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Reasons Why Men Lie And Why They Lie

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By Shil1978


We all lie irrespective of gender, but some experts claim that men lie more than women. Of course, other experts claim the opposite. But, since we are talking of men here, lets just focus on them and the reasons why they lie. There is at least one reason for which men lie across the spectrum. Even if the man has a supposed good image of being a honest person, you just can't trust men when it comes to this. The thing I am talking about, of course, is sex. Well, haven't you come across men who would say anything to get laid. You have right? They just would lie between their teeth and they just don't care if the lies are oh so obvious and apparent.

Sometimes, the lies are just so ridiculous - you can definitely get a good laugh out of them. But, as dumb as their lies might be - some women do fall for it. Reason why they keep trying their luck with lousy lies. When a man says, "you are the most beautiful woman I've met," - do you really believe him?? You'd like to and its good to hear - but more often than not, they don't really mean it - especially if their ultimate intention is to get lucky. In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if sex turned out to be the number one reason for lying among men.

Sometimes, men just lie because they have a false sense of ego and they hate admitting that they don't know!! Do you expect statements like, "I don't know how to do that," from them?? They like to pretend that they know all. They would like to fix things - even if they don't know how to go about it. Saying "I don't know" is just not an option. If you ask them, "do you know how to do that?" - even if they don't know - they would tell you - Yes. Men can drive around hours before asking for directions. Of course, asking someone is an affront to their ability as a man. They like to pretend they know better.

Reasons Why Men Lie And Why They Lie

 

Another reason why men lie is to avoid conflicts. If they know they would have to argue with their spouse/girlfriend/boss, etc, they'd rather lie and avoid that potential conflict situation. Men lie online all the time. They pretend on the Internet that they are someone they really are not. Why? Because, they can get away with it. They'd like to believe no one is watching them and they are perfectly safe assuming various forms online. Would men ever admit as to what they really do online?? Men love the anonymity of the online situation and they love lying about their activities online because no one can really question them without providing hard evidence of their doubtful activities.

Well, now that we know a few reasons why men lie - the more important question would be if you can catch men lying. I always watch for body language. Folded arms across his chest are a good indication that the man is lying. Also, they don't make good eye contact when they are lying. To summarize, men are right at home lying. It almost seems to come naturally to them. They have almost perfected it to an art form. You almost have a grudging appreciation of how fully they've mastered the art of lying.


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feeweewv profile image

feeweewv  says:
7 months ago

We all lie, regardless of our gender, I know that, but it seems that men lie more when it comes to matters of the heart. I think women in general wear their hearts on their sleeve. It bothers me, especially lately, that men say things they don't really mean for whatever reason. I'm still tryin to figure them out.

langson profile image

langson  says:
7 months ago

I think we should also think whether it is necessary whether someone should lie despite the situation.for me lie is a lie despite the reason why should one lie.

Shil1978 profile image

Shil1978  says:
7 months ago

Feeweewv, I don't think you can quite figure men out. Men say things they don't mean all the time. It seems much easier for men to lie - they don't seem to think much about lying either. Its just a harmless thing for them.

loua profile image

loua  says:
3 months ago

Shil1978, I would have to say that what you describe is not gender dominated, its an equal opportunity pass-time...

Shil1978 profile image

Shil1978  says:
3 months ago

It is my perspective Loua - it might not be gender dominated, as you say. Women lie too. This hub was in response to a specific question about "why men lie?" So, I focused on men and the reasons why they might lie. Thanks for dropping by loua - appreciate your comments :)

Niki Pham  says:
2 months ago

I had a good laugh reading Why men Lie. I almost wet myself! lol.

Thanks for writhing about this topic.

Shil1978 profile image

Shil1978  says:
2 months ago

Niki - woah, I didn't know this would have that much of an impact on you! Lol. Glad you liked this though - an interesting topic it is!!

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