Safe Dating Tips for Girls

Hi everyone,

I am writing this hub today in hopes of of helping those girls out there who are serious about finding and keeping a relationship but don't really know where to start thinking or which direction to go.

When it comes to finding the right guy, most girls who are serious about their relationships often run into a mind boggling chain of emotions and thoughts:

• Is he a player?
• Do I know him well enough?
• Does he have a job?
• Is he family oriented?
• Should I give him a chance or keep my doors open?
• Will he spoil me, love me and treat me like a princess?
• Does he drive?
• Is he charming?
• Does he have a progressive mind?
• Is he health conscious?
• Is he educated?

Although these are good questions to ask yourself in order to evaluate a man, many girls still end up in bad relationships. How can you be certain that you will find a man who can satisfy all of your physical, financial and emotional needs? How can you be certain that the guy you're about to meet is honest and not just some player who wants nothing more but SEX? Here are some tips for you:

• Don't take everything at face value
• Ask lots of questions when chatting
• Make sure you feel comfortable at all times when you chat with him
• If he is abusive, leave right away
• Chat on the phone with him for awhile.
• Before agreeing to a date, find out about him as much as possible
• On your first date, only agree to meet in a public place that is convenient and well known to you. If he has trouble with this, he obviously isn't the right one.
• If you're very uncertain, tell your friend where you're going and who you are going to meet.
• Plan an "exit strategy" for yourself, if you feel uncomfortable in anyway about his attitude, posture or if he sounds threatening and rude, avoid getting close to him.
• don't invite strangers to your home
• arrange for lunch or coffee instead of dinner
• choose an area with a lot of people

You are the one in charge. Don't let yourself be talked into anything. Always think "outside the box". A patient person will always be happy to wait until you are ready. If he is serious about you and if he really wants to be with you. He will always understand and not force you into a situation where you don't want.