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To Each His/Her Own
Each man and woman here on earth, is entitled to judge for him or herself what turns them on. Each may not be entitled to love whom they want. Moreover, they may not be entitled to marry whom they want. Nevertheless, we are entitled to be sexually turned on by this or that. “To each his own,” is the saying known across the globe.
One thing that all human beings have in common is that, we each have had associations with insecurity. However, many may out grow this burdensome pain. It seems that those who do not grow out of it are easily rattled by low self-esteem. This is one of the most unattractive features to carry. The cause of low self-esteem comes from a variety of different reasons. Nevertheless, the worse reason occurs when a person carries a piss poor perception of himself or herself. Nothing looks uglier on a man or woman than insecurity and self-doubt. That is why the selected pictures were chosen. Each one of the woman showing, is the perfect example of the effects of having the right attitude. They all have strong perception of themselves. In addition to that, they seem to have a sincere sense of security, towards their own individual bodies. Each one of these woman are completely different from the next. More importantly, these women know that their most attractive features shine when they carry within themselves a strong sense of security. Though some of these woman may be physically unattractive, nothing is sexier than strong, smart, beautiful women.
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Wow, you're pretty harsh, " the worse reason occurs when a person carries a piss poor perception of himself or herself. Nothing looks uglier on a man or woman than insecurity and self-doubt." I agree that self confidence goes a long way, I lose mine on a regular basis. Guess that makes me ugly on a regular basis.
All people are beautiful.
Does one then presume perfection in oneself? No self doubt, therefore no flaw - to me that spells no improvement. Ever. In life, those who scare me the most are the ones that have absolutely no self doubt.
I'm with Randy on this one. Sometimes I have a hard time dealing 4 pregnancies and way too much chocolate changing a size 3 into, well, not a size 3. So I guess my insecurity makes me ugly, too.
It is a shame to sit in pity and deny yourself the luxury to sit in front of mirror and say, I'm beautiful. Sometimes Randy the truth hurts. Sorry that is how you feel about yourself. Maybe you should think about this, take my "harsh" advice and do yourself some good. I would have never pictured you ugly. But hey if that is what you are inside- then that is what you are. At least you're keeping it real.
Yeah I think people drained by self loathing attitudes are ugly. Don't like what I have to say about that- well..... there is not much I can do to help you.
I for one can't see how anyone could take this hub so personal. Sounds to me like someone is being a tad selfish. Which isn't usually caused by being ugly.
Another thing, I noticed nobody commented on the strong and smart aspects of my hub. Very interesting.
to each his own. Its true though that the inner beauty or ugliness will shine through.
Laughing mom you're a mother of 4 children. If you don't have self confidence because of size I think you're cheating your children out of their birth right. You are their mother for Christ sake. Try being proud of that and not worrying about your size.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I believe I stated to each his own. Have any of you ever thought about the fact that maybe YOU are beautiful for more than just your size. Geez, give me a break here. You are a mother. Start behaving like one and quit pettying yourself because you are not a size 3. Which for me is WAY TOO tiny! I like my woman natural and fuller. It saddens me that you think only of your size as the stipulation of you security. YOUR children should be YOUR security. In them YOU should always have confidence and shine!
Exactly Goldentoad. I think we posted our comments at the exact same time.
I'm not sure what "pettying" myself is, but I'm pretty sure I'm not doing it. I don't pity myself, either, if that's what you meant. You can't tell me, RK that you are not insecure about ANYTHING from time to time. No one thinks they're perfect. But insecurity doesn't have to translate into ugliness. I don't by any stretch of the imagination think I'm ugly. I'm just not pinup material. Never have been. Even at a size 3, which for 5'4" isn't really all that tiny. My moments of insecurity don't make me into some blubbering idiot, I promise you.
And I don't think I'm cheating my kids of anything. They are very happy and healthy and we spend alot of quality time together. My point was, like Randy's, I thought you were being harsh when you said it makes us ugly.
is (A) Vida Guerra? If so, that girl is a big ole lowrider hoe! ..and let me tell you VIDA cannot sing (as her photo says) !
