Hit a point in your relationship where things have become routine and boring? Do you and your lover find time for sex in your schedule the same way you find time for doing errands.

Whew. How did you get to that point? Where did the time go? What happened to the two people who couldn't keep their hands off each other? Your still those two people right?

We get comfortable in our relationship with our lover and in the hustle bustle of everyday activities, by the end of the day just cuddling on the couch watching a movie seems enough.

It's not.

Remember back when you two first met. Remember those exciting nights and adventurous mornings? Remember how happy and full of life you felt? How do you feel now? Still feel like your a pussycat and can't wait to jump your lover the moment they walk in the door? Don't you just miss that feeling a little? Are you really all that happy with planned intimate moments?

Bring back the excitement and adventure. Not only will it renew and revive your love, it will spill into the rest of your life and your lover and you will start having more fun again outside of the bedroom.

Here is your moment. This works best if you can be alone for the night. Send the kids to grandmas and tell anyone that has an open door policy in your house that tonight the door is closed.

This is your relationship, leave work early if you must to create your spark night. You will need to prepare a dinner. Something the two of you have not had in a very long time. Keep in mind when choosing a meal to leave out foods like galic and onions. Skip the beers and bring in a bottle of wine. If your not wine drinkers consider making cocktails.

Clean up the bedroom ahead of time. Set out candles to be lit later. Take a shower or bath before your lover gets home and use their favorite perfume/cologne

Your bedroom is the most important room in the house for your relationship. Does it say, clutter keeper with your junk piled up or midnight passion with sexy bedding? Get rid of the TV, consider a smaller bed and make the bedroom reflect your sexuality.

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1. Call your lover at work. Tell them they've been on your mind all day and your really looking forward to seeing them. Drop a little hint of whats on your mind. Mention something to the effect of "I have a special idea tongiht" or "I was thinking maybe we could try out something new tonight" Leave this open and start your lovers imagination. DO NOT SAY "I'm trying to put spark back into our relationship because you've become boring. Take a shower when you get home so that we can get at it like our nieghbors dog". This will not work.
2. When they get home greet them at the door. Grab whatever is in their hands and set it on the ground. Hold one of your lovers hands and give a quick kiss on the side of their lips. You want to touch the lips just barely but not engage in a liplock tongue action kind of moment. As you pull away keep eye contact for a few moments, smile, then slowly slip your hands away frm theirs and grab whatever your lover had walked in the door with put the things away for them. Yes they will be shocked because you haven't done this since your first few months together. Go with it.
3. By now you have their attention and they are going to be very curious where this goes from here. Ask them to sit down by you while you finish dinner and serve them a drink. Make moments of eye contact. grab their attention, look deeply in their eyes, smile then break away.
4. Leave the talk about work, kids, family, anything that even remotely reminds you of your everyday lives outside this moment. Instead lead the conversation to memories of when you first started dating. "remember when we were young and _________". If your lover asks what has gotten into you your response is "I missed the old us, the us we were when we first met.". They will probably take a moment to process this and realize they feel the same way. Serve your lover their dinner and keep the conversation on your past still. Relive the good times
5. After your meal, suggest your lover go upstairs and take a warm bath or shower. While they are in there clean up the meal and go up to light the candles in the bedroom.
6. When they are done with their shower or bath, lead them into a quiet space. Not the bedroom and not a room with a TV. You do not want to jump in bed right away and you do not want your moment lost to the TV. Whereever you are at, remind them how sexy your find them and begin to kiss and caress. take your time before returning to the bedroom. You didn't go straight to the bed the first few times your made out, don't do it this time either.
7. When it is time to go to the bedroom, lead your lover by their hand and pull them into bed with you. You've got it from here

You've made a spark but how to keep that flame going? Remind yourself often of this night and of the nights from back when you first met. Find new and alluring ways to catch their attention.

The more you want these kinds of nights and the more effort you put into creating them, the more your lover will do the same. Good Luck.