With all do respect to age old questions and problems, I'd like to give my take on attracting the opposite sex........ Keep conscious men, that women enjoy thoughts that they are the first thing that guys think about and that they remain on their minds throught out the day. While this maybe true in various forms anyway,it has to be true that they must feel that they are the only one. The only way a women will accept a space in the man's mind that other women are occupying, is if that man has certain things going for him.

First, he must chose his words carefully. He must not be a liar but he must speak as if he knows that a lady, not just a woman, is in the room. You don't need flowery speech just respectful and thoughtful words. You must take charge of who you are, meaning that wherever you are in life you must own it and have some sense of direction of where you are going to take it. This makes women believe that you have power, if you have a command over something, most importantly your life.

Next, own what your personal style is but be able to adapt to whatever style fits the atmosphere. This is not personality but clothing, never change your personality be who you are 100% and respect whoever she is and whatever she does as if she were a friend. Cleanliness is very important, we like the smell of a freshly washed man just as you like the smell of a clean woman. Chivalry is not dead but alive and very sexy as evidenced by chick flicks everywhere. A girl has got to know that you will give yourself for her whether you are looking for the one or just love looking at women.

Keep your mind on what you like about her as she is speaking, whether it is the breeze catching her hair or the way she pronounces a word. This ensures that if your mind wanders she will know that your thoughts are still on her.

Finally if you are stuck in a rut, ( being a geek, loner, or just shy) take some time investigating what it takes for you to get that first look, this could be as simple as changing your clothing or hanging out with a group of men that attract more women. Then remember all of the above and the rest will take its course.

A final note, do things that you naturally enjoy in front of women, this will peak their interest because they'll see your passion about something, however most of all, remember to have fun!

Your friendly universal,

Riley