Facts about selfishness of women in a relationship and dating

Good day wonderful people of the earth! We have a very wonderful topic to discuss this day and that is,  Facts about selfishness of women in a relationship and dating.  Well, i conducted some observation and research on this issue and yes, it is very funny that in a relationship there are many things that men experienced, which would really connects to the selfishness of women.  I know that this blog would raise arguments to some women.  But the bottom line is every example that i will show on this blog is factual, based on many experiences of men.  Women may consider it as a nature of having a relationship but the truth is they are hurting their partners.  Well men with enormous patience would ignore the hurtings or whatever as long they know that their GFs love them well. But i would say it also unfair to most men that being hurt many times with no clear reasons at all is really not good.

According to Askmen.com that a selfish woman has the following:

1. Has a grandiose sense of self-importance.
2. Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love.
3. Requires excessive admiration.
4. Is interpersonally exploitative (i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends) and lacks empathy.
5. Is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her.

Well western women are more of that, and that goes more to Asian women.  Those are some of the men thought of a woman, but i would say they are right!

Here are some clear examples when their selfishness occurs:

1. When the guy is late for 5 minutes, for a woman it is like world war 3 is about to come.  When the guy showed up, whatever explanation that comes out from his mouth would never reach to her ears.

2. When the guy received a friendly message from a woman. His Girlfriend would then erupted with so many queries about cheating and blah blah and blah blah, not knowing that the woman is his sister.

3. When the guy forgot to send a message or call, his girlfriend would then leave a message on the answering machine telling the guy, "BETTER FORGET ME FOREVER!"

4. When the guy forgot to give his GF a gift on her Birthday or Valentines Day.  His GF would then start locking herself in her Room, which then worries her family. And expect his father would  call you  with words - "Hey Asshole if you hurt my daughter again... you are sure dead!".  My goodness! She simply could not received the gift on time because the delivery of your gift from Paris got delayed.

5. When you two are together in a certain place and then some crazy things happen, somewhat like she forgot to bring her umbrella, make-up kit etc... She would say ,"IT IS BECAUSE OF YOU!" 

Well, to be honest I am just exaggerating my examples, but the important we know that most women are like that, and the best reason why many relationships are successful, that's because of patience and understanding.  We all have that!

According to teen-romance:

"Let me stress this point: this woman isn't going to get "better" than she is right now. She's going to constantly be out for herself - her needs, her goals, her wants - all to the exclusion of yours. If she can prevent you from reaching your goals, all the better in her eyes as this gives even more value to her own! Is that really what you want in your relationships? I sincerely hope not!

You need to wake up here and see what's really going on. Women that have good self-images and respect and consideration (even love) for the men they're with, don't act like this. Further, you can't love her care about her enough to make her change. Even worse, all of this is extremely unhealthy for you."

Just be what you are and love love love and keep keep doing the best for the relationship. I tell you would soon discover her selfishness and then started to value your efforts.