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Secrets To Make Your Ex Return Your Call

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Secrets To Make Your Ex Return Your Calls

Hi

What does it take to get your ex to return your phone calls?

It seems some people have all the luck and some just don't, some know exactly what to say and others don't. Isn't it time you educated yourself a bit more on human behaviour??

There are a few secrets to make your ex return your call

There are 'magic' words that you can use
It gets even better!!
Did you know that there are words you can use that will almost certainly make your ex feel curious and motivated to return your call??!!
Isn't that something?


How does it work?

I am going to share this with you because
this is one of the biggest questions that gets asked
from the over 35,000 subscribers that are trying to put their relationship
back together.

So i will answer.."How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?

BUT....

WARNING!
In the book the Magic of Making Up, it's describe how it's done, it reveals
a complete strategy.

But if you use this technique alone without having a plan or strategy ..it can be damaging your relationship more than if they never returned your call!

What NOT to Say!

Before telling you about the words that do cause a major (positive) effect, let's first cover what certainly does NOT work, and will put yourself in an aweful position.

They fall usually into 2 categories:

PLEADING: "Steve please answer the phone or else call me back, i have to talk to you this is the 4th time i called you this week"

EMERGENCY "Nancy this is an extreem emergency, please call me back a.s.a.p."

I think you agree with me that there is obviously something wrong with this, place yourself in the shoes of the person who is being called (Steve or Nancy) ..would you
call your ex back when receiving these messages?

Okay i won't go on and on...

How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest
To Your Advantage

It's a known fact that two of the most powerful forces (emotions) in the human mind
are CURIOSITY & SELF INTEREST

So here is the BIG secret!!
When you combine these 2 together you have you magic recipe!!

Hmmm...let's give an example what will work almost EVERY time...

(Using a friendly tone)
"Hi Steve, it's Clair. I really do appreciate what you did for me, please give me a call back so i can thank you personally."

See this is combining both Curiosity AND Self Interest.

Steve will not be able to resist and as soon as he hears your message his thoughts
would be like "what did I do for her"? and "what does she appreciate so much"?
Steve will be feeling good because the message was very positive.

Now....

Make sure that you figure out, before you call, what the very thing was that he/she did that you appreciate! It can be a little thing but it needs to be plausible.

But more importantly

2nd WARNING!
Halve an underlying strategy, like the strategy i discuss in the Magic of Making up system BEFORE you call!

All I am saying is this....

What it is you do before/during and after you have them return your call
is way more important than getting them to call you back.

Does this make sense to you?
Have a PLAN!==>

Thank you for your time!!

Start working on feeling better instantly with all the tips and advices that T Dub shares..I can tell you I am for ever great full for his insights that helped me feel way better a fixed what was broken, Thanks T. Check it out: Magic Of Making Up!

Some bonus video for you from the author of the book:

T W Jackson

Watch this very valuable Video he made

Take your time to listen to T W or T Dub.



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