Famous Question about Teen Sex

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What is dry sex and is it possible to get pregnant from doing it?

Dry sex is going through the motions without actually doing it. Otherwise known as "outer course" couples often resort to dry sex to avoid pregnancy. But, if the man ejaculates much too near the vaginal opening, the woman can still get pregnant.

 

Can a girl get pregnant from having sex during her period?

Yes. Sometimes it happens that a girl, in the height of her ecstasy, will ovulate. I keep forgetting to take my pill.

 

Will it be safe for me to get the birth control shot? Will there be side effects?

Weight gain is definitely one of the side effects, so if you're conscious about your figure, don't. And if this puts you at high risk for an unwanted pregnancy, something you just can't handle at the moment, then there's only one option open to you: Don't indulge in sex just yet. Girls who take the pill will have their periods every 28 days. Girls who get the birth control shot will stop having periods after they have been getting the shot for a while. Imagine that kind of interference to your reproductive system. Most obstetricians keep their patients on oral contraceptives no longer than three years straight. The reason: Keep women on the pill much longer and they may find difficulty conceiving should they decide it’s time to have another baby. Likewise, controversy still rages on whether hormones from birth control shots and pills do guard against cancer or increase the risk for dreaded disease. With such dire possible consequences, many mature women are now approaching the matter of artificial contraception very guardedly, boning up on the subject before making a choice. Experts advise teenagers to take the cue. After all, there's more to life than just sex.

 

My boyfriend knows I’m intent on keeping my virginity intact until marriage, so he suggests anal sex instead. What have you got to say about this?

Remember that virginity is not just a physical state of being; it is also a state of mind. Resorting to anal sex may keep you technically a virgin, but in surrendering your innocence you alter your outlook in a way that can be damaging to your psyche. From a physical/medical standpoint, remember that advanced AIDS research has indubitably found anal sex to be a high risk sexual activity. So if you and your partner have not been tested for HIV, use a condom—or abstain altogether.

Must we wait until marriage? I know he’s the right one for me and I’ll definitely marry him someday but before I do so I'd like to know if we are sexual compatible. I ’m especially referring to semen allergy a cousin of mine turned out to be allergic to her husband’s semen, which eventually led to their divorce.

More and more, couples are blaming semen allergy for their discomfort with sex when the real culprit could be an infection such as urinary tract infection (UTI). Actually, semen allergy is extremely rare and does not show up immediately after sex, but rather takes a while to develop with continued contact with semen. And if this should happen in a marriage filled with love, there are many options other than divorce. Ergo, this is no reason for you to experiment with sex.


How do I manage pressure from my boyfriend to have sex?

The best boyfriend material (and ultimately the best husband, too) is not the man who is quick with the girls. Rather, it is he who knows how to control himself and act responsibly. You don’t have to have sex to keep a boyfriend. If sex is the price of a relationship, you might as well find someone else.


How do I manage pressure from my girl/friend to have sex?

Always go out with a group and avoid getting caught in a situation wherein the two of you can be alone together. Also, do not be afraid to say something like, "Our family’s religion says that sex should be an expression of love within marriage" or something to that effect. You're on the right track; find strength in your conviction.


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