Role Playing | How To Improve Your Sex Life
75What is Role Playing?
Role Playing is when two people (preferably a married couple) act out specific fantasies. These can be fantasies that have been created by one or the other parties involved. It can also be something that has been created by someone else. Role Playing can be fun and exciting because it adds new dimensions to enhance a couple’s sex life. Role Plays can show you how to improve your sex life as well.
For those of you who have done acting, modeling or dancing know that you must get into your specific character that you are assigned to. Improving your sex life with Role Playing is no different. In a Role Play both you and your partner have a specific part to play. Some may need some time to think about their part and others can adapt to their role pretty quick. No matter what it takes to get into you role, you must make sure you get into the right mindset to do you part to get the best experience.
Role Plays are meant to be fun and exciting and improve your sex life, but the excitement can be lost if one or both parties don’t take their role seriously. The worst thing is for someone to come out of their character and kill the mood. This is why it is VERY important to study your role first to make certain you can keep up with your partner. When role playing, there is no written dialect or script, there is only a scenario. You most likely won’t know what your partner will say and/or do, so you must prepare yourself to go with the flow.
How Do I Role Play?
Whether you are looking to improve your sex life or just want to ad more excitement,to have a successful Role Play one must be willing to have an open mind to whatever scenario they are acting out. You must have some level of creativity to be able to allow yourself to be the person in your role. One common mistake made in Role Plays is that people tend to try to make character into them self. Let me explain… If you are performing a role play and your character is a French Maid, don’t make French Maid into yourself and do the things you think you would do if you were a French Maid. Instead, turn yourself into a French Maid. Step outside of yourself and let your imagination take over.
A Role Play is not the time to be shy. Role Playing involves a lot of thought. Even though there is no written dialogue there usually is dialogue involved. You must interact with one another and most importantly go with the flow. There is no stopping once the Role Play is started. The goal is not to create an Oscar winning performance. The goal is to have fun and great sex in the process.
What Are The Advantages of Role Playing?
The act of Role Playing can have many advantages. First it adds variety to your sex life. You are the same two people having sex, but you are having sex in different ways and settings. You can have sex five different times in your bedroom with five different role plays and each time will be completely different from the last.
That is what makes Role Plays so exciting. You fit them around your own setting and then get into your character and you can be somebody different each time. In the beginning it may be a little difficult to get into character, but as time goes on you will be a Role Playing Pro, improving after each Role Play. Your spouse will nominate you for a Role Playing Oscar. Your sex life will soar.
What Do I Need To Role Play?
Role Playing require a very vivid imagination and a little creativity. That’s really all that is needed. But to make your Role Plays more exciting, you can add a few things to the mix to improve the experience. If you are playing the role of a Cable Repair Man (or woman), then you may want to purchase a utility belt and a uniform. Purchasing uniforms and costumes is as easy as visiting your local costume outlet or purchasing online. A great place to purchase costumes online is WonderCostumes.com.
Another excellent prop to make Role Plays more exciting is location. All Role Plays can usually take place right in your bedroom. But if you really want to make it more exciting, venture outside the confines of your bedroom walls. For example if you are Role Playing about meeting someone in a bar, then actually go to the bar and act out your role play. The Role Play can start with you meeting someone in the bar and end in the bedroom. The more creative you get with your Role Plays, the more excitement you will have. The goal here is to improve your sex life.
Here's A Role Play For Practice...
This Role Play is called “Working” Late
September 30th, it’s the last day of the month and the last day of the third quarter. You have so many deadlines to meet before the calendar turns to October. For the entire week you and your team have been putting in a ton of hours working hard to make the deadline. Your boss has given you more work this quarter than he has ever given you before. You are so overwhelmed but you are determined to get it all done. You seem to always get all the extra work when you boss delegate’s jobs. You don’t mind the extra work normally because you have been known as a very hard worker and your boss usually compensates you with quarterly bonuses.
