Moving and Relocation Made Easier

You've been transferred, found a new job, or perhaps you've moved due to retirement. The moving vans are long gone, the bedrooms are painted, and the computer's all set up in the new office. Now what? First, breathe a sigh of relief and treat yourself to something special - you deserve it. Then, get ready! Your move is not over yet.

It is not uncommon to find yourself in a new city with lots of free time, but no family or friends close by. This can be challenging and it's easy to start feeling lonely and isolated. One solution is to get involved in your new community and many opportunities exist if you know where to look. Here are a few ideas to get you started.

Join a Club

A quick check of the local clubs in my area found everything from golfing to recreational tree climbing. Some cities have the equivalent of a "new neighbors" kind of club. Meetings for most clubs are posted online and are sometimes listed in the newspaper. Don't forget to explore local health clubs and gyms. Not only do they provide opportunities to meet others - your waistline will thank you as well.

Take a Class

Have you ever thought about learning a second language? What about learning how to brew your own beer or build a boat? Look into the adult education courses offered in your area and take a class in a topic you find interesting. A wide variety of classes can be found through community colleges, county park and recreation departments, and even retail outlets and private businesses.

Volunteer

Have you ever considered doing some volunteer work? Now is the time and there are lots of places that need your help. A quick check with two volunteer matching sites on the web listed over 80,000 opportunities. Some of those are bound to be in your area and they present a great way to really get to know your new community.

Check Out Your Surroundings

Go for a daily walk in your neighborhood and stop to chat with people working in their yards. Take Fido to the dog park for a good romp and strike up a conversation with the people you meet there. Check to see if your neighborhood has a newsletter that lists events like block parties and casual get-togethers. If you have children, talk to the other parents in your neighborhood and at school. Religious and spiritual organizations exist in every community and can offer a source of support and fellowship for you and your family.

The people you'll be interacting with are established in their routines and you're the newcomer. It's time to be outgoing and friendly. Remember, it's your move.