Is sex dearer to a man or is love of affection the grabber that gets him the woman?  Love of affection is stronger a bond than a physical act of love.  Men although thought to be brazen and thoughtless because hey are for the most part conditioned not to show lots of emotion, are really seeking the same feelings of love and affection as the woman.

Most of these men will not admit that they are in love with a woman and want to demote their feelings to the physical realm.  Most men want to think that  once the physical act of love  is over then the relationship will be over.  But sometimes after the physical act of bonding such as sexual activity, the man can not get his mind off of the woman.  He thinks about her constantly knowing the the plan was to hit and run.  He had planned on having sex and then leaving those two words behind that men crave and those words are:  love and commitment.

These men may be few who view love of affection over sex. Women know that the best time to attract a man is in his formative years which is the dating stage of finding compatibility with a partner.  Women are not using their sexual attraction to snare a man but knows that sex is sometimes  more desirable to them than a love relationship.  Some women may play hard to get later when they know that most men  have pleased their sexual pleasures and now it is time to get to the real relationship.

Women are more interested in the real relationship and so are some men.  However conclusive studies have shown that men think about sex a whole lot more than women.  Because of the permissiveness in society, most men are getting in touch with their feminine sides.  Men do have feminine sides because while in the womb all human beings start off as females. Then the gender gene sets in and determine the sex of the child. (Simplistic view that may be debatable by macho men who are stoic in their sexuality)

 Because of this evolution of society's acceptance of even seeing men cry on the big screen, men are getting more and more in touch with their feminine sides.

The more men get in touch with their feminine side and realize that they are more than just testosterone dwellers seeking the easiest route to release, they began to look at the love of affection more than the physical action of sexual activity.  Woman can sense these desirable qualities in these men who are not just after their bodies, and these are the ones they seek to marry.

It is a known fact that sexual prowess as a game requires many participants but love of affection only require one partner who you would like to spend the rest of your life with.  Of course there must be compatibility in the sexual realm.  But more so than that, there must be a relationship where two people feel that they can conquer the world because of their love for each other.  Some men are really looking for that one person that will not only make them feel the love of affection but will bring out their best qualities and make them a better human being.

It is difficult to find a man of this substance as he is growing up with hormones raging and girls willing to use their sexual attraction to hook them up to marriage.  Because of the changes in society, however, women are waiting to marry and are getting into careers to make sure that they can care for themselves before taking on a serious relationship.  These smart women know that they have the attraction factor with their sexuality but are not about to give in with someone who may just be out to play game with their lives.  These women seek men who are more interested in love of affection than just the physical action of sex. 

Men are dearer to love of affection for long term relationships but will not say no to a sexual invitation.  The women have to make sure that they are in love with the person and that the relationship is serious before succumbing to a man's advances for sexual pleasures only.  The allowance of men to be less masculine and to get in touch with their feminine sides is the major factor that has love of affection being dearer to men than sex in today's society.