Relationship Workshops, Seminars and Trainings

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Relationship Workshop leaders, Paul Sterling and Kristin Denton

Couples are learning to overcome relationship problems with a simple but powerful the 4 step method of communication
Couples are learning to overcome relationship problems with a simple but powerful the 4 step method of communication

Relationship Coming Apart at The Seams?

Kristin and Paul's Site is For Couples That Still Care About Each Other... But Are Having Relationship Problems, Troubles and Conflicts... And Want To Turn Things Around Starting Today... Who Want to Bring Back the Trust, Honesty, Intimacy, Understanding and Yes... Even the Passion.

Discover the Tools To Turn Your Relationship Around Starting Today.

All relationships will eventually hit a relationship wall.

At some point, past issues from childhood or previous relationships will creep up and threaten to end your current relationship.

It happens to everybody - it seems to be the way the human brain is works.

We get scared because our needs were not being met in our past relationships with our parents or a previous lover, so we developed strategies to try to get those needs met that may be less than glamorous (like yelling, pouting, withdrawing, hitting).

And then we use these strategies to try to get our needs met in our currnet relationship.

You really have to be compassionate with yourself about the strategies you developed when you were younger - you didn't know a better way to get your needs met.

But now, in this relationship, you may be using the same old strategies - and they may be driving your beloved AWAY from you instead of bringing you closer. It's true - you have some beautiful needs that must be met. But maybe there's a better way of getting your partner to help you meet them.

And in the same way, your lover is probably wanting some of their deep-seated needs to be met and they may be expressing themselves in a way that is pushing you away instead of bring you closer.

That's where Paul and I come in. We coach people in our relationship communication skills through the Magic Relationship Method.

We teach you how to relate to your beloved in a way that will make sure that your needs are met AND that you remain close to your beloved.

First we'll teach you "The 5 Relationship Wrecking Communication Mistakes." Once you can identify these you'll be able to avoid them in your communication with your beloved. It's the first step in renewing your relationship and making sure that things don't become worse. It's also the first step toward changing the way you relate.

Remember, you can't change your partner (you may have already tried - and you'll probably agree that it just can't be done. People are resistant to change when it's initiated by somebody other than themselves - think about the last time you told somebody they ought to quit smoking.)

And really, you don't need to change yourself. Deep down at the bottom of your upset is a desire to get your basic human needs met. You need love, appreciation, support and intimacy with another human being. You're just wanting to get these needs met. So you don't want to change that about yourself (if it were even humanly possible).

But what you CAN do is change the way you relate to your partner so that they will be willing to help you get these needs met.

The second set of skills Paul and I will teach you through the Magic Relationship Method is the 4 Step Communication Formula. This is a simple, four-step formula for creating communication (not just monitoring your communication as with the 5 Mistakes).

It's a little more difficult to learn because it requires creating communication in a new way - different from what you're accustomed to doing. But remember, what you're doing right now might be driving a wedge between you and your beloved.

We absolutely guarantee that this 4 Step Communication Formula will bring you closer together. Using this, you'll be able to connect lovingly with your partner even in the face of old wounds and baggage that usually drive you further apart.

We also guarantee that it will take some time to become a ‘natural' at using this technique. But if it would give you back the love, passion and understanding you used to have in your relationship, you'd be crazy not to give it a try.

Think of it this way: where have you been focusing most of your attention lately? On your work? On your friends? On your entertainment (like sports and television)? What if you put the time, money and energy that you've been devoting to these other pursuits into re-making your relationship into the relationship of your dreams?

It's plain to see that just this shift in your attention, just signing up for our Romantic Weekend and Seminar in Estes Park will begin a huge shift in the tone of your relationship.

To find out more go to: http://www.magicrelationship.com/workshop

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kris84web  says:
2 years ago

Your Relationship Coming Apart at The Seams...? Paul's site is for couples that still care about each other... but are having relationship problems, troubles and conflicts. Check it out at http://www.magicrelationship.com/workshop. Do you want to start turning things around TODAY?

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