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By Paraglider

Ramadan - a guide for non-Muslims

Ramadan is the ninth month in the Islamic calendar. That doesn't mean September, (though this year, 2009, it will begin on August 21 and end September 19). The Islamic year has twelve lunar months, totalling 355 days. Each month starts on a new moon. This means that Ramadan begins about 10 days earlier each year. The Islamic New Year also advances by 10 days per year (compared with the Gregorian Calendar used in the West). The current Islamic year 1430 began on January 28, 2008 and will end on December 17, 2009.

Mosque at Jumeirah, Dubai, UAE
Mosque at Jumeirah, Dubai, UAE

What is special about Ramadan?

It was during Ramadan that the Archangel Gabriel selected Muhammad to receive and speak the words of Allah which are preserved to this day as the holy Quran. Unlike the Christian Bible which is nearly always read in translation, the Quran is normally read in its original Arabic language. Thus, in Islam, the Quran is especially sacred as the direct word of God.


fresh dates - perfect for iftar
fresh dates - perfect for iftar

What happens during Ramadan?

Muslims mark Ramadan by fasting each day from sunrise to sunset. This is a strict fast - no food and no drink of any sort, not even water. It is hard for smokers, because that too is disallowed. The faithful rise early in the morning and take a meal, Suhoor, before dawn and first prayers. Their next meal is called Iftar and is taken after the sunset prayer. Within the faith, exceptions are made for the old and infirm, young children and pregnant and nursing mothers.

Throughout Ramadan, families get together to share food and company in the evenings and night-time, and the emphasis is always on reflection, prayer and charity. Ramadan is not a commercialised festival.


Extra tips for Gulf travellers:

Shopping, business and Government Office hours change during Ramadan. Most establishments post a notice of Ramadan Timings at their entrance. Cafes, restaurants and take-away food outlets do not open in daylight. However, food shops do open and you can buy food to cook at home. Expect hotel restaurants to be closed during daylight. International hotels will provide room service.

Dress code during Ramadan is more restrained. Legs, shoulders and arms should be covered. In stricter quarters, even the wearing of jewellery is frowned upon, though this is not universal.

Alcohol outlets (if any) usually remain closed throughout the month. In Dubai, hotel bars open in the evenings (after Iftar) but with no live music. The Filipino bands are often allowed home for the month. In stricter states, bars are closed for the whole month, even for residents (though minbars may be stocked).

Lewd or offensive gestures or speech, never popular in Islam, are particularly to be avoided during this month when people are trying to keep their minds pure. But that's always good advice!

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Some tips for non-Muslims

If you live in the west, your life goes on as normal. Nevertheless, it is good to be aware that your Muslim colleagues may well be fasting. It is considerate to respect this, and not to make a show of eating and drinking in their presence. It is good to say 'Ramadan kareem' in greeting. It will be appreciated, as I'm sure you would appreciate a 'Merry Christmas' from the locals if you were working in Saudi.

If you live in an Islamic country (I live in Qatar), Ramadan is enshrined in law; it is not simply a religious option. You are not obliged to fast, but you are required to respect the traditions. Here are some tips to avoid accidental offence:

  • Take a good breakfast in the privacy of your apartment before venturing out for the day. If you must have lunch, take a packed lunch and find a private place to eat it. Better still, try to do without. Most of us carry a few extra pounds anyway.

  • Don't snack - avoid coffees, sweets, gum, etc. during the day. Most of this is habit, rather than necessity, so it's a good discipline. You'll want to drink water. Try to find a private place.

  • Try not to smoke. If you really must, find a private place, but also consider why you must!

Be careful on the roads! Driving standards are low in the Gulf States at the best of times. Just after sunset, the roads are full of people rushing home to break their day-long fast with their families. Many are dehydrated and very tired. Seriously - be careful!

Ramadan Kareem!

