avoiding drugs and excess alcohol will make you

spiritually stronger. If you would like more help

we recommend our Spiritual Detox recording.

“Does he/she really love me?”

Love means many different things to different people,

and everyone expresses it differently. If you want

someone to love you the way you love them, it may

not be realistic. Consider why you are asking this

question. If you have doubts about their sincerity,

it may be time to move on. Otherwise, if you have a

burning need to be someone’s “one and only” and you

require them to voice their steadfast devotion to

you on a regular basis, consider therapy.

“Is he/she my soul mate?”

He or she is most likely one of them, since everyone

has many. If you’re looking for “The One” who you’ll

be with “together forever,” we recommend a different

approach. It’s okay to know what you want, but try

to allow each dating situation to unfold naturally

instead of trying to mold it into your fantasy or

the ideal.

“When will he/she come back to me?”

When people ask if it’s a good idea to get back

together with an ex or if the ex is coming back, 90%

of the time the answer is “no.” If one or both of them

are under age 30 or so, we’ve found it to be “no” 99%

of the time. 

When it’s over, it’s over, and if they left, usually

they’ve already made up their mind and no amount of

begging, manipulating, or hoping will change that. If

you’re the one who left, you likely did so for good

reasons. Remember those reasons and try to let go of

any fears about being on your own again. Going back

to someone who is not compatible is never a good

idea.

If your lover left, you have a choice; resist and

create more unhappiness for yourself, or accept it and

let go. It won’t be easy at first, but once you accept

that it’s over (completely, or at least for now) and

move on, you will be in a position to consider if it’s

really in your and their best interest to get back

together. The answer is often “no.”

Depending on your outlook, this may or may not be

good news for you: through our research we’ve found

that everyone has many soul mates.

“We met online but haven’t met in-person yet. Is

there a future for our relationship?”

We determine through our readings and analyses

levels of compatibility and if a couple’s interaction

will be shorter or longer-term, but if you’ve never

actually met, it’s not really a relationship. If

you’ve met more than a few online contestants in-

person, you may have realized by now that it’s

usually not a good idea to spend more than a couple

weeks emailing or an hour or two talking on the phone

with someone you’ve never met in person; if there

is no face-to-face chemistry (which is very difficult

to determine by email or phone), it will be awkward

and you’ll feel like you only wasted time. Experienced

online daters will likely understand why we say this.

Scott Petullo

http://www.scottpetullo.com

Stephen Petullo

http://www.holisticmakeover.com

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