5 Wretched, But Liberating Romantic Truths

The love life realities we've discovered through

our work since 1992 aren't entirely easy to digest,

especially for those with old-fashioned romantic 

values. Even we find some of them troubling.

We've been accused of having fatalistic

viewpoints, yet even though some of the below

information may seem a bit harsh, objectively

weighing and even eventually accepting it can

help you gain happiness and improve your life.

1) While it's not easy to let go sometimes, you

must if you want to flow with your life instead

of battling it, which will only cause you more

stress and make you miserable. For example, you

want to remain in your current love relationship,

yet circumstances beyond your control force you

apart, or your mate wants to dissolve the union

and there's nothing you can do to change their

mind. On the bright side, if you had great love

life timing during this transition (as previously

forecasted by a professional) it may very well be

representative of an entirely new lover, unrelated

to the one that you are trying to hang onto.

Expectations of fulfilling, lasting (e.g., life-

long, until at least the 50-year anniversary date,

etc.) love connections aren't reasonable. Remember,

we all have more than one soul mate (some are more

compatible than others) and few relationships are

destined to last forever, though unconditional

love does transcend lifetimes.

2) The duration of a relationship is predictable

and is just another life situation symbolically

ruled by comprehensive cyclical timing methods.

For example, you enter a romantic relationship

under lucrative, yet "...ends sooner than

expected..." love timing. One year later you

enter better romantic timing, some of the best

of your life. Does it mean that you will

automatically go deeper into the existing bond

and enjoy even better relations with your current

love? It could mean that to some degree, at

various points during the timeframe, but what

transpires is dependent upon your mate's timing

and the compatibility energy between you two.

You might be fated to split with your lover (at

the very least, on an emotional level) under your

upcoming great love life timing and connect

with somebody else.

By the way, when we talk about duration of

a relationship, we're talking about when a

relationship has naturally run its course,

when it's clear that it's over (to those f.ree of

self-deception), not when the two people finally

go their separate ways years or decades later.

Staying trapped in a relationship that's

over is like over-sleeping until late afternoon

on a beautiful day; you're wasting precious

time.

3) Considering that you have many soul mates,

any given fantastic love life phase could easily

include two or more new romantic interests, and

they don't always show up at the most appropriate

times, as fate dictates. In our Love Life Timeline's

(see www.scottpetullo.com for more information )

"additional information" page, we state that under

the most favorable love life periods for any given

person, "Single people are empowered to capitalize

on the best times in their lives for seeking romantic

partners, and for those already in committed

relationships, the Love Life Timeline displays the

most opportune times to deepen love connections."

But that doesn't guarantee 100% romantic delight

with the lover you're already committed to.

The timeframe offering "...most rewarding love

connections...," for example, where love timing

is at a peak point, might include dramatic discord

and subsequent dissolution of an existing love

relationship upon entering the period, even if that

type of situation isn't reflected in the overall

forecast. The circumstances outlined in Love Life

Timelines, for instance, are most fitting for people

actively looking for new love, and those couples who

are aware of and realistic about the length of time

they are destined to be together. Aside from the

subject's personal timing based on cyclical timing

methods and their natal personality traits, you

must also weigh the new partner's personal timing

and the compatibility energy.

4) Be sure to proceed carefully with any new love

interests when you're under rough love life or

financial timing, as it could result in loss. To

know about your fate, aside from your romantic

timing, consider carefully the financial timing

(e.g., the timing outlined in a Money Timeline,

as symbolized by all the collective, related,

astrological and numerological time cycles in

connection with natal indications) when you meet

a new love interest. Although you may not have

fantastic financial timing three years after you

first connect with your mate, for example, the

fact that you did when you met him or her is highly

reflective of the financial fate of the connection.

This concept of placing great emphasis on your

personal timing at the start of anything significant

in your life also applies to other areas of life such

as relocation or starting a new career. For further

clarity, it's also important to consider the natal and

timing indications of anyone else directly or indirectly

related to your love relationships, such as through

legal arrangements, including family, business

partners or other circumstances.

5) Instead of hoping your love interest is "the

one" for a lifetime, be grateful that they are in

your life now and accept each relationship for

what and how long it's meant to be, while at the

same time doing what you can to make the most

of it. You have the opportunity to learn and grow

from each person you meet. Each connection is

invaluable in what it offers from a spiritual

perspective, no matter the duration.

Scott Petullo

http://www.mystictwins.com/

http://www.holisticmakeover.com/

Stephen Petullo

http://www.holisticmakeover.com/

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