Postscript - tips on fasting

Sometimes, non-Muslims living in the Gulf states choose to take part in the Ramadam fasting regime, either as a token of respect or in some cases simply because of circumstances. If you are not used to fasting but decide to try it, the following suggestions may help:

  1. For your pre-dawn meal, choose slow energy release foods like pasta, rice or whole meal bread. Avoid empty calories (sugar and sweets) and avoid fried or heavily salted foods that will make you thirsty all day. Drink plenty of water with this meal.
  2. During the day, unless you wish to be very strict with yourself as a discipline, drinking water is better for your health than doing without, especially in hot countries. Dehydration is not good for the body.
  3. When you break your fast at sunset, take a little fruit and water first (dates are traditionally served) to take the edge off your hunger. Then take dinner later in the evening.
  4. Go to bed early as you will be rising early to eat. Sleep deprivation has no health advantages.

As an aside, there is concern often expressed in the local papers that some Muslims, though they fast through the daylight hours, may over-indulge in the evenings and through the night, socialising to excess with friends and family, even to the extent of putting on weight through the month. This is contrary to the true spirit of Ramadan and has parallels in the West in the over-commercialisation of Christmas.

Ramadan Kareem! And thanks for reading.

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Guru-C profile image

Guru-C  says:
2 years ago

Ramadan Kareem!

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Paraglider  says:
2 years ago

And to you, habibi !

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Rmnathan  says:
2 years ago

I am here in UAE for 14 years now, and am familiar with various aspects of Ramadan. Irrespective of religion, whether you are a Muslim or not, every one is allowed a reduced working time during this period. Therefore many of the non-Muslims too can manage to avoid the lunch by usual 1 P.M. As you said this is a matter of mutual respect. Ramadan Kareem.

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Paraglider  says:
2 years ago

I was in UAE for three years and am now in Qatar, which is a stricter society, more akin to Sharjah than to Dubai or Abu Dhabi. Though non-Muslim myself, I enjoy the spirit of Ramadan in these countries.

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Guru-C  says:
2 years ago

A few of years ago, an Islamic couple who were neighbors of mine prepared me a dinner to break the Yom Kippur fast (a Jewish holiday) and some time later, I prepared them a dinner to break the Ramadan fast. We all decided that peace on earth was possible. A few years later, at my wedding, that same woman who was my neighbor read a poem by Rumi as part of my wedding ceremony. We are sealed as friends for life.

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Paraglider  says:
2 years ago

That is a wonderful story and very much of the kind I'd hoped this hub might attract. I am much travelled, and still travelling, and see more harmony than disharmony among ordinary people. Peace comes from people, wars from governments.

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LdsNana-AskMormon  says:
2 years ago

Paraglider -

I appreciated this Hub very much. There is a reverence in your writing that touches my heart. Thank you, for sharing a glimpse of how others worship. It was truly beautiful.

tDMg

LdsNana-AskMormon

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Paraglider  says:
2 years ago

Thank you - I travel a great deal (in fact I am rarely at home) so I've learned to value the differences in cultures and religions.

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topstuff  says:
2 years ago

Im commenting now as the Ramadan is over.But the message was nice and conveyed in a good way.

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Paraglider  says:
2 years ago

Thanks for the comment, topstuff :)

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SweetiePie  says:
17 months ago

Interesthing hub with good tips.  However, I must say I disagree with your point about not making a show of eating in front of other Muslims.  Many work places have a ritual of bringing goodies in for co-workers and I am sure a good Muslim would not be offended if others partaked during Ramadan, just as I am not offended if my co-worker tells a high school student working with us part-time that college is about drinking and smoking.  I offered my two sense on this issue by saying I think smoking and drinking is not healthy, but I would never say "No you can talk about this". 

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Paraglider  says:
17 months ago

SweetiePie - Thanks for visiting. I'm not saying non-muslims (in the west) shouldn't eat in the presence of colleagues who may be fasting. I'm specifically talking about 'making a show' of eating. It's a subtle distinction, but a real one, I think. But mainly the hub's about what to expect if visiting an Islamic country, especially in the Gulf region. And I've just noticed I need to revise this hub with this year's dates. Ramadan is coming around soon!

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SweetiePie  says:
17 months ago

I believe in Qatar and Egypt you would need to do as you say. I hear it is even wrong for non-Muslims to drink in many places during Ramadan, so I see what you mean.

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Paraglider  says:
17 months ago

It's quite simple - as I explained in the hub, Ramadan is not simply a religious choice in some states. It is also the law of the land. So, you just don't eat or drink or smoke in public during the daylight hours. It's no hardship and actually quite refreshing.

Ohood  says:
15 months ago

ramadan is teaching us "Muslims and even our brothers and sisters who are non-Muslims" patience and also to respect each other and understand mercy .

hunger is a great lesson for us to beleive in chraity and help.

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Paraglider  says:
15 months ago

Ohood - thank you for visiting. The whole character of the city (Doha) changes during this month. People's priorities are reassessed and their perspectives change. I agree that it is good for all of us to experience.

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usmanali81  says:
6 months ago

Great informative hub.

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Paraglider  says:
6 months ago

Usman - thanks for the visit. You've reminded me I must update the hub with this seasons' Ramadan dates.

nasheed  says:
4 months ago

lovely month of ramadan is 25 days ago.

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Paraglider  says:
4 months ago

Nasheed - 25 days to go, yes. This year it starts Aug 21.

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tonymac04  says:
3 months ago

Great, caring and respectful Hub - would that we all could be so accepting and respectful of the beliefs and feelings of others.

You have set a great example here, Para, and I appreciate it very much indeed.

Salaam aleikum!

Tony

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Paraglider  says:
3 months ago

Hey, thanks Tony. I've been a guest in Islamic countries for the last seven years. This is just an attempt to give something back in return for much hospitality.

nettech profile image

nettech  says:
3 months ago

Some great information there, its a great remonder to those who maybe new to Arab Muslim culture. Ramadan Kareem for 2009.

Paraglider profile image

Paraglider  says:
3 months ago

Thanks nettech - Ramadan Kareem to you and yours too :)

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Shalini Kagal  says:
3 months ago

If only more people respected and were considerate of another's way of life..... it would be a different world!

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quicksand  says:
3 months ago

The world would be different if we are different! When we choose to remain the same, life too will! ... But that's what makes life worth living! Diverse mentalities! (If I may call it that!)

Hey! Gives me an idea for a hub! I am starved of ideas as I am participating in the 30 day challenge!

Thanks Paraglider!

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Paraglider  says:
3 months ago

Shalini & Quicksand - thanks for visiting this old hub as it approaches its third Ramadan! I refurbed it this year with a couple of new photos. I enjoy my Qatar Ramadans. Though not a believer, it's still a peaceful time.

fasil  says:
3 months ago

fasil love safana

Nita D.  says:
3 months ago

Thank u for giving good advice..I will marry a man from Egypt soon and i want to learn as much about his religion as i can. I want to respect his beliefs as i respect him. Ramadan Kareem

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Bbudoyono  says:
2 months ago

Para, your hub is not only informative but also touching. Thank you very much.

Paraglider profile image

Paraglider  says:
2 months ago

Thanks Bbudoyono. I look forward to reading some of yours from Indonesia.

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prettydarkhorse  says:
6 days ago

hi Dave, I came acroos this article of yours, am I late already, last month is their Ramadan, but I learned a lot from this one, as always with your other article.

Respect for their tradition is a must also, I think that this is somewhat equivalent to Lenten season (Catholic tradition) wher eyou also fast for the duration of Lent. I have a Muslim friend and I always repsect her during this times!

Thanks again and have a good day always! Maita

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Paraglider  says:
6 days ago

Hi Maita - in the Philippines do you fast throughout Lent? That's quite a major undertaking. In UK some people give up one or two luxuries (chocolate, alcohol etc) for Lent, but fasting, Ramadan-style, is unusual.

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prettydarkhorse  says:
6 days ago

hi Dave, yes for me I just take away one of my usual addiction like I will not drink Coke for one week, then I will be back to drinking again LOL! I think the Muslims are more die hard with their beliefs! Or I will not go shopping LOL! But I remember during Lent in the Philippines, I accompany my mother to the church for three hours, hmmm, it is boring for me usually because I am still young then, and then my mother will pinch me if i make noise,

hmmmm, but every year I always celebrate it on my own, like having some kind of penance!

You have a good day, Always, Maita

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