Relationships and Psychic Readings: Answers to Two Common Love Life Questions

“When will I get married (or meet my life

partner or soul mate)?”

Many young adults ask us this question. Though

we can determine through our readings and analyses

when someone is likely to experience a compatible

love connection, we always recommend to those

not yet in their 30s to avoid spending too much

energy looking for a serious relationship or

marriage partner.

Many of them would be much better off going with

the flow, dating, having fun, enjoying their youth,

learning who they are beyond the social

programming, and focusing on their careers so they

have a life before they try to make a relationship

“permanent” through a legally-binding agreement.

It would be nice if you met a compatible “life

partner” early in life and remained happily together

for the “rest of your life.” Unfortunately, most

people’s soul schedule or personal fate doesn’t

always include what they want, when they’d like

to experience it, contrary to popular New Age

opinion, no matter how much they “master the art

of manifestation.”

Also, the concepts of lock-it-in-forever-happy-

marriage and life partners are human, artificial

constructs, not spiritually-based; our belief is

that on a soul level they are viewed as unrealistic,

and life-long relationships aren’t perceived as

mandatory or even necessary in many cases when

a soul is planning the next incarnation.

If you think about it, in most cases, a fulfilling,

satisfying relationship with the same partner from

your 20s until you die of old age is unrealistic

since everyone changes (for better or worse) at

different rates. Yes, some couples do “grow old

together” if it’s destined to work out that way,

but if it’s not, people don’t have to suffer for

the rest of their lives. It’s not the 1800s any

more, thankfully. People don’t need to rely entirely

on a spouse to survive anymore. You now have the

option of being independent and being with a

partner because you want to, not just because

you’re settling in order to survive.

As far as the notion of a “twin flame” soul mate 

goes, we’ve found through our long-term, empirical

research that it’s as mythical as Santa Claus and

the Easter Bunny; it’s an illusionary and subjective

concept. Although some soul mates are better than

others, after all the illusions fade away, there is

no perfect match. Distorted, romantic idealism can

be an innocuous escape, but too often it leads people

astray, detracting from their earthly purposes and

making life more complicated.

Instead of viewing marriage as an important

destination and wondering when you’ll be swept

off your feet, a better question to ask would be

when are you most likely to meet someone who

is compatible, or experience one of your more

compatible relationships.

In addition to accepting the truth that not all

relationships are meant to last a lifetime, we also

recommend accepting that everyone has many soul

mates. These two suggestions alone will save you

much heartache and stress.

We’ve found that all relationships have destined 

starting and ending times (emotionally and

romantically), and most are not meant to last

“forever,” even if a couple chooses to stay

together, essentially as roommates for whom the

flame has long since extinguished, if it even existed

at all. If you look at the big picture, a life-long

relationship may seem ideal, and it may be part of

some people’s path, but from a spiritual

perspective, it isn’t as important as you may think.

If you would like to meet a compatible soul mate,

make the most of yourself and have faith that you

will meet the right people at the right time.

Letting go of any resentment or regret from past

relationships and accepting your status of being

single will clear the way for a more compatible

person, and remaining open to new possibilities

instead of thinking in “all (‘The One,’ ‘Forever’)

or nothing” terms will lead to more success in your

love life. If you’re already involved with someone,

letting go of expectations (that may or may not be

related to the “twin flame” or other soul mate myths,

or “acceptable” social standards) and accepting the

person and situation as they are will lead to more

harmony.

“Does he/she like me?” “Is he/she thinking

about me?”

We can understand if you don’t want to make the

first move out of fear of being embarrassed or

rejected. But it’s really not your right to know

what someone is thinking unless they tell or show

you.

Meditate and ask for signs about whether or not

it’s a good idea for you to make it clear you are

interested or to contact the person. You have

nothing to lose, unless you work together. In that

case, it’s usually best to remain friends due to the

possibility of the relationship issues causing

problems at work.

Scott Petullo

http://www.scottpetullo.com

Stephen Petullo

http://www.holisticmakeover.com

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