But other than that I agree that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, its true. But it is also a fact that ones who are EASY ON THE EYES do seem to have it easier sometimes. Lets say me, I used to model...I always got in the clubs VIP, never had to pay for a drink in my life and nothing was ever expected. I was treated like a QUEEN.....and so were my friends as long as they were hot. Once we took a friend who was on the rotund side and they refused to let her in but escorted us to VIP. I felt bad for her so I left. But it is true most people are SHALLOW and look at the looks first! I love who I am no matter what I look like and others should feel the same. Its just sad when the world focuses more on the exterior of a body rather than the interior of one's soul...
I think I understand what you were trying to say in your hub. Sometimes I'm "rattled" by insecurities. And in those times I feel ugly. I am ugly in those moments. It takes like 90 some muscles to make a frown and only 2 to make a smile. A woman tends to age faster when under stress and living with the pain of low self esteem. I'm a mother of 1 child. I have no excuses like laughing mom. I've only had 1 child 13 years ago. I'm a size 20, and I wear a 42D bra size. Damn straight I'm ugly when I have a piss poor attitude. I was just as ugly when I was a size 6 and wore a 36D. It doesn't matter what size you are when you live with low self esteem. Low self esteem wears a person down, fat or thin. You gain more wrinkles, your sluggish, tired all the time, depressed with permanent black circles under your eyes. What's attractive about that? Nothing RK. I agree with what you say. I don't think you were harsh with your words. Your words are an inspiration. More people need to take a good hard look at themselves, and be happy with the life that they've been given. And another thing, when I am down on myself- all I have to do is look at my beautiful son and know that I created him, and the rest of my self pity washes away.
Shit too, Laughing mom- must be nice to worry about a size 3. I haven't been a size 3, since I was 3. Count yourself lucky.
Thank you RK for this hub. The next time I think I'm too fat and ugly, I'll remember what you wrote.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Inner beauty is by far the most important. Let it shine let it shine.
Insecurity to me just offers up a vulnerabilty which I don't consider to be a refelction of ugliness but it is merely a tenderness, a fragile tenderness that is honest and beautiful.
ahhhhh TOAD is being sensitive for once. What is wrong? Are u on your period? Need some Pamprin? Kotex? Chocolate? Just kidding!!! ha ha ha
Reminds me of "Shallow Hal"....great movie. It really is about one's inner beauty, but so few realize that or stop to notice.
I think some people might find a certain insecurity in a particular person as charming and endearing, and not ugly as you suggest. I understand your point though, and it's true that one can benefit by self-confidence and so forth, but you're taking it a bit too far...perhaps? If that insecurity leads to ugly behavior...that's different...but the insecurity in and of itself...not so bad.
Frankly, some of those women are horrendous no matter how they feel about themselves.
"One thing that all human beings have in common is that, we each have had associations with insecurity. "
Hello Laughing mom- did you actually read my hub?
Thanks IntimatEvolution. Hold on to that confidence. It's priceless.
Yes I agree that the world should let the inner strength shine. The sexiest woman in the world to me is a smart woman. I don't care how big or small she is. Laughing mom- I believe you can read that somewhere in my hub too.
Thanks for pointing out my type-o.
RK sorry if I got your dander up. I am a gentler soul than you, so you came off as abrasive to me. You are strong and self confident and I admire that, honestly. Sorry I judged you, as I see it forced you to then to judge me as self pitting and ugly on the inside. I don't think I'm either. But who am I to judge, hah. I think its lovely that you can find beauty in all sizes as evident in this and your other art focused hubs. I just think that true beauty is so much deeper that skin and flesh and attitude. It is something that takes hundreds of lifetimes to get right, I'm not there yet. Love and Light, R
um, what we talking about? wow, I like reading the comments on this one. Even though I am told I need to eat more...I applaud women like these who love to show their figures. Everyone is beautiful in their own right. Intriguing hub...curious.
Nice photos up there pal! Thanks for the topic. I think sometimes our self esteem gets affected by the society outside so, our looks to ourselves should be excluded...
Your caption on that last one really touches me!
Great photos though!
How wonderful that you presented women in all shapes and sizes what a representation of beauty. Beauty does lie within and the rest makes the package. :)
The last one is it for me
Paper Moon says:
6 months ago
I love the last pic. Quite nice to throw that one in. :)