Give Your Man The Gift Of Yourself!

You may lead him to a fantastic bedroom experience right now!

One or both of you may decide to prolong the massage to include a

nap, or else make it a sexual experience that lasts and lasts! Tell him

this is his evening and for him to decide--his wish is your command.

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Bath time can be so sensual that your man will never want it to end. There are several things that you will need to entice your lover to the bath. Wait for an evening when you both are not harried and you've prepared a delicious dinner, preferably with chicken and peaches which are supposed to have aphrodisiac properties, along with a nice salad for its complementary property of attraction. You can improvise on some of these ideas, such as by ordering delivery of his favorite Chinese or Italian chicken dish and making up the bed in the satin or silk sheets before he comes home that night. Place a sprig of parsley on the dish to make it look like you've slaved in the kitchen all evening. Then place the food in your fancy "best company" dinnerware. Light some candles on the dining table and set a vase of a beautiful bouquet or realistic artificial flowers in the middle. The candles that float in the glass with water are particularly romantic. Now is the time to start doing whatever it is that is a real turn-on to your man, whether it's playing with your tongue in his ear, biting his neck gently, thrusting your tongue playfully in his mouth. You may suggest stopping dinner momentarily to dance to a romantic favorite song of his.

Have a CD such as a romantic, slow one of Barry Manilow's on the player in the bathroom by the time he is finished with dinner. You could undress him gently as you suggest a little massage therapy for him. There are many books available on the subject of massage, such as at Amazon.com or visit your local Barnes & Nobles. A little massage oil, such as KY Touch Massage Oil makes the massage much more sensual so that you don't pull on his skin. Stroke him lovingly, and let your hair and face touch him gently on his chest. You may lead him to a fantastic bedroom experience right now! One or both of you may decide to prolong the massage to include a nap, or else make it a sexual experience that lasts and lasts! Tell him this is his evening and for him to decide--his wish is your command! Kiss him lightly on his ears, his eyes, his nose, his chin, his cheeks and lips as you run your fingers through his hair. He won't remember those flirtatious office women if you follow this program occasionally.

Light some beautiful candles, all white can be very romantic and virginal, but all Christmas scented with red and green candles would go along with a holiday theme. Draw a nice bubble bath or herbal bath such as lavender for aroma therapy. Use a bath pillow, and you can add a capful of bath oil to pamper and soften his skin. Be sure and check the temperature for safety. Some men prefer very hot baths, and others prefer them just very warm. Take into consideration the climate in your home and his personal preferences. Keep a soothing body wash and a loofah available to bathe your man after he soaks for about ten to fifteen minutes and relaxes to the music. Bathing gently with the lathered loofah, tell him in a loving manner how you love to take care of him and sing along with the CD if he enjoys your singing. This may be a time to enjoy the music alone if he has had a particularly busy and noisy day at work or while traveling. Be sure and remind him to relax, that you want to take care of him tonight.

A nice man's towel wrap was a great gift last Christmas that my man really enjoyed all this last year. An added bonus is that it is so easy to unsnap in two seconds and can be left on for preliminary foreplay. Take safety precaution to put out the candles before retiring to the bedroom. You can further the sensual and relaxing experience of this night by massaging a little French Vanilla hand and body lotion on his skin as French Vanilla is also considered a fragrance that is aphrodisiac in nature.

Your man should be putty in your hands by the time you entice all of his senses. Your willingness to please him should not go unrewarded. My husband loves this combination relaxation/sensuality preparation routine. Follow these steps, and your lover should melt into your arms and want to give you whatever you want for Christmas! I told mine I wanted him with a big red bow tied around him under the Christmas tree. The gift would be subject to change depending on how many years you've been together. Enjoy the fruits of your labor!