This day is much different. Along with all the work you normally have two of your team members have been out sick so you have to pick up the slack for them. You have been behind in your own work for the past week trying to make up for your two team members being out. You are normally cool under pressure but this time everything seems to be coming at you at all ends. You have paperwork, calls to make, accounts to fix and budgets to create; all before midnight tonight.
Its 8:30, everyone in the office has left for today. The only person in the entire office is you. You have been working hard all day and it doesn’t even seem like you have made a dent in any of your work. You find yourself about to lose it because you know there is no way that you will have all your work done before midnight. Right when you are about to throw in the towel, you hear a noise coming from outside you cubicle. You rise from your seat to investigate where the noise is coming from. When you reach the opening of your cubicle, you are surprised to see the latest member of the management team walking towards you.
You: What are you doing here?
Her: I was about to ask you the same thing. I left some reports here that I need to get done.
You: I am finishing up these last few accounts we need to have closed today along with a few customer contacts and then I have to have the budget ready by tomorrow to present to the boss.
Her: Wow that sounds like a lot. Are you going to get that all done tonight?
You: I have to have it done before morning.
Her: Geez… You’re going to need some help.
You: Well… uuuuuhhhh.. I uuuhhhh… OK.
You are finally calm because with her help you think you have a chance to get it all done by morning. She pulls up a chair and begins to help you get the work done. The two of you are working diligently. You call and have some pizza delivered as you take a break. Once the break is over you continue to finish up all the work.
It’s now after 1am and you are just finishing everything. You let out a loud sigh of relief. She lays her head on your shoulder and says, “We did it.” You put your arm around her shoulder and thank her for her hard work. She looks up at you as you look down at her, you make eye contact. You both stare into each other’s eyes for a moment. You get this warm fuzzy feeling that you haven’t felt before. You then kiss her. She kisses you back. Next thing you know she’s sitting up on your desk while the two of you are kissing. She is undressing you and you are undressing her. Can this be the reward for working late?
Instructions
Figure out where you want this Role Play to take place. This can be done in your bedroom or if you have a home office, it can take place there. Next, you both want to read the scenario. Have in your mind what you will do to make it exciting and different. Don’t share your thoughts with your partner. Prior to the Role Play there should be little conversation about the scenario. The only discussion should be where it will take place. The only other thing you should discuss prior to the actual Role Play is if you are going to act out the entire scenario (recommended) or pick up from where the text of the Role Play left off.
Once you have your set in place, get into your character. You are no longer you for the time being, you are your character. Once you are in character, you don’t come out of character until the Role Play is over. Put your all energy an effort into it. Most importantly HAVE FUN!
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You have just completed Role Playing 101. You are now ready for some of the more advanced Role Plays. I will try to have a new Role Play each week for your sexual pleasure.
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Thanks for a very interesting on role playing. thanks for sharing. creativeone59
@ Azalea Lii
That is what I am trying to do. I want people to envision my words and put their own spin on them.
@ creativeone59
Thanks again. I'm just trying to put on paper... or rather on screen some of my thoughts
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My wife encourages me to wear lingerie when we have sex. While I don't imagine myself as a woman when doing so, this subtle form of "role playing" does definitely enhance our love making. I like it!
@EctomorphGuy... Things that work to bring excitment to your sex life is what role playing is all about. Thank you for your comment.
Very hot! I loved all the role playing scenes, very sexy!
I love to roleplay. I am very fortunate in that my husband understands my passion for other women as well. He not only understands but has learned to enjoy. Thanks for sharing - very hot!
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Azalea Lii says:
2 months ago
Interesting tutorial; I would like to place emphasis on how delivered the scenarios into real life situations, this will allow the readers to view in their mind scenes that can be portrayed into a deliverable standpoint. Often readers are unable to mentally view what they are reading. When a writer is able to mentally provide their message to their readers this is when you know that your work has been absorbed. Job well done ;)