Random Acts of Kindness
56The Joy of Giving
The random act of kindness is the most rewarding experience that one can have aside from a child being born or possibly a wedding day. I have show this generosity on many occasions and am not writing this to toot my own horn but instead to inspire someone else to show the same compassion to another human being. Here are a few examples that I have either performed myself or have heard about others performing.
I was sitting in an IHOP eating my stack of pancakes when I over heard one of the waitress' talking about how her son was sick and she didn't know how she was going to pay for the medical bills. She seemed like a nice girl who was down on her luck so I asked my waitress if she would mind if the girl in need could wait on me. She smiled at me and said that she would ask her if she would mind switching tables with her. The waitress in need walked over and I asked her about her son. She told me her story and asked if I needed anything else. I shook my head no and asked for my check. When she laid it on the table I waited for her to walk away. I then took all the money out of my pocket and put it on the table. It couldn't have been more than $500 but I knew that it would help. I then paid my bill with my debit card and left. I didn't wait to see the look on her face but I know that she must have been ecstatic.
While I was stationed in San Antonio I saw a man sitting on the sidewalk holding a sign that said "Will work for food". I saw many people walk by him. Some of them tossed quarters at his feet, some ignored him, and some even chastised him for begging. I walked into a restaurant and bought a complete meal. It was a whole chicken with a bucket of mashed potatoes and a side of corn. I gave it to the man and handed him $50. He thanked me and asked if there was anything that he could do to repay my kindness. I smiled politely and shook my head no. His eyes were filled with gratitude.
I heard of a woman in a store who while checking out offered to pay for everything that the person in front of her had. That person then took that money and did something good for someone else and so on and so forth.
I don't know if the people I helped ended up helping anyone else but I would like to think that maybe they did. I wish more people would take the time and effort to show this kind of generosity to others. The world would be a much better place if we all just helped out in anyway that we could. I try my best to do this but at the moment like many other I am flat broke. I still take the time to help anyone that I can. It can be something that is a simple as helping a stranger with an arm load of groceries. I hope that this gives someone the spirit of giving or at the very least the spirit of helping.
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i totally agree...giving doesn't have to come in the form of money. people respond to kind words as well. being overweight myself, i often tell overweight teen girls how beautiful they are. if only someone would have told me that when i was a teen. just going out of your way to help someone is the most wonderful thing.
I agree and thank you for your comment and I hope to hear more of your feedback on future hubs. Thank you again.
It is a shame that this sort of thing is not common place. It should be. One of my most common acts of kindness is, when Christmas shopping, to buy a pair of warm cloves for the person standing outside ringing the bell. They typically don't have any.
I never thought of that but thank you for the idea. If you don't mind I think that I will do this as well.
I certainly don't mind. Thank you for taking it up.
You are welcome
Agro,
Your comment about the waitress has been done before. I've seen it in a very old movie. There must be a lot more kind souls out there than we realize, the sad thing is 'good' news is rarely published. I also published a hub about a random act of kindness, and of course I agree, it's a wonderful feeling.
Trish
I didn't know that it was in a movie but that is kind of cool. I hope that everyone who reads this hub takes the time to help anouther person in any way that they can. I will take the time to read your hub as well and I am truly looking forward to what you have to say.
Hi Agro,
Thanks very much.
From one helper to another :)
Trish
All through the year I purchase leftover yarn at garage sales and knit mittens in 3 different sizes while watching TV or just relaxing. This results in a big trash bag of warm and colorful mittens that I donate to a local "Warmth" drive each winter. I don't know who ends up with my mittens but I know they've helped keep someone warm during the cold winter months.
Another thing I've done--and it sounds lame to even mention it--but sometimes when I've been in line at the grocery store, the person ahead of me doesn't have their store discount card with them to get the sale price of an item and I've let them use mine.
There are so many small acts of kindness a person can perform that doesn't require money. We all need to look around at least once a day and see what we can do for someone else to help make the world a better place to live in.












In The Doghouse says:
2 years ago
I too have experienced the joy of giving and nothing can compare to the "high" you get from serving others. Thanks for that reminder.