Rebuilding trust in relationships

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By Sagan


Open relationships, while not something generally thought of as being promoted in Western societies where monogamy is the norm, do have their place. In today's world, infidelity is becoming more widely accepted, or at least acknowledged as a reality.

But infidelity, whether it is something that you are experiencing in your own relationship or if it is something you are witnessing in someone else's relationship, is a breeding ground for suspicion and mistrust. The desire to uphold societal standards of the value of monogamy outweighs the realization that infidelity indicates that there is something drastically wrong with the relationship, and people stew in silence. Worse yet, they get their revenge by engaging in such acts themselves.

Under these circumstances, open relationships are one of the answers. It requires a level of trust and understanding that is higher than most people are able to offer, but it is the recognition that with everyone being so busy, we are simply unable to be "enough" for our significant other. They go looking elsewhere for some kind of satisfaction. And in an open relationship, this is understood and honesty and trust allow you to both communicate about your feelings, wants, and needs.

If only to re-establish the trust and honesty that we appear to have lost, open relationships would seem to be the way to go provided everyone is mature enough and honest enough to handle the situation. Trust and communication are necessary to a strong, happy, and healthy relationship.

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Writer Rider profile image

Writer Rider  says:
14 months ago

That's an interesting way to approach relationships. I'm not sure, though, that I can share my loved one with someone else.

soni2006 profile image

soni2006  says:
14 months ago

Thanks for answering my hub request, and I agree with your statement above " Trust and communication are necessary to a strong, happy, and healthy relationship ". Best of luck.

Sagan profile image

Sagan  says:
14 months ago

Writer Rider- I'm not sure that I could share my love with someone else, either. But I think that it is an option which DOES work for some people! Especially if their needs are not being met in the relationship.

Soni2006- It's an interesting question! And a very relevant one, what with all of the discussion about monogamy vs polygamy these days.

Writer Rider profile image

Writer Rider  says:
14 months ago

Sagan I wasn't trying to be offensive. I would never dictate which way a person should live-ever.

Sagan profile image

Sagan  says:
14 months ago

Writer Rider- not offended at all! I am very glad to hear your opinions and thoughts about all of this